I googled this and there are 25 various peoploe with the name Summer Jones.
I googled this and there are 25 various people with the name Summer Jones.
I googled this and there are 25 various people with the name Summer Jones.
I googled this and there are 25 various peoploe with the name Summer Jones.
I mean the one from here,she's of Arabic descent.
She probably got creeped out by someone posting her pictures in their profile, or harrassing her constantly through the private / instant messaging systems.
Some members are jerks like that.
She was always publicising herself ... wasn't she? So ya cant really call members "jerks" if they react to her self publicisation.
To be fair to the people who gave her unwanted attention, yes, she did more than publicize herself. Summer loved to post pictures and videos of herself naked and/or having sex. I remember one video in particular when she was briefly on my friends list wherein she was naked, wasted and talking to her bottle of tequila. While I have no problem with that at all, she did make it clear in those messages both explicitly and implicitly that she liked the attention, and she solicited dirty messages from her entire friend list.
That being said, jerks are still jerks. It's important not to jump on somebody because they offer you a hug. People often mistake mass messages as an excuse to get into closer contact. A good guideline is that if you're responding specifically to something that was said or asked in such a message, you're probably okay, but otherwise it's just unwanted.
For about three weeks I was sending out mass e-mails to my friends list when I had a new story come up, and I got good results in terms of people reading my stories, but I also received a TON of random e-mails propositioning me for cyber sex or cam sex or phone sex, which my profile is pretty clear about not being welcome. I suspect that I abandoned that practice in time to make it stop, but I think we can all be certain that Summer did not. I completely understand her desire to leave.
As for contacting her, DON'T TRY! She obviously doesn't want to be, and I'd bet she made sure that anybody she specifically wanted to speak to has the appropriate contact information.
I thank the last two posts (one by the forum owner herself). I don't see any of the posts above as being "victim bashing" at all. Each case is different. And when it comes to "Summer Jones"... to say she fell into the range of normal self promotion and what she ASKED for would be dishonest at best. To say she went above and beyond what most would consider normal "attention whoring" would be an understatement. Now folks can get all PC and be outraged by this comment, but it is what it is, and is the truth (as even expressed by the forum owner herself).
With that said, each member should think about what THEY do on LUSH and how that may be perceived by others and how reactions may be. I see time and again people acting a certain way and when called on it, they get all offended. Or they act a certain way and when others react similarly or in an unwanted, but IDENTICAL way, they get all offended. Well.... hello!?!?!?! LOL
It is a shame though when any member feels the need to leave LUSH for any negative reason, be it because of other members or themselves. This place is supposed to be "fun", and while we each have different views on what fun IS, there are some things that are NOT FUN AT ALL, and when it is at the expense of someone else's enjoyment... STOP.
Is there anyway to read any of her stories. Really enjoyed them, heck i just registered to ask about this.
Well that is really disappointing. Damn =(
Thank you for the welcome, kind of bittersweet.