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19 year old virgin

No girls want to be with me.
19 year old virgin is not the problem.

Thinking that no girl wants you and your dick on your profile....problem.
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Thinking that no girl wants you and your dick on your profile....problem.


it really is all just a state of mind...if you think you're hot and desirable you will be. and it doesnt always have to do with looks either. ive found that it really doesnt matter how good i look, its how i feel that counts.

if i walk into a room feeling like Venus herself that is how the people around me will react, even if im not in my "skinny" jeans. and if i walk in feeling like ass then i could be a size 0 and not get a second look.

and i have to say...if your state of mind is that you are taking it up the ass as your profile pic suggests then that is what you are going to attract.
Well if I met you at a party and your attitude was that, I certainly wouldn't wanna boink you.

Your age has little to do with it, people put too much pressure on losing your virginity at a certain age. I wish I'd held on to mine longer.

People will see you how you see yourself. Lift your chin up, think positive and be positive. You will attract positive attention rather than negative attention.
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Quote by eviotis
19 year old virgin is not the problem.

Thinking that no girl wants you and your dick on your profile....problem.



agree, no girl wants to be with you need to assess your self what is the problem same thing you can ask some of your friend what their impression so if not okay you will change it
Confidence goes a long way with attractiveness.

Bear in mind, confident and smug are not the same!

I have no clue what you look like, but I'll tell you that most guys dress poorly and they look like schlubs and when you look like a schlub the world sees you as a schlub.

What to do?

Get a good haircut. If you normally go to a barber with a stripedy pole like your grandaddy did then STOP!!!

Find a place with a good reputation and have a fussy gay guy or a woman do your hair.

Then buy a suit. Not an expensive suit (because we don't really care) just one that makes you look good. Then spend some money on some decent, long sleeve button-down shirts and contrasting ties. Idiots buy matching ties, confident men wear contrasting ties.

And get a good looking pair of shoes to go with it all.

Now go out and see how the world treats you when you're dressed up.

You'll feel more confident and you'll be more confident.

The rest will happen naturally. Sort of like turning on a porch light at night - wait a minute and the moths start ganging up on it.
Show people how confident you are. Confidence is soo attractive.
Don't sell yourself short. You've got to start with changing the way you see yourself - because guess what? I'm sure you've got plenty to offer someone - you just need to find what it is and believe that you do.

Go out there, show 'em what you have to offer, then get a little choosey and find the right one - because the options will be there!
This should not be a worry for you, by now you should build up lots of self confidence, it's just matter of time till your wick gets dipped !
You'll find the right person for you when the time is right. I myself didn't lose my virginity till a few months ago, and I'm 26. Yeah I know, loser right, but the point is it happened when it was suppose to. Feel good about yourself, there are others out there that are older then you and me that still haven't lost their virginity.
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