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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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Surely everyone has? As a young teenager I fell hopelessly in love with one of my brothers' older friends who was engaged to a lovely girl. Every time I saw him, my heart would break.
yes and she was in a weird situation and was one of my sister's friends
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Oh my who hasn't! But I have a big heart and fall easily so absolutely it's happened to me before and I'm sure it will happen again.
yes , and as she say story of my life

i met her on this site and fell for her the first chat we had.
we talked over here day and night, the love grew deep in us, but the problem was she was in other country.
then there comes a shock that she got engaged, well family decided.

so yes i fell in love with someone whom i cant have at all..

just her boooos and giggles stays with me, cherishing for life time.

I LOVE YOU bibi ji
Yes, definitely has happened to me. A long time ago. I think maybe more than once... smile
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
*sighs hopelessly*

Yes....still get butterflies whenever I see her....even though it's never going to happen
Sometimes you fall in love with their illusion.

But that's not who they really are, only what they want you to perceive.

The fact is, that they were never available to you at all.
Bravo my dear sweet daddysweetheart...they were never available..at all..I truly adore you..hugs..this is such an important thing for ALL to see..thank you my dear friend
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Bravo my dear sweet daddysweetheart...they were never available..at all..I truly adore you..hugs..this is such an important thing for ALL to see..thank you my dear friend


I adore you. And sorry that you learned the hard way too. Hugs xxxoo
Yeah. But he turned out to be a real asshole so it was for the best. It still hurt for the time being.
Story of my life.
No, I can honestly say I've only ever loved one man, and we married as soon as we could.

I can imagine the torture of falling for someone you can never have. Must be hell.

Deb. X
I can't say that I've ever fallen in love with someone I "couldn't" have. I could have had them if I wanted them. It was always an option but simply not the best thing for them or maybe myself at the time. Or, it was not the "right" thing to do. Some times principles take precedence over desire. It hurts, but there is more involved than just what I want, and the type of woman I want to be is important as well.
? A True Story ?
Yea, still hurts.
Someone has to be the Villain
If I reply to this using the dictionary definition of love .. then no. However if I take the meaning less literally .. so lets say someone I think about a lot every day (as just one example of my thoughts/feelings) .. then I think the answer is yes.
Yes but still live in hope!
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Humm seems to be happening right now sad But never before this has it.
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If I reply to this using the dictionary definition of love .. then no. However if I take the meaning less literally .. so lets say someone I think about a lot every day (as just one example of my thoughts/feelings) .. then I think the answer is yes.


I couldn't agree more!!
Yep, I fell for him, and he fell for me, both in a lustful way. He was single, we met up on occasion, just lustful type things by the roadside. He then got back with his ex, and we carried on, briefly. my lust turned into something more for him. Then stuff happened out of our control, that didn't help, then we did it, but I so regret it the look on his face, I felt so guilty. He wanted nothing to do with me after. Some time after he split with his ex, and I hoped but knew, he'd never want me again. I've almost come to terms with it, as know there is no future. I see him occasionally and now I don't get those butterflies for him, still best looking guy around, and would one day like to be friends again with him. But, was 6 months of heartache, and I'm very wary now, really never want to go through that again.

Nearly happened again (he said he was single!), luckily managed to find out he is sort of already involved with someone, long distance, but still his feelings are for her. I hadn't gotten past the just friends feeling, but he seemed like a good 'un. We are friends and spend many an evening together, also know a bit more about his situation smile
Yes. Cut him out my life, job done! I couldn't think of any other way, I guess I never 'worked through' my feelings, but it worked. Some might argue that it was the wrong way to go about it, but it worked for me.
Coming soon...
Of course. It was 30 years ago and she still pops in to my mind. There's an old saying--"It's better to love someone you can't have, than to have someone you can't love." Somewhere I have an old pre-World War I postcard with that saying. Lots of wisdom therein.
Oh god, yes, the love of my life. late 1960s. she gave me a dear john whe I went to a combat zone, took 15 years to get over it. Nary a week goes by that I do not think of her
That's one of the penalties of being someone that falls in love easily. I can think of at least 4 different times that that has happened and there may be more if I really stopped to think about it.
yes and this is so common, isn't it smile