
Quote by Cloudfox
Well, I finally did it; this evening when I was out doing some late shopping...and she said yes for tomorrow night so hopefully everything wellAnd yes I should have asked her out sooner
Quote by Cloudfox
So, we went out last night. It went overall well; we got some drinks at a local place I knew of and we seemed to hit it off. Thanks again everyone for your suggestions and help...I really needed it hsha.
Quote by Magical_felix
You will have to update this thread when you get to third base. I hate starting a love story and not finding out how it ends.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by sprite
funny how yours always end on third base. mine usually make it all the way home, but then, i'm me, and you're you.
Quote by Magical_felix
I either want to pluck that flower or toss the roast beef sandwich in the trash.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by Cloudfox
So, we went out last night. It went overall well; we got some drinks at a local place I knew of and we seemed to hit it off. Thanks again everyone for your suggestions and help...I really needed it hsha.
Quote by Magical_felix
Thank you, it's tough at first but if you spice chicken breast just right it starts to pass for an actual piece of meat. More people should give vegetarianism a chance.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by Weavindreams
There have been a number of good suggestions here. One fast way to find out IF she has a husband or Bf is to simply tell her "He's a lucky guy." And, when she asks "Who"" say "Your BF" THEN if she's says "Thanks I'll tell him" you know you're wasting your time... at the minute. From time to time you can casually ask IF she's still with that same lucky guy. IF she says she doesn't HAVE a BF or husband, ask her if she'd consider changing that and if she shows interest, take it from there in asking for a date.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by sprite
yep, this works great. scene at a store:
Cool dude walks up to me
Dude: He's a lucky guy.
Me: Who?
Dude: Your boyfriend.
Me: Um... I don't have a boyfriend.
Dude: Cool. What're you doing for dinner saturday night?
Me: Taking my wife out. Why?
Moral of the story. don't make assumptions. Also, don't fuck around. Let's try this again.
Dude: You seem really cool. I was wondering if you'd be interested in going out for drinks or lunch sometime?
Marrried lesbian me: Sure, but if it's a date, you should know that I'm not into guys
OR
Have a boyfriend straight me: Oh, you seem cool too, but I'm seeing someone right now. Thanks, though.
OR
Unmarried straight me: Sure, sounds like fun. Thanks for just asking. A lot of guys always gotta go with the lines and all that shit. I'm not stupid; I get the game they're playing and it's kind of a turn off. By the way. If we hit it off, I'm totally into going back to your place and fucking your brains out afterwards.
Quote by Weavindreams
There have been a number of good suggestions here. One fast way to find out IF she has a husband or Bf is to simply tell her "He's a lucky guy." And, when she asks "Who"" say "Your BF" THEN if she's says "Thanks I'll tell him" you know you're wasting your time... at the minute. From time to time you can casually ask IF she's still with that same lucky guy. IF she says she doesn't HAVE a BF or husband, ask her if she'd consider changing that and if she shows interest, take it from there in asking for a date.
Quote by Magical_felix
Leading off with "do you have a boyfriend or husband" is about the stupidest way to ask a girl out. It really is.
Quote by Weavindreams
I've managed to enjoy myself whenever I've been and have often been called "a charmer".
Quote by Magical_felix
Please... You're about as charming as a jar of pickle juice.
You you achieve by asking a woman right off the bat if she has a boyfriend or is married is to make her uncomfortable. Without realizing you are going to ask her out she might say she doesn't... Now you ask her out and she doesn't want to go out on a date with your un-charming ass... Now she actually has to reject you because she just doesn't dig you. And we all know how some guys react to rejection... You take away her easy out in saying she is seeing someone. Not to mention the fact you are letting her know that you aren't even interested in her as a person unless there's a chance to get laid. It's just stupid.
The good thing is this young blood cloudfox got his date before you came in to taint the thread with foolishness. It seems to be going well for him too.
Quote by Weavindreams
Maybe I failed to make myself clear you continually TROLLING JERK, so perhaps THIS will do it:
An opinion I've been told is shared by some the ladies on this site... STUD (sarcasm dripping from the word). Feel free to utilize your "one size fits all" and "all women are the same and respond in exactly the same way to everything" moronic mind set to your hearts content. BTW I've already told you, I won't just put up with your insults and /or the rest of your cheap shit. SO, if have anything more to say to the OP... remember to leave ME the Hell out of it!
Quote by Magical_felix
What you achieve by asking a woman right off the bat if she has a boyfriend or is married is to make her uncomfortable. Without realizing you are going to ask her out she might say she doesn't... Now you ask her out and she doesn't want to go out on a date with your un-charming ass... Now she actually has to reject you because she just doesn't dig you. And we all know how some guys react to rejection... You take away her easy out in saying she is seeing someone. Not to mention the fact you are letting her know that you aren't even interested in her as a person unless there's a chance to get laid. It's just stupid.
The good thing is this young blood cloudfox got his date before you came in to taint the thread. It seems to be going well for him too.
Quote by Weavindreams
Another mono digital salutation for "Mr. Sensitive and Understanding" the site TROLL who still hasn't figured out that women are human too.