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I was seduced at the tender age of 17 by a beautiful redhead twice my age. It was an enlightening experience that awoken my desire for women.
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How did you discover your inner desire for the same sex?
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I never thought about who I liked until I was entering my teen years. When I did think about it, I realized I liked boys, girls, and the entire spectrum in between. When I came out to my mom, she said "It might be a phase." Later on, I learned that she thought I secretly only liked girls...
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I was 18 when I had my first same sex exspieriance. He was 27.
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Well I always thought I was totally straight till I met a girl I was so insanely attracted to that I realized that maybe I was into both sexes.
I still feel a bit weird about it because it was such a shock, I've been interested in other girls since but never quite like her.
My first experience took me by total surprise but now I realize that sexuality doesn't need to be justified, I can just enjoy myself with whomever I'm attracted to.
I still feel a bit weird about it because it was such a shock, I've been interested in other girls since but never quite like her.
My first experience took me by total surprise but now I realize that sexuality doesn't need to be justified, I can just enjoy myself with whomever I'm attracted to.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
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At first it was more of a curiosity and confusion in the mind when I was seduced at a tender age by a gorgeous woman but that experience was the start point 
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I'm actually looking for some advice in this area, if there are any bisexual/gay males willing to offer their opinion I would be most indebted. Please inbox message me if possible? If possible I'd prefer a more 1 on 1 conversation about it.
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For me it was as a divorced single mom. Lived my whole life to as a completely 'straight' woman with no memories of any interest in other women. Slowly 'seduced', intellectually, by very skilled woman, online. Now, all my fantasies are of women. I am constantly watching other women and live in the hope that I will be seduced. I live in a small Canadian town and am still inhibited.
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I was in my 30's at work during the overnight. A co-worker and I were looking at a porn magazine and we decided to jerk off together. We kept doing it and one night jerked each other off. We did eventually suck each other. He was married and I was engaged at the time. I had first found myself attracted to another man while I was in high school. Kept looking at him and didn't know why I felt that way but never acted on it.
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I was very young. I had a crush on my 4th grade teacher. Then I had experience with my now G/F when I was 10 and she was 11 and BFFs. Men/boys never was attractive to me and they did like me especially from my middle school years.
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I was seduced at 17 she was 33 I haven't looked back
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I'm bi and about three years ago, I got really close and friendly with an older girl, she became my best friend for about a year. One day she came to town and we joked the entire time about sex and being together. She came over to my house then one thing led to another and I ended up getting tied up and turned on, she made me feel very special and showed interest in me and I wanted to ask her out. A few weeks later I went to a summer camp and she went to Reading Festival. I spent time at summer camp collecting advice about being into both sexes and if I should be honest with my feelings or not and after a few days, I was ready to confess. I was going to tell her my feelings the day when I came back. And the evening before I came back one of her friends asked her out and she said yes......... she texted me and told me. I told her I liked her and that I felt special when she was with me and she told me that she did it to all her friends......... I felt like total crap, I tried to talk to her about how I felt and she completely disregarded my feelings, I had a massive argument with her and we didn't speak after that. So I tried to completely bury my desires for the same sex.
A few months later, I still liked her and (very stupidly) tried to make the peace and just be her friend. I didn't have her number anymore so I reached out to the person who asked her out. I asked her to relay a message for me but it turned out that she wasn't on good terms with the girl either. They had broken up after like a month. So I came to the conclusion that I was right about the girl being a total ass.
I began talking to this other girl through the internet and felt a connection. I met her in real life and felt the same desires towards her as well but I tried my hardest to suppress it deep deep down because I didn't want to get hurt again. She started to like me too but kept messing me about and giving me mixed signals about whether she liked me or not and was just generally a very toxic person to be around. Would always give me backhanded compliments and everytime I was around her, I would feel sad, nervous, insecure and just all round crappy. I still felt physical desires for her but nothing else.
One day I stayed round her house and even slept in the same bed and she still gave me no indication that she was interested. The next day, a boy she had told me loads about and who had heard loads about me (who is my current bf), came over. Around him, he would make me feel warm, happy and protected in the first ten minutes of meeting me, when someone I had been attracted to for a year was making me feel really bad about myself and THEY WERE IN THE SAME ROOM. Me and this boy really hit it off and I mean REALLY hit it off. It was like we had known each other for AGES and we had a lot in common. I found myself feeling emotional desires for him and a month after that the physical desires soon followed. I told the girl that I liked him and she offered me his number and I kept denying it but she practically FORCED me to take it so me and the boy got flirting over text and he very quickly became my bf.
