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Yes! I believe there is more than one person out there for us. I keep the other love quiet, although I'm sure she knows
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Have you ever loved more than one person at once?
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Yes! I believe there is more than one person out there for us. I keep the other love quiet, although I'm sure she knows
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I'm with Poppet on this. Never the same kind of love.
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define love..
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I've been in love 3 times in my life, an ex of 6 years, my current husband of 5 and then the man I loved during both those relationships. Out of all of it I think I'm the only one that has had my heart broken. The first relationship ended because of his infidelities in the beginning, the current situation is hard to explain but it's working.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Attraction to multiple people at the same time - yes.
Actually being in love with them at the same time - no.
This ^
I don't really see how you can be full on in love with two people.
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yes.....there are different types and in each its pure.....
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Yes, and I still do.
For those who think it is impossible, I'll kindly ask you to do a bit of real research on [url=]Polyamory[/url] before making emotional judgements about something you simply don't understand. You may not understand it anyway, but at least you can make an informed decision.
It is not just an attraction, it is not an excuse, and it is not always a choice. It is not different or inferior, either. Some people can only love one person at a time, and that's fine. Real monogamy has its virtues. Others are comfortable opening their heart to more than one at a time, and that is fine, too.
The important part is to simply understand your own true nature, and simply be true to yourself.
For those who think it is impossible, I'll kindly ask you to do a bit of real research on [url=]Polyamory[/url] before making emotional judgements about something you simply don't understand. You may not understand it anyway, but at least you can make an informed decision.
It is not just an attraction, it is not an excuse, and it is not always a choice. It is not different or inferior, either. Some people can only love one person at a time, and that's fine. Real monogamy has its virtues. Others are comfortable opening their heart to more than one at a time, and that is fine, too.
The important part is to simply understand your own true nature, and simply be true to yourself.
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I am in that predicament right now. One is still legally married and the other is my ex who is in a psych hospital.
Hmmm decisions decisions.
Hmmm decisions decisions.
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Of course, I love my Husband and I love my best friend. 
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Yes,but in very different ways
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Yes.
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attracted - yes
infatuated - yes
in love - sometimes i wonder also if it was
but have had multiple relations and feeling together, not a very enviable position to be in!
infatuated - yes
in love - sometimes i wonder also if it was
but have had multiple relations and feeling together, not a very enviable position to be in!
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No not really the one time that I actually loved I got hurt.
when I was in love I devoted myself to that one person, that's possibly how I will be when I find another eventually..
for now I like being single
when I was in love I devoted myself to that one person, that's possibly how I will be when I find another eventually..
for now I like being single
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Well, I am poly, but not as such. Not equally. At least not while I was in a relationship. I love my girlfriend more than anybody else, but I love other people. None romantically, and that's more or less the way I like it for now. I certainly have passing thoughts about what life would be like if I did, but it never advances beyond a stray, misfiring neuron, really.
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We have different types of love for different types of people in our lives, so yes I have loved more than one person at once
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We have different types of love for different types of people in our lives, so yes I have loved more than one person at once
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Carl Rogers, an American psychologist has the best understanding about "love" worth a read
I do believe we can love, as defined above, many and live with them. I am searching for that kind of relationship now.
I do believe we can love, as defined above, many and live with them. I am searching for that kind of relationship now.
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Sorry 
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Yes I have.
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Quote by justhavfun70
I believe you can love more than one person at a time, I have, I tend to guard my heart a lot more these days because of it. Never want to choose again!
This
I was in love with two people at the same time, my wife and another.
My wife knew of her, and sometimes would actually send me to her for the night.
Then something happened and the other shattered the part of my heart she had - I was long time in recovering.
Now I tend to guard that part ferociously, it might happen again, but it's going to have to be someone very special who is close to my wife as well.
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I just want to add I know my rebound is interested in me and my ex thinks we are going to get back together. I can't believe two guys like me it is hard to fathom.
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Yes I have. Loved my wife but had a lover in another city. Started as a sexual liaison but eventually feelings developed.
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I read my reply from 6/1, yes, I've loved 2, sad to say I've had to choose, and stayed with my wife, and pretty much have lost the other woman, she reminded me so much of my wife when we first met, but my wife is trying to be more like when we first fell for each other.
All I can say its been a rollercoaster, great big highs, very low lows; not sure I could ever handle this again, a very happy (and sometimes sad) summer.
All I can say its been a rollercoaster, great big highs, very low lows; not sure I could ever handle this again, a very happy (and sometimes sad) summer.
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Yes at a different level and intensity and I have to choose so I chose the one I loved the most.
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Nope...well apart from family, no.
I don't love easily...so it's next to impossible for me to feel that way about more than one person simultaneously.
I don't love easily...so it's next to impossible for me to feel that way about more than one person simultaneously.
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Loving more than one yes (family and friends)! IN LOVE no...
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Nope...well apart from family, no.
I don't love easily...so it's next to impossible for me to feel that way about more than one person simultaneously.
This. Though I don't think I've ever been truly in love.
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Yes, but you have to make a choice, fortunately I made the right choice.PgIeLNVdIjmwkAsa