Man in work is a sissy cross-dresser

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she is very lucky to meet a girl like u not too many women understand why we do what we do

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she is very lucky to meet a girl like u not too many women understand why we do what we do

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she is very lucky to meet a girl like u not too many women understand why we do what we do

I don't understand the original post, no. Where I come from, to call someone a "sissy" is a derogatory term, meaning weak or negatively effeminate. Does the lad get no say in what he is dressed up as? Is this the correct forum, in Relationships, to ask what to dress him in? Does the choice of clothing affect where the relationship goes? Does the original poster's spouse mind, or, indeed, is the sissy cross dresser actually her husband, or is it an open relationship? It's not important, but I'm wondering. Can he not find his own name, that is individual to him, or does he just really like the OP's so much he doesn't want to?

The original post just strikes me as very odd. By all means, please enlighten me.

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I don't understand the original post, no. Where I come from, to call someone a "sissy" is a derogatory term, meaning weak or negatively effeminate. Does the lad get no say in what he is dressed up as? Is this the correct forum, in Relationships, to ask what to dress him in? Does the choice of clothing affect where the relationship goes? Does the original poster's spouse mind, or, indeed, is the sissy cross dresser actually her husband, or is it an open relationship? It's not important, but I'm wondering.

The original post just strikes me as very odd. By all means, please enlighten me.

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if you take the post in context with the title, it makes sense, "sissy" is actually meant to be a term of endearment, such as when my Mistress refers to me as... well, terms that, coming from anyone else would be derogatory, but coming from her, they are welcomed and cherished.

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I could be wrong, but if I'm understanding correctly, Sissy is like a badge of honour for some crossdressers. Please feel free to educate me, anyone, if I'm wrong but it seems that way to me.

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and this, HINT HINT, is why we need an "ask the CDs" section. see how i did that?

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if you take the post in context with the title, it makes sense, "sissy" is actually meant to be a term of endearment, such as when my Mistress refers to me as... well, terms that, coming from anyone else would be derogatory, but coming from her, they are welcomed and cherished.

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aww yeah..i have a few like that from a certain person

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I already said in the thread in Think Tank I'm for that idea.

This thread has seriously left me confused.

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the HINTS were for people higher up than you or i, Daisy - people who can actually make stuff happen.

HINT HINT as well.

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i've always gotten a kick out of calling you Ms. Bitch too, but then, i don't think you're talking about me, are you...?

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and this, HINT HINT, is why we need an "ask the CDs" section. see how i did that?

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is this a lifestyle thing? It reads like the OP is treating the lad like a female doll. Is that right?

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the HINTS were for people higher up than you or i, Daisy - people who can actually make stuff happen.

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i agree totally lol because i still haven't got much feed back on the post i put in the lounge

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Honestly, when I read the title, I seriously thought it was a troll thread. Seriously.

I was editing my post to ask about why he needs to share a name as opposed to finding his own, but you're quicker than me.

If it's a serious thread, which I now presume it is, is this a lifestyle thing? It reads like the OP is treating the lad like a female doll. Is that right?

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Alan loves me so much he want's to share my name and look like me sometimes. Getting him a wig of my hairstyle for him made. He is willing to take part in my games and we both enjoy every minute

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Oh this is a serious thread. Alan loves me so much he want's to share my name and look like me sometimes. Getting him a wig of my hairstyle for him made. He is willing to take part in my games and we both enjoy every minute

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Okay. I accept that you're serious.

I am trying to understand. When I was a child, I would often try to be like somebody else, or somebody else would try to copy me, because we all thought that ourselves weren't good enough, or we were more impressed by others than with ourselves. It is only years later that I now understand what parents and teachers meant about trying to find out ways of being and doing that were personal to me, not copying somebody else because I'm mistakenly of the opinion that I'm not "good enough."

What I seem to be understanding, from what you've said, is that you are sexually enjoying dressing this guy up and treating him like a mirrordoll or closer-than-close twin sister, and that he is getting off on that too. What is it, if you don't mind me asking, that you find so appealing? Do you see him as a woman? As a doll? As a playmate? A man in female clothing? Without wishing to be derisive, is it like Dr. Evil's Mini-Me, some kind of pet that is just a cute extension of oneself?

And from his point of view, is he trying to role-play being somebody else as we used to do as children? Is he trying to escape from a reality of who/what he is, or experiment with copycatting? It strikes me as odd that he would not want to explore his own style and look, but rather, imitate yours even to the point of sharing a name and having hair specially made like yours. I really am trying to understand, but I find that very peculiar, and to a point, a bit disturbing, sorry.

I would honestly like to try and understand what you're talking about, but currently, I am extremely confused.

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I think he is just a lonley man who needs some excitement in life. He is perfectly harmless and we have become very good friends. He has a perfectly normal life outside as a a very generous man. There is nothing disturbing about him and he is very popular. I will continue to help him with his life.