I got her blessing for it and on the surface seemed very okay with it. Oddly okay with it in fact.
A few months into the relationship my bf noticed that I looked at girls with the same gaze that he did and he picked up on the fact that my love for girls was not strictly platonic. I wanted to test this theory once and for all so I ended up in a three way with her and my bf. It felt amazing because I was actually finally with a girl but at the same time...... it was honestly horrible. She as an individual was a terrible kisser, nothing special naked and didn't really want to do........ anything much. Even asked us to play Lord Of the Rings in the background (which I LOVE a good LOTR marathon myself but not very sexy in the BEDROOM.) To be honest, I much preferred my experience with the girl before.
It happened a second time and long story short, she eventually went behind my back and tried to break us up then when I confronted her, she didn't seem to care at all and looking back on it, she seemed like a very sociopathic person. No sense of guilt, no saying sorry. The last thing she wrote to me when I confronted her was "grrrreeeat. *eye roll*" then never messaged me again.......
My bf and I are very happy together. But I know I like the same sex.
A few months later, I still liked her and (very stupidly) tried to make the peace and just be her friend. I didn't have her number anymore so I reached out to the person who asked her out. I asked her to relay a message for me but it turned out that she wasn't on good terms with the girl either. They had broken up after like a month. So I came to the conclusion that I was right about the girl being a total ass.
I began talking to this other girl through the internet and felt a connection. I met her in real life and felt the same desires towards her as well but I tried my hardest to suppress it deep deep down because I didn't want to get hurt again. She started to like me too but kept messing me about and giving me mixed signals about whether she liked me or not and was just generally a very toxic person to be around. Would always give me backhanded compliments and everytime I was around her, I would feel sad, nervous, insecure and just all round crappy. I still felt physical desires for her but nothing else.
One day I stayed round her house and even slept in the same bed and she still gave me no indication that she was interested. The next day, a boy she had told me loads about and who had heard loads about me (who is my current bf), came over. Around him, he would make me feel warm, happy and protected in the first ten minutes of meeting me, when someone I had been attracted to for a year was making me feel really bad about myself and THEY WERE IN THE SAME ROOM. Me and this boy really hit it off and I mean REALLY hit it off. It was like we had known each other for AGES and we had a lot in common. I found myself feeling emotional desires for him and a month after that the physical desires soon followed. I told the girl that I liked him and she offered me his number and I kept denying it but she practically FORCED me to take it so me and the boy got flirting over text and he very quickly became my bf.
I got her blessing for it and on the surface seemed very okay with it. Oddly okay with it in fact.
A few months into the relationship my bf noticed that I looked at girls with the same gaze that he did and he picked up on the fact that my love for girls was not strictly platonic. I wanted to test this theory once and for all so I ended up in a three way with her and my bf. It felt amazing because I was actually finally with a girl but at the same time...... it was honestly horrible. She as an individual was a terrible kisser, nothing special naked and didn't really want to do........ anything much. Even asked us to play Lord Of the Rings in the background (which I LOVE a good LOTR marathon myself but not very sexy in the BEDROOM.) To be honest, I much preferred my experience with the girl before.
It happened a second time and long story short, she eventually went behind my back and tried to break us up then when I confronted her, she didn't seem to care at all and looking back on it, she seemed like a very sociopathic person. No sense of guilt, no saying sorry. The last thing she wrote to me when I confronted her was "grrrreeeat. *eye roll*" then never messaged me again.......
My bf and I are very happy together. But I know I like the same sex.
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I didn't discover it but it has recently discovered me on a curiosity level.
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When I was a teenager and a friend grabbed me at a party and kissed me to get a group of guys attention. I could give two fucks about the guys and wanted to escape to make out.
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Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
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Had the usual early puberty curiousity, when 12 y/o boys show each other their boners. Forgot about it until age 21 when I started seeing other men having casual sex in mixed gender orgys. Did not take long for my gf to persuade me to give a man head. Found I was comfortable with it and it opened a lot of sexual possibilities or options.
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I have always been reluctant about my sexuality. Especially when I first knew. I was more or less a homophobic maniac (I regret this very much) before I found out I had the urges just like everyone else.
I have never really approached a woman to try and see if there is a connection or not. It's not from lack of desire, its more a fear of rejection, lol. I would love to finally fulfill the urges that I've had for a long time now but the opportunity has yet to present itself.
