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i think i might be gay

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Should we... throw a party?
me too. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

I told my friend today in real life shes the only one to know other than here
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I told my friend today in real life shes the only one to know other than here


I'm glad you've got someone you can talk to about it, especially if she's supportive.

You can be yourself here on Lush. This community can be a great source of many kinds of support, I've found.

Maybe we should throw a party...
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I told my friend today in real life shes the only one to know other than here


it can be scary, until you find out that people love you anyways, gay, straight, it doesn't matter. still, trust me, i know it's hard - it does get easier with time, as you discover that people will accept you.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

I was so scared but couldn't take living a lie
I was so scared but couldn't take living a lie
Good for you Jake!
You'll find plenty of support here on Lush
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Good for you Jake!
You'll find plenty of support here on Lush


yep, you're in good company here. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Thanks guys, it feels soo much better to have someone in real life that knows. And im soo glad your all so supportive, this is a huge step for me.
Just keep doing what makes you happy
Thinking doesn't make it so, feeling does.
Congratulations on your discovery. I hope that this chapter of your life gives you nothing but good memories and supportive people.

I've been identifying as bicurious on here for the longest time because I haven't had a same-sex experience that's gone beyond masturbation. When that happens, I'll be more sure of my sexuality. I think I'm bisexual, but I'm not a hundred percent sure. Once I'm sure, I'm going to start coming out to people. There are some that I know I'm going to have to keep it a secret from, unfortunately.

Good luck!
If your more happy gay then enjoy and look to the future not back. My friend told me her Mum made her a lesbian, I asked if I gave her the wool would she make me one too.
Why do u think ur gay? I think that is the place to start and work from that point.
agree with whats already been said. It's good to be honest, both with yourself and with others. Hope this is the start of a good adventure! And trust me, it is good to explore biggrin
It takes real courage to come to grips with your desires. Remember, life doesn't grant do overs. We get one shot at living and you should live it well. Be brave and be true to yourself.
Congratulations. By the way, you are not alone… there are lots of us gay men here and everywhere
I'm glad that you have figured out what makes you happy, I'm sure there are still a lot of people trying to deny if they are gay, straight, or bi. I'm not gay, or bi, but I can guess how hard it is to tell other people and I hope you will inspire someone on here that sees this to come out too.
as long as you are comfortable with yourself an your feelings, it is great to be what you are!
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I might be

6 months since you posted this hope you're doing ok. The gay world can be a scary place but I'm sure you'll cope. Good luck.
I struggled with that one for years. I thought I might be bi-sexual and still do have desires for girls but I am gay, no doubt about it. Seeing lingerie in a shop gets me hard. Seeing cock gets me harder. I can only jerk off thinking of or seeing cock. So, the conclusion. I am GAY!
Hey, don't panic. here. First off, you are who you are, accept it. Now here is my test. Whose butts do you check out at the the mall? Men's or women's. Secondly, when you are alone in your bed at night, whom do you want to cuddle with, men or women. However, you may be bi so you have more possibilities than you realize.Bur always remeber,you are who you are. Accept it and don't beat yourself up.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
I thought I might be gay for years until I realized that I couldn’t cum unless a guy was involved. Pictures or videos or the real thing. Then I knew Iwas Gay.