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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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Yes, Dear John just before I left for Vietnam..............a month doesnt go by that I don't thinkof her. 47 years later
yes, an Angel Mari....but only kiss n touch...but I can't have her
No, never I don't do unavailability, it's a waste of my time and energy.KLZ9tgsp3Nmyof81
thought so at times, but never gave up until I got him smile
I fall in love with him every day. I know that I am wasting my time, but I am wasting it in the best way. I am happy, we are happy... of course I have him(online), but it will never be more than that. It's the most bitter sweet relationship I've ever experienced.
Yes! He was my student counselor from my freshman year in college, and it was a conflict of interest and professional indiscretion for him to date me, even though he was a student himself (post-grad). So I flirted with him mercilessly for years until he finally recused himself and turned me over to another counselor. We've been together ever since! :-)
As a teenager many times - more often somebody older, or a brother or boyfriend of a girlfriend.
In later life the wife of a neighbour.
"She falls in love the way the wind blows" - Yes. and from experience I have learned to be very protective of my heart and not allow it to happen ever again.
I hope you enjoy my latest poem!

Secret Little
Yup and it sucks. That is all.
~*~*~* Only the one that hurts you can make you feel better ~*~*~*
~*~*~* Only the one that inflicts pain can take it away~*~*~*

Check out my latest story: Drawn to Addy - Part 2
Certainly, I think it's safe to say that everyone has at least once. The important thing, to my mind at least, is to be happy with someone you CAN have who loves you in return.
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Certainly, I think it's safe to say that everyone has at least once. The important thing, to my mind at least, is to be happy with someone you CAN have who loves you in return.



Yes.. not a fun place to be, Loving some one that does not share your feelings is worse. And can some times be more painful.
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Yes, online I have and the ending was painful for both of us because we're both married to other people
yes, unfortunately... still trying.....
Yes...... and it's hard seeing them with other people
It's better to love someone you can't have, than to have someone you can't love.
yes I did, and he knew it and used it to his advantage. So im sure not to make the same mistake twice.
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Yes, with a housemate in college. It was torture. She was in a great relationship with another guy (who also lived with us). I think they both suspected I had feelings for her, even though I didn't say or try anything with her. I couldn't bring myself to ruin her happiness, so nothing happened. They're married with children now. It did become the inspiration for one of my stories, though:

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/sincerely-for-the-first-time-1.aspx

Don't believe everything that you read.

yes and feelings are mutual which is a good thing ;)
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It's better to love someone you can't have, than to have someone you can't love.


Gosh, this simple statement sums it up for me. I am off on a new adventure. I think I am on the right track.
A better question might be, "Have you ever fallen in love with someone you can have?"
Isn't it what most experience here in lush? Such a strong connection towards the one they are in a relationship with. Knowing it is online only, at least for most, even those that have met won't be in it for too long. So we invest our hearts our time, the agony of knowing they are there, but most of the time it won't materialize. For many reasons, sexless marriages, or we stay together for the kids, or I feel guilty as she/he is ill. So we put in all that we can to a capricious relationship. Agonizing over the what is or the we shoulds. Look at the poems written, live, and agony , promises to the online relationships of selfless love, and torture for nit being able to meet. I too include my self in that.. I am no different, yet what can we do, when most of us r attracted to the site for writing but mostly because intimacy lacks in our lives.
They're the only ones I fall in love with.
Not sure about falling in love but I have certainly lusted after many.
Recently found my heart attached to someone that was unavailable. It was incredibly painful trying to separate the feelings filled my heart from what was his reality. I think it was one of those times you had no intention of falling and suddenly your daydreaming about them. I am blessed that he felt the same and made it possible to be together.
Getting attached to "one's that seem," often backfire when the truth roost. The social media allows lies and deceit to nest. One must take words with an ounce of bitters. I have preached that common sense and pure logic rule, but its useless when minds are weak. Many on the social media are feed for the ruthless.
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It's better to love someone you can't have, than to have someone you can't love.


What a nice little gem of wisdom sitting in the middle of the page... well said.
GOD yes I have done that and I'm still in love with that person
I swore I never would. But I have twice here. And fell in like with others too. Crying real tears over an online figment of fantasy is surreal. But the heart doesn't know the difference between real and real here. And perhaps, that's best. I'm in love now. Much deeper than ever before. Some may feel it's silly. But I just feel joy. Even knowing the feelings may never result in more. That I may never touch his skin. Or his lips. But I touch his heart and soul and he touches mine everyday. And that's something people who never experience the incredible intimacy of Lush life may never know. And I'm sorry for those who never get that connection. Who just go through the motions of intimacy without ever feeling their soul mate strip them bare of all veneer and hold themselves up to you as your mirror that reflects only your true self. What a gift and a blessing and I cherish each and every day.