Truth up front, even if it's awkward. It's hard, but best.
I agree. I'd make sure your feelings are known even before you move.
There's nothing worse than living with someone who you can't relax with.
Well, he knows that I have no feelings for him.
It's just that I get insecure of how to act and things like that.
You are on a slippery slope to a problem ...
Sounds like my marriage.
I use a vaginal lubricant - it makes things far more enjoyable for us both, and much less painful.
Free accommodation is not to be sniffed at.
If it were me, I would run the other way. If he has feelings for you he is going to think that, with time, you will have feelings for him, too. I have been down that road before and it turned out very messy.
You know more about him than we do, so you must think he will cool down when you get there. On the other hand, you have to ask yourself why he invited you over there in the first place. You might want to mention you're looking for a love and might end up bringing home friends/fuckbuddies.
ooh thanks for the hugs Catnip. Seriously, in your shoes I'd say thanks but no thanks. But if you think you can handle it...
Good luck whatever you decide to do and hugs to you too.
As long as he won't be a child about it, and you can handle a little low-key tension, maybe it will work out fine, though.
That's a big 'if' for some though...knowing that any random comment or look might be construed as something it's not.
I think that's why he offered everything for free. In hopes of winning you over someday.
Unless I was damn sure he got that I was never NEVER going to fall for him, I wouldn't go at all. And if you do, pay your own way so you don't "owe" him anything.
I think you're making your own bed and you're going to have to live with the outcome.
Thanks Nic, I think you are right. I'm like that.
If I get fed the right meals, I'll be around forever.
I find that the best way to deal with errant cats is a microwave. They stop misbehaving after their eyeballs burst.
But of course that only works for cats that actually fit in the microwave.
My cat is too big for the microwave we got here, Durrasch.
Sorry...
Sassy Red-haired Mod/Beach Kat
And I thought my life was complicated at times.....
Hope it all works out Cat!
Hiya cat so I have been following this post a while now. from you maybe moving in with a guy that your not into. I have not read the posts for a while. who is this man that likes another man I was following this story but i need a catch up info ha ha like a Eastenders (London tv series) omnibous edition he he.
hope your alright take care Hb xx
lol honey I was talking of my cat, the latest posts.. sorry for the 6month delay of getting it straight.
What to do...?
