I remember when I was younger, my two cousins and I masturbated in the same room, but we were afraid to show our dicks to one another so we hid our growths under the covers with the light off. We were jacking off to the same porn. But honestly I wanted all of us just not to be ashamed and just masturbate with the lights on, dicks out and everything. Now I'm not at gay, but this is something I always wanted to do was jack off with a group of men, but that's all. Just masturbate, nothing more. So.....Is that gay, bi-curious, right, wrong.... I wanna know you guys opinions on the matter.....
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I've never done it, but always wanted to masturbate with a group of men. But tell me is it gay, bi-curious, or anything cros
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I'd say it was simply having fun.
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That is an interesting question. I would postulate that the answer depends on why you have this desire. My guess though is that you have some bi-curiosity.
Do you have a desire to see them cum? Does the thought of them seeing you ejaculate turn you on? Would it make a difference if it were a mixed group or all women?
Whatever it is don't feel ashamed of your desires. You only get one trip through life and the real shame would be to get to the end having denied yourself of what you want.
Do you have a desire to see them cum? Does the thought of them seeing you ejaculate turn you on? Would it make a difference if it were a mixed group or all women?
Whatever it is don't feel ashamed of your desires. You only get one trip through life and the real shame would be to get to the end having denied yourself of what you want.
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...this is something I always wanted to do was jack off with a group of men...
It sounds like it might be fun. In my case, when I found a fascination similar to yours, I wanted to do it, I did it, I felt guilty about it, but I kept doing it, and soom my frigid upbringing was overruled by my fascination with/of doing it. Like the saying goes, "Here's to it and to it again. If you don't do it when you come to it, you may never come to it to do it again." I say do it, enjoy it, own it as part of your sexual makeup - whatever it is. Don't worry about what others might think or say about it.
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Its certainly nothing to be ashamed of, I see it as sexual freedom to be comfortable enough to do it, go for it, you may never look back. I first experience of masturbation in a group was both exciting and liberating, and has led to many more exciting experiences. Don't categorise yourself into any particular group, you are an individual
wow never thought of this as a desire of mine, but as a prepubescent we would get stiffies and show one another, so i suppose it really depends on your thoughts behind it and why you do this . i think the group conceiousness says ~'does this involve girls as wel?'l, this may well be the centre to your answer
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I'm leaning towards it being bi-curios.
I have never had quite this kind of feeling, but I understand it is far from rare. Why would it 'being gay' concern you over-much? You are what you are and have no more control over your feelings than having blue eyes, for instance.
What I will say, and I have had an awful lot of experience in more than sixty-five years, is that, in general, we regret the things we don't do. Most of my regrets are of this type and if I had those chances again, I think I would take them. If you think it is something you would get a buzz out of, why not?
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What I will say, and I have had an awful lot of experience in more than sixty-five years, is that, in general, we regret the things we don't do. Most of my regrets are of this type and if I had those chances again, I think I would take them. If you think it is something you would get a buzz out of, why not?
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I've never had the desire and I've always had a hangup about anyone knowing I masturbate. I would guess it is a desire to share something sexual with men, so therefore homoerotic desires or tendencies, but not necessarily exclusively.
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If it feels good and it's not illegal, it can't be bad. Start with simple steps and you'll never be wrong.
The problem as I see it is to find like minded people, so you won't have an unpleasant experience. Finding one clean and discreet person could be a challenge, never mind more.
Absolutely this is not do discourage you from trying but to empower you. Don't wonder all your life about it.
The problem as I see it is to find like minded people, so you won't have an unpleasant experience. Finding one clean and discreet person could be a challenge, never mind more.
Absolutely this is not do discourage you from trying but to empower you. Don't wonder all your life about it.
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Why label it masturbation is sex not gender or sexuality splicing it's all about feeling good. pleasureable and fun i would do it just so that I could
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I'd say it's just a group of friends having fun. Maybe a bit bi-curious, but nothing wrong with that of course.
Nothing personal (actually it's more a gripe of mine with society) but why do people feel the need to attach labels to things? In this case I'd say it was curiosity, not necessarily bi-curiosity but just normal curiosity towards the unknown. It doesn't have to be labelled or lead to anything and as long as everyone involved is consenting and down (or perhaps, in this situation, up) with it, there's really no need to fret or attach, in my opinion, insignificant labels to things. Every guy has or will at some point wanted to jerk off in front of other guys, I say have at it and don't worry about social perceptions.
