How did you discover your inner desire for the same sex?

A couple years ago my relationship hit a low point and started doing a lot of self-reflection. Realized I had a lot of weird toxic shame about my sexuality and a lot of misogynistic and hetero-normative ideas drilled in even if I didn't realize it. I had always made some gay jokes here and there, like "I'm not gay but for Idris Elba I could try."

So I sat down and really worked hard to use my base instincts on what was appealing. I tried hard to put out of my mind all the ideas of what I should be and focus on who I am. Long story short, I am gay for Idris Elba and a lot of other fellas too. Still love women, I'm more picky with the guys.

DNA ,it came naturally

I was sixteen, had a girlfriend. Never been attracted to guys. That changed when i'd spend a weekend with my best buddy while his parents were on vacation. He was gay, and i knew it. We have seen each other naked a lot, since we played on the same soccer team and went to the sauna often. But that weekend, something happened and i got turned on by his dick. I honestly can't tell you why. We went from masturbation to oral and ended up with anal. He was a good teacher. I remember how nervous i was at first, but that changed quickly into pure lust. Since that weekend, i'm enjoying both sexes.

I don't really know except when I see attractive guys I get an erection ,and that doesn't happen when I see pretty girls