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Gill and Adi's Lush Relationship Guide

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Quote by adi_me33


Hurry up then! I've been waiting down here forever! You know I'm usually down there someplace.

As for the lying thing......when I first joined Lush I trusted every single person here. After a few months of....wtf's....I trusted NO ONE. I have finally come to not giving a fuck. I came to have fun, and yes, to escape reality. Much better than being a drug addict. I think any who....I completely trust ONE person. I know this person is legit and I am growing madder and madder as she is late for tea again!!

I say everyone here tells lies. Like...I'm wearing pink panties today (I really have no panties on) And I don't see an issue with that kind of lie. But in an actual LUSH relationship, friendships or more, at least be honest about who you are. Don't tell someone you care for them while you are knowingly fucking them over. It's just not right.



YOU can always find me down the rabbit hole only I hate tea. I'm going to drink whatever is in the pretty crystal bottle.

Escaping from reality is my specialty. So everyone lies and I need to get over it. Okay, but nobody else can join us down here. Unless they know the password.
Quote by Gillianleeeza

YOU can always find me down the rabbit hole only I hate tea. I'm going to drink whatever is in the pretty crystal bottle.

Escaping from reality is my specialty. So everyone lies and I need to get over it. Okay, but nobody else can join us down here. Unless they know the password.


I can assure you that not everyone lies. Elizabeth and I have been in a loving and exclusive relationship for over 18 months, as we both make clear on our profiles.
Quote by KnightOfLove


I can assure you that not everyone lies.


I can assure you I don't believe that at all or none of us would be here in the first place
Quote by Gillianleeeza



YOU can always find me down the rabbit hole only I hate tea. I'm going to drink whatever is in the pretty crystal bottle.

Escaping from reality is my specialty. So everyone lies and I need to get over it. Okay, but nobody else can join us down here. Unless they know the password.


Some may join but none can stay And yeah. This is a writing/sex/social/idon'tfuckingknowanymore site. So tea can be whatever you want it to be. And TIME does not exist. That fucking rabbit though. Always telling me I'm late. I hate him
Quote by adi_me33


This is the shit that drove me mad for months. God my real life was obviously boring as fuck! I still think you are Felix and if you are him ....you are me as well....


I am you and we are both Felix? Am I tripping? Am I dreaming? Has the nature of this paradox ripped a hole in time and space that can never be repaired? Will creatures from other dimensions use the rip to enter our reality and take over the universe?

Stay tuned.
Quote by Barbielicious
Be someone someone needs. Inspire. Be kind and considerate. Don't put up with less than you are worthy of and what you deserve.


This is very well put and wise, Barbie.

And douche canoe is entering my vocabulary as well smile.
Quote by Verbal


I am you and we are both Felix? Am I tripping? Am I dreaming? Has the nature of this paradox ripped a hole in time and space that can never be repaired? Will creatures from other dimensions use the rip to enter our reality and take over the universe?

Stay tuned.


I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together.
See how they run like pigs from a gun, see how they fly.
I'm crying
Quote by Verbal


I am you and we are both Felix? Am I tripping? Am I dreaming? Has the nature of this paradox ripped a hole in time and space that can never be repaired? Will creatures from other dimensions use the rip to enter our reality and take over the universe?

Stay tuned.


Yes to the tripping. coo coo cachoo
Quote by Nikki703


I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together.
See how they run like pigs from a gun, see how they fly.
I'm crying


Haha!! I am the eggman!
Quote by adi_me33


Haha!! I am the eggman!


I am the walrus!
Quote by Verbal


I am the walrus!


goo goo g' joob
Quote by sweet_as_candy
A humourous and fun thread to read.

What's important in any relationship is trust. If you don't have that then you're fucked (not in a good way). This website is full of horny people, and some of those are lonely. People make connections with each other and form relationships, whether that's friendship or sexual. People form lifelong relationships, others change their relationship status more than I change my knickers. Emotional intelligence is key in any relationship and how you react to situations.



Lonely and horny I understand. Want a friend, fine let's talk, want to get off, go read a story or two. It's the games people insist on playing that baffle and confuse me. If I ever come to understand mind games is the day I lose my self respect. Games are for children and sports arenas, not for real human beings.

Now Adi, come get me, that damn cat keeps grinning and the rabbit is just pissing me off now!


This seems obvious, right?


If all you do is cry, gtfu. There's other men/women who won't make you cry all of time/treat you badly.

Upgrade!!!

Know your worth and value. That is key.

You'll run from the bullshit as opposed to running after it.

You won't even want them anymore, because you will know you deserve better!
Quote by Gillianleeeza


Lonely and horny I understand. Want a friend, fine let's talk, want to get off, go read a story or two. It's the games people insist on playing that baffle and confuse me. If I ever come to understand mind games is the day I lose my self respect. Games are for children and sports arenas, not for real human beings.


Taken at face value, this is true: "games" are baffling and confusing, thoughtless and, at times, malicious -- when they are actually being played. But some people perceive games where there are none - some people want to see relationships or conspiracies that exist only in the perceiver's mind. It happens in real life too, of course, but is particularly prevalent on sites like these.
Quote by LaylaJune


Taken at face value, this is true: "games" are baffling and confusing, thoughtless and, at times, malicious, when they are actually being played. But some people perceive games where there are none - some people want to see relationships or conspiracies that exist only in the perceiver's mind. It happens in real life too, of course, but is particularly prevalent on sites like these.



So true, I've learned not to take anything seriously on here anymore and a lot of things in real life as well. Too many agendas imagined or otherwise. My real life is my priority and it is full of the actual drama that is life. I still give and hopefully take the same advice. Be nice and have fun.

Thanks for keeping this thread alive, Layla. It was a lot of fun doing it.3DNodb6feiiXPnkN
I learned not to take things personally here, just keep being kind and not change to fit in any one area.... I got hurt early on, vowed to never let it happen again.... The Heart won, now time to see if I learned these lessons well...
Wtf happened in here?! Quotes?! Ewwwwww fuckers. Be original. Lol. I can't believe this threads still thriving. Has anyone learned anything new? I have forgotten the damn wall posting etiquette. It's here somewhere. This isn't a love quote thread. Is it? What's happened?
Quote by LaylaJune



Let me know how that HONEST and UPFRONT thing works out for you. You might want to be fitted with a catcher's mask before proceeding further. Jus' sayin' . . .


Oh. You wanted me to keep you updated. It fucking werks!! Jus sayn. Works for me but hey, who the fuck am I? Other than Lady Glitter Giggles.
Quote by kiera
Don't eat my pizza


My bad
Quote by Verbal
Rule 11: if you are angry at someone, don't make the grave mistake of confronting them openly like an adult. Rookie mistake. Rather, leave obscure little references to your resentment in various Forum posts like bread crumbs, specific enough to make them uncomfortable, but vague enough to preserve deniability.


Rule #11.....so true oh wise one....lmao at this thread. Still looking for Trink's wall posting guidelines....
Quote by trinket
Guideline #2366

NEVER NEVER NEVERRRRRR

post too many pics (more than 2) on one person's wall at a time. This is called "pic burying". So I've been told. We believe in Equal opportunity here on Lush.

(If you don't want it to seem like you are pic burying, enlist the help of a few friends to post a couple on that wall too. Shhhh )



Ahhhh yes. I knew it was here somewhere. Crap. 2 then wait... Right? There's more to it....