Being bisexual is a hard thing as well, young or old. You aren't fully excepted by the hetero or gay community, so it makes it even harder to come out to anyway. The only people who even know in my life are my SO, a few of my close friends (that's all of two people, lol) and the people of lush.
I have never really approached a woman to try and see if there is a connection or not. It's not from lack of desire, its more a fear of rejection, lol. I would love to finally fulfill the urges that I've had for a long time now but the opportunity has yet to present itself.
Being bisexual is a hard thing as well, young or old. You aren't fully excepted by the hetero or gay community, so it makes it even harder to come out to anyway. The only people who even know in my life are my SO, a few of my close friends (that's all of two people, lol) and the people of lush.
And as imagination bodies forth
The forms of things unknown, the poet’s pen
Turns them to shapes and gives to airy nothing
A local habitation and a name.
– William Shakespeare (from A Midsummer Night’s Dream)
The forms of things unknown, the poet’s pen
Turns them to shapes and gives to airy nothing
A local habitation and a name.
– William Shakespeare (from A Midsummer Night’s Dream)
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Playing sports growing up I always stared at the hung guys.
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Always like playing with ass and toys. decide to try real deal,but had to be with cpl. Found semi local cpl looking for bi guy for the night.Alrady had quite a few drinks so I replied. They where open to anything as long as I would return. I ended up at their house and getting full bisexual try out. Beforke night was over(4 hours of it) I had been fucked in ass 3 rounds by hime,two her with strapon as I sucked him off,Giving show riding him and dildo and me fucking him in ass once. Main thing I found out was getting fucked was only part I really enjoyed. So much so I was back 3 weeks later as ASS SLUT in 5 cpl gang bang with me getting used like cheap street whore. 12 plus rounds up my slutty ass and lots of cum filled pussy to lick clean plus swallowing cpl rounds just to keep action going.
Guess curiosity got the best of me. At least my ass anyway.LMAO
Guess curiosity got the best of me. At least my ass anyway.LMAO
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I actually developed a crush on a senior in school... and she was very kind
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
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Watching a story on tv long ago, there was a special about a bar somewhere in the US that had belly bucking contests. Heavy guys taking their shirts off, putting their hands in their back pockets and facing off on a stage. The object? Knock the other guy off the stage smashing your belly into his. I had to jerk. I had a girlfriend at the time, but I jerked until I had cum dripping everywhere!
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For me I was "under age" but in high school. Back then (1965) I was a very avid masturbator and wanted to explore with guys. What happened was I had a neighbor girl sleeping over because her parents were away. We began talking about boys aand sex and I was getting horny as hell. I suppose she was too. I kept asking her questions because she claimed she and her boyfriend had fucked several times. Finally she just kissed me and one thing led to another. I loved it but was ashamed that I might be lesbian. At least I was ashamed until we did it again the next day. Here family moved away a few months later and I found another female friend who liked to play. I still really wanted a boyfriend but it would be almost a year later for that to happen.
I still enjoy escapades with other women on occcasion but do I have desire for them? I suppose so, but I would say that I am 70% straight and 30% lesbian, which make me bi.
I still enjoy escapades with other women on occcasion but do I have desire for them? I suppose so, but I would say that I am 70% straight and 30% lesbian, which make me bi.
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It started in my 30's and I spent a lot of time getting off to Penthouse Forum and letters. MMF and some rare bi stories were my favorite.
Still always looking for a woman to share pleasures with but way back in my mind I was haunted by the thought of sex with another man.
Years later, many actually I ended up hooking up with someone I met through one of my stories.
By this time I had stopped feeling any shame and fear, i wanted to know if I was missing anything.
Turns out I was missing a LOT.
Now a few years I am a solid biusexual and comfortable with it.
The shame is long forgotten.
Still always looking for a woman to share pleasures with but way back in my mind I was haunted by the thought of sex with another man.
Years later, many actually I ended up hooking up with someone I met through one of my stories.
By this time I had stopped feeling any shame and fear, i wanted to know if I was missing anything.
Turns out I was missing a LOT.
Now a few years I am a solid biusexual and comfortable with it.
The shame is long forgotten.
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When I was much younger *edited by admin for content * a group of boys my age went swimming in a little creek just beyond the outskirts of town. There must have been 10 to 15 of us splashing and playing in the water. While we all seemed to be having fun I became aware of how I could not take my eyes off of "Ronnie". He was beautiful. Slender with a bronze tan, blonde hair and brown eyes. I was too naive and inexperienced to recognize and understand what I was feeling but I wanted him to see me nude. I was swimming in some loose gym shorts and made sure he was watching me when I dove into the creek and came up with my shorts down around my ankles.