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I think it would be very relaxing. Although I have never tried it with just men I dont think it would stop me from enjoying it any less. I have heard of coed masterbation clubs( I really would like to find one in my area). When I was very young around 12 years old I got to know about group masterbation from a friends mom and dad and his five brothers and sisters. On friday night after dinner we would all get naked and go into the family room and talk. We where allowed to masterbate and have oral sex with whomever we wanted to even with mom and dad. What they taught me was human sexuality or how to please another person. Woman or man......there was no gay straight or bi sexaul just people loving people. They taught us to respect others and ourselves. As for having intercourse that was only done between man and woman other then that we would spend the weekend together in a safe place licking and sucking eachother. I had my first orgasm with them it was the best.years of my life
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Im not here to judge...but thats definately unusual...not that there anything wrong with being unusual...
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Nothing personal (actually it's more a gripe of mine with society) but why do people feel the need to attach labels to things? In this case I'd say it was curiosity, not necessarily bi-curiosity but just normal curiosity towards the unknown. It doesn't have to be labelled or lead to anything and as long as everyone involved is consenting and down (or perhaps, in this situation, up) with it, there's really no need to fret or attach, in my opinion, insignificant labels to things.
Everything in our societies - probably in all cultures around the world - has a label or a name or a description. Think for a moment how fucking confusing everything would be, if we tossed out adjectives and adverbs, did away with all nouns and names and labels.
Why..? Well for starters, none of us would know what any of the rest of us was babbling about.
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Every guy has or will at some point wanted to jerk off in front of other guys, I say have at it and don't worry about social perceptions.
Not every guy, Gurlyboy. Here you are stating as a fact that every man on the planet will, or may, or in fact does own this secret lust. If it works for you, fine, dude. Being around another dude or group of dudes has never caused me to want to whip out the limp dick...try to grow wood - and instigate or join a circle jerk.
As a matter of fact, with me - that is never going to happen. If invited to join, I'll walk off to go find me some females and let the bois do their own things.
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Not every guy, Gurlyboy. Here you are stating as a fact that every man on the planet will, or may, or in fact does own this secret lust. If it works for you, fine, dude. Being around another dude or group of dudes has never caused me to want to whip out the limp dick...try to grow wood - and instigate or join a circle jerk.
As a matter of fact, with me - that is never going to happen. If invited to join, I'll walk off to go find me some females and let the bois do their own things.
Sexual labels just kind of irk me, I mean yeah, I do see the need for them, as you said it would be confusing but just because a dude likes to jerk off in front of other guys, why affix a label to it? It's fun (ok, I know that's a label but it's not as big a label as, say, bisexual or bi-curious).
I'm sorry I made that generalisation, I forgot that not every guy is as perverted as me lol but I thought that every guy had thought about jerking in front of a guy before, even for a second, especially during teenage years with rampant hormones and such, forgive me if I'm wrong or caused any offense.
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From what I was able to gather, the initial thought came when you were a teenager, which is a very normal part of growing up. Since the thought stayed with you, I would say that it crosses over into bicuriousity at least. You do sound like you're mostly straight except for this one desire, however.
The main thought to consider is the fact that sexuality is very hard to determine. Sure, we can say that the man who only wants to sleep with other men is gay, and the man who only wants to be with women is straight. But only you can determine what your sexuality is. I identify as bicurious because that's the best way that I can describe my feelings.
The main thought to consider is the fact that sexuality is very hard to determine. Sure, we can say that the man who only wants to sleep with other men is gay, and the man who only wants to be with women is straight. But only you can determine what your sexuality is. I identify as bicurious because that's the best way that I can describe my feelings.
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I have done this one or two times, and it was hot. the last time more so than others. It is not something I would actively seek out....both times happened sort of by surprise.
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Have done it a few times in mixed circles, quite hot. Also camping with another cple we used to play with, us men got an ultimatum, jerk each other off for the girls or no BJs for the wkend. Well of crse, we did it, unusuall but not all that exciting, wouldn't enjoy it on a regular basis.
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I have masturbated in front of a guy a few times - not a group circle jerk. I agree with the above posts that it does sound like it is either bi curiousity or exhibitionist. Either way, it is sounds fun. I think as long as it is within your comfort zone then its cool. If it is just jerking off, what is the harm? If someone decides to touch you or go down on you, then thats when you need to make a decision.