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mainly a question for gay top guys though wouldn't mind everyone answering... would you do a virgin? would you prefer them? and why?
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would you have sex with a virgin?
From a gay standpoint, I am a virgin (experienced with women, none with men). Not sure if I'm top or bottom until I remedy that (I'm thinking switch, actually). Given that, I'd prefer a guy with some experience for my first time, but would be cool with a virgin once I'm "broken in" myself.
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Yes would love to! .. That innocence is a thing to relish.
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mainly a question for gay top guys though wouldn't mind everyone answering... would you do a virgin? would you prefer them? and why?
First off I don't like that expression "do" a person, I prefer "have sex" or "make love" or even fuck.
Anyway, I have but I certainly wouldn't seek one out. Sex should be all about attraction not notches on a bedpost!
Personally this isn't a nice topic for me when I bottomed as it wasn't a pleasant experience nor were the other times. Maybe that helped when I fucked a virgin, I was determined to make it as pleasurable as I could.
If you want to know any more pm me.
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It seems like all the virgins are being taken by the younger boys now. Not any around, and it's not really an issue if your trying to enjoy each other!
being someone's first is such a big deal
do we not remember all who brought us into our sexual awakening...
sex is amazing when both parties KNOW what they want and HOW to get it
I don't want to be a teacher...I want to be a partner
but I would never sleep with someone do to the fact that they had or hadn't had any experience
I would want them for I couldn't for another second..live without them.. being inside..me
maybe perhaps it is the innocence not the virginity per say that we long to have again after
we have become somewhat jaded..in life...
interesting
do we not remember all who brought us into our sexual awakening...
sex is amazing when both parties KNOW what they want and HOW to get it
I don't want to be a teacher...I want to be a partner
but I would never sleep with someone do to the fact that they had or hadn't had any experience
I would want them for I couldn't for another second..live without them.. being inside..me
maybe perhaps it is the innocence not the virginity per say that we long to have again after
we have become somewhat jaded..in life...
interesting
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I love giving someone the gift of being fucked in the ass for the first time because I know they'll love it and be hooked for life. {}
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I love giving someone the gift of being fucked in the ass for the first time because I know they'll love it and be hooked for life. {}
Well I wasn't hooked, I hated it and turned me off bottoming!
Where you when I needed you?
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No... It would be a nightmare...
I cannot understand why in the 21st century anybody would want to be a virgin, it's unthinkable. A wise man once told me. "There is no such thing as innocence, only ignorance." I totally agree. My own personal point of view is that sexual liberation and experience is one of the greatest of lifes journeys, and sharing it with other people is one of the greatest pleasures to be had. Why people fly aeroplanes into buildings on the promise of 50 virgins is beyond me, that's a punishment not a present. You might be stuck with 50 Cliff Justin Beiber fans for eternity. No thanks, I'd take 2 firebreathing sluts over 50 virgins, any day of the week.
This doesn't mean I think women should be going out shagging every man they see. But this, 'waiting for the perfect person' is a bizarre and fanciful perspective. I don't buy sex before marriage, that belongs to the dark ages. I can understand waiting until you meet somebody you like, thats fine. But the perfect person? If there was such a thing, that perfect person probably wouldn't be too impressed about you being a virgin, and you would be a chore to sleep with, not a pleasure.
By all means, waiting until being within the parameters of a relationship, before you give yourself to a person, is fine. But after that, holding on virginity status just seems absurd, and probably highly painstaking for the other person. Nobody is that worth it.
If I girl hasn't had sex by 18, ok 20 at the absolute maximum (legal age for consent in UK being 16), I'd think there was something wrong with her. And as most people will have had at least one serious relationship once they're over age, theres really no excuse.
I had sex with a virgin once, a long time ago, and she was only my second at the time, so were both newbs. It wasn't very good. Really...it wasn't...
Of course this is just my own point of view.
I cannot understand why in the 21st century anybody would want to be a virgin, it's unthinkable. A wise man once told me. "There is no such thing as innocence, only ignorance." I totally agree. My own personal point of view is that sexual liberation and experience is one of the greatest of lifes journeys, and sharing it with other people is one of the greatest pleasures to be had. Why people fly aeroplanes into buildings on the promise of 50 virgins is beyond me, that's a punishment not a present. You might be stuck with 50 Cliff Justin Beiber fans for eternity. No thanks, I'd take 2 firebreathing sluts over 50 virgins, any day of the week.
This doesn't mean I think women should be going out shagging every man they see. But this, 'waiting for the perfect person' is a bizarre and fanciful perspective. I don't buy sex before marriage, that belongs to the dark ages. I can understand waiting until you meet somebody you like, thats fine. But the perfect person? If there was such a thing, that perfect person probably wouldn't be too impressed about you being a virgin, and you would be a chore to sleep with, not a pleasure.
By all means, waiting until being within the parameters of a relationship, before you give yourself to a person, is fine. But after that, holding on virginity status just seems absurd, and probably highly painstaking for the other person. Nobody is that worth it.
If I girl hasn't had sex by 18, ok 20 at the absolute maximum (legal age for consent in UK being 16), I'd think there was something wrong with her. And as most people will have had at least one serious relationship once they're over age, theres really no excuse.
I had sex with a virgin once, a long time ago, and she was only my second at the time, so were both newbs. It wasn't very good. Really...it wasn't...
Of course this is just my own point of view.
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I shared mine very early - and I have no regrets. My first time was with 3 guys. It was one of my most memorable days.
One day I will document the experience.
I make the claim I lost it three times all within an hour.
Two of the boys were also virgins and were proud of themselves, and we all shared the evidence to prove it.
I have never heard of a guy who had refused to with a virgin girl.
One day I will document the experience.
I make the claim I lost it three times all within an hour.
Two of the boys were also virgins and were proud of themselves, and we all shared the evidence to prove it.
I have never heard of a guy who had refused to with a virgin girl.
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Well I wasn't hooked, I hated it and turned me off bottoming!
Where you when I needed you?
Well then, you can top me anytime.
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Well then, you can top me anytime.
I smoke as well.
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I would, but would rather have sex with someone more experienced.
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We all have been in that position so it wouldn't be right to say no. I would if the person was totally ready for the next step and I'd try and make it special for them due to the reasoning they are trusting me to be their first and it will stay with them throughout their lifetime.
wow great attitude you have there!
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wow great attitude you have there!
Are you still curious?
Didn't you go to Mardi Gras?
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If the person is sure that is what they want to do then yes.
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It wouldn't matter to me either way.
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as a total bottom i prefer the guys i go with to be experienced.have had a few virgins fuck me before and they were all a dissapointment,to start with anyway lol.as a top im still a virgin.
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It might be nice to be someones first again. Give them something to remember and hopefully an experience of a life time.
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as a total bottom i prefer the guys i go with to be experienced.have had a few virgins fuck me before and they were all a dissapointment,to start with anyway lol.as a top im still a virgin.
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