Unless we had agreed to a more open relationship and were already enjoying our sex life I would not give a man second chance or a second look
I decided to give her a second Chavez and for the past month or do have been doing just fine. He is no longer a part of either me or her life. Social media DM or anything. So now we are good as new. Thank you everyone for the posts
You've been going out for a year and haven't had sex?
No sex for a year, really? Why would either of you want to be in a relationship like that? Second chance, second chance for what? That doesn't sound like any kind of relationship for adults.
She won't put out for you for a year but she banged him like an old screen door?? Whatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt????
But seriously.....it's been my experience once they cheat on you that's it. No matter what you tell yourself or THEY tell you. That damage can't ever be repaired.
The phrase "It is better to ask for forgiveness than permission" is only acceptable in certain situations. This ain't one of 'em. It sucks if you have a lot of time and emotion invested in it, but you should put it into perspective...if it keeps happening, the hurt will transfer from betrayal to being a fool. I'm afraid I'd have to call it quits, were I in the situation.