My ex husband was bi and never told me but i found out way later after we divorced! I was upset and angry and hurt! I would have let him explore that side of him if he had only told me! I can't say for sure what was in his head!
Believe in yourself and all things are possible
I told my wife about my bi experience and curiosities when we were dating. Being able to bare myself to her and having her love and accept me without judgment was part of what I loved so much about her.
I just said it. I usually view my boyfriend as one of my best friends and all of my friends know I'm bi. I wouldn't want to be with someone that's not open to the LGBT community.