well as the subject says HELP! LOL
basically i was meant to meet this guy in a bar after we saw each other and swapped numbers! He cancelled on me that night so i rang him and his 'girlfriend' answered who went on to tell me that she was his gf and that he could cheated on her as long as he went back to her at night- usual shit!
he than contacted me a couple of days after saying that it was his friends being twats etc and made it all up as a joke and the girl who i speak to was in fact his friend not lover. he said he had got drunk because he was nervous to meet me and they had got hold of his phone.. and he is begging me for a second chance!
now i cant get him out of mind and i dont know whether to believe him or not... i sooo confused- it sounds like a lie but what if its the truth and i throw it away and it could be something really good?
HELP!
I'd not put any feelings on him. Meet him (fuck him if needed be) and get him out of your system.
Cut the line and throw that one back.
This situation has fail written all over it whatever turns out to be true, sadly.
Guy has GF and is lying = FAIL
Guy has shitty friends who have no qualms about about seriously fucking with both of you = FAIL
Guy has to be drunk in order to meet you = FAIL
Guy waits days before giving you an explanation = FAIL
Stock answer to most forum questions:
Some do, Some don't
Love blindsides us all.
"If" he's telling the truth (and I highly doubt that he is), then having to get drunk to meet you just screams loser.
And if he cancelled on you already, he probably isn't that into it anyway.
The possibility of him having a girlfriend should be the least of your concerns.
Don't waste your time on this one.
Forget about that one! There's TONS of other guys that would treat you like a REAL lady!