Ok, im 30 single guy always considered myself straight. Although for the past 3 years ive been crossdressing, masturbating anally, fantasizing about men, as well as fantasizing about being a woman. I enjoy all this so i can only assume i should test the waters out. My question is. Is this just a fetish or could i possibly be gay or bi? This is something I've wanted to try badly! So i guess maybe im just looking for words of encouragement.
I have what I want,, No need to experiment.
To thine own self be true, do you ever think of females when you masturbate? Can you achieve orgasm if you do? What ever you do, be careful and use protection.
It might not hurt to speak to a professional and get some guidance as well.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Could mean that you're gay or bi. Or perhaps you just fall somewhere on the spectrum, you know?
If differentiating means that much to you, just keep exploring and see where you end up. In the meantime, just enjoy it.
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Thanks you all! Im liking this having other people to talk about my sexuality with.
It all started for me hitting puberty at 10. Being bigger than the average boy my age didn't help any. Until I first laid eyes on joe in Parochial school. The first guy I'd ever consider kissing. Had a three-way with a mutual guy friend then & I came all over his thigh & cock area. He loved it. So I guess I'm saying things can happen to make it a positive experience. The first time I sucked a buddy's cock, it felt completely natural to do so. I don't know why? The first time my wife gave me that thick 8 incher up my ass, the stroking is what made it feel so darn great! So like the other's said, suck a cock, maybe even grab some lube & condoms & try anal after that. done right, it feels great!
Just go with the flow and let your desires take control. Nobody can answer this question well for you you just need to do or try what feels natural to you. Forget trying to put labels on yourself!
Self-labelling is a very personal, subjective thing. As a casual observer, you sound like a bisexual man. We don't really have control over what arouses us (or what turns us off). A guy may fight like hell to avoid popping a chub over pics of naked men, but that boner wants to be born.
Life is short. Embrace it. Protect yourself and play safe, but I say sometimes you have to get on your knees to stand tall as a man. To thine own self be true. Bon adventure!
Its never a good idea to restrict yourself with labels.
I'm sure the only regret you will have is if you don't take each and ever opportunity (I speak from experience and regret missed chances)
Its the only sure way to answer your question, no-one on here can truly answer it for you.
Agree with latecomer above.
My opinion for what its worth is "Don't live a life of regrets" to me attraction is about the person, being they male, female, young, old, disabled or able-bodied. A long as the other person is willing id say go for it, and if it's not for you well, that's that. I wish you well on your road to discovery.
Catherine x
Have fun with it!