I have lived my life as a straight heterosexual but have had very arousing fantasies of being sexual with another man. In a conversation regarding "coming out" I confessed my bisexual fantasies to my wife. I look forward to meeting a man I am physically attracted to and is wanting to explore his sexuality with me.
I have lived my life as a straight heterosexual but have had very arousing fantasies of being sexual with another man. In a conversation regarding "coming out" I confessed my bisexual fantasies to my wife. I look forward to meeting a man I am physically attracted to and is wanting to explore his sexuality with me.
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About 15, I had this tingling in my mind, like a undiscovered recess that felt fascinating to explore. It was pre-internet so there was little to no outlet only my imagination. The thought of another guys's cock to play with just made me hard instantly. I had a couple of girlfriends but at that age they were nervous as hell and not all that adventurous. I got lucky at 18 with a bi threesome and never looked back. I lodged with a bi-couple from 19-21 too, that was it, did everything, not many kinks unexplored.
Never regret where your sexuality takes you.
Never regret where your sexuality takes you.
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I didnt discover it; it was always there
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I started crossdressing at a very early age, starting with my sister's panties and slips. As I grew, I graduated to wearing my mom's panties, girdles, nylons, slips, dresses, and heels. At this juncture, I was enamored with the feel of the clothing and the bonkers that this brought on. It was a very personal and self centered activity, having no thoughts of sex with anyone other than myself.
It remained this way until early adulthood. Then I discovered porn. I would look at the pictures of couples engaged in sex and read the stories in Penthouse Forum and imagine myself in the females place while I was dressed in my female attire.
It wasn't until my mid to late thirties that I started to go out at night as Linda and playing with sex toys... Still alone. I became aware of a local "Girl's Club" and started attending. One of my best friends at the club let me dress at her house to get ready for club meetings. After one particular meeting, we ended up getting intimate and gave each other blow jobs. It was interesting that I didn't feel particularly guilty afterwards. I viewed it more as validating my femininity. A few months later I was with another "sister" and she performed anal sex on me. Again, I saw it as validation of my girly nature.
We ended up going to one of the local adult movie theaters to "entertain the troops" from time to time. We would give many blow jobs and occasionally let some lucky guy fuck us in the ass. I soon realized that I was definitely bisexual and a confirmed bottom. I had no problem sticking my dick in a warm juicy pussy or letting a hungry mouth fellate me, but I had no interest in sticking in anyone's ass. I love pleasing my partner (male or female) orally. If I'm with a man, I have to be in female attire and taking the female role or it just doesn't happen.
It remained this way until early adulthood. Then I discovered porn. I would look at the pictures of couples engaged in sex and read the stories in Penthouse Forum and imagine myself in the females place while I was dressed in my female attire.
It wasn't until my mid to late thirties that I started to go out at night as Linda and playing with sex toys... Still alone. I became aware of a local "Girl's Club" and started attending. One of my best friends at the club let me dress at her house to get ready for club meetings. After one particular meeting, we ended up getting intimate and gave each other blow jobs. It was interesting that I didn't feel particularly guilty afterwards. I viewed it more as validating my femininity. A few months later I was with another "sister" and she performed anal sex on me. Again, I saw it as validation of my girly nature.
We ended up going to one of the local adult movie theaters to "entertain the troops" from time to time. We would give many blow jobs and occasionally let some lucky guy fuck us in the ass. I soon realized that I was definitely bisexual and a confirmed bottom. I had no problem sticking my dick in a warm juicy pussy or letting a hungry mouth fellate me, but I had no interest in sticking in anyone's ass. I love pleasing my partner (male or female) orally. If I'm with a man, I have to be in female attire and taking the female role or it just doesn't happen.
Carey’d away.
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When I first started watching porn, I didn't try to watch any with men nor did I question why, and through that, I realized I'm not straight.
My heart has wi-fi and the password is Drew Carey.
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It was when my buddy and I were fucking 2 women together. We got so we were very comfy being nude together. Even when the ladies were not around. One thing led to another...
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I suppose it formed during my pre -pubescent yrs,at a boarding school a much talked about subject,and when first in Military and communual showers looking at different sizes,and wondering what they would be like erect.
And a teacher i met when i was in my 20s how introduced me to the delights of man sex,although i still like it with a women i much prefer it with a man.