Men 50 And Over...

I will be 66 next month. I first started experiencing an issue about six or seven months ago. I have no problem getting hard and do get hard with many different kinds of stimulation from getting it on with my wife to reading stories and watching videos online to playing around with another guy.

Where my problem comes in is while having sex with my wife, if the foreplay goes on too long without any direct stimulation of my cock, I do not maintain an erection. If I am playing her, sucking her tits or playing with her pussy for several minutes and then she wants penetration (which is not every time anymore) then I may not be hard enough and then have to sort of start again. Then sometimes by the time I am hard enough she has passed the point and is no longer in the mood. All are sort of age related issues.

If I am jacking off, even edging over a longer period of time, if there is somewhat consistent physical stimulation on my cock then I can maintain an erection for quite some time.

I have tried both Viagra and Cialis and find that while both help to retain an erection for a bit longer timeframe, they also have the side-effect of making it more difficult to ejaculate. So, six one and a half dozen of the other. Stay hard longer or cum easier, which do you want.

Quote by VicBell88
I’m mid 50s and no what you mean doesn’t work as well as it used to. But I’m diabetic as well and if my sugar is up my dick isn’t, well at least not without good stimulation and does not stay up as well ether.

I am in the same boat, I have tried Viagra which does work but also gives me a bad headache meaning I have to rush the sex before the headache kicks in. Just bought a cock ring which seemef to do the job on first try - good luck

Quote by Mysteria27



There is always Viagra. Let me tell you its a wonderful thing. You can have an erection for 4 hours. Not a bad thing. Giggles.

xo

SADLY, Viagra does not work for all ED causes/cases

Up dating five years later. Morning wood still happens, tho not every morning. Ejaculations can still be plentiful, but Im not pursuing them as often. Practice at Tantra with a few partners and alone has recovered my old ability to orgasm without ejaculation. I can multiple orgasm with my female partners again. Sometimes I never get around to ejaculation, but am well satisfied anyway after several peaks of intense pleasure. Still using the Silnandifil at 20-60mg depending on the mood & partner.

I still masturbate but I now need to spend more time working my cock up hard and often I don’t get real rock hard till just before I cum. I take Viagra (Cialis) some times for fun. Viagra doesn’t give me an erection, I still need to work myself up with cock play, thinking of sex, or porn. But with Viagra I get iron bar erections like when I was 18 and after I’ve shot one I’m still mostly up hard able to shoot another one much sooner than without Viagra.

As I've gone over 50, I find I have quite a bit of sex left in me. My wife menopaused and she told me to get up with a guy. A guy much younger than me invited me to his place and he ended up fucking me. My cock wasn't working as well as it had a few years prior. But he told me after we had a few dates that he really wanted me to fuck him. I was getting it up, but I was cumming in seconds. I got on some meds and now I give him a good 10 minutes every time! In fact, he's going to make a booty call this week!

60 looms here. I can still get hard, both with stimulation and spontaneously. I do wake up in the night with a boner now and then. Does not happen as often anymore, though. Part of that is my libido has dropped quite a bit (though I can still be a randy guy now and then). ED? Probably somewhat. Have not been with a partner in so long, not sure how the little guy would respond to company at this point.

I started taking Cialis like 1-2 times a week, that stuff lasts for a couple days for me. My wife and fuck buddy appreciate it