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Quote by allfours
I always feel that its good for a guy to experience it, even if it's just once. When I started, it certainly gave me a new perspective on women. Now, it's become part of who I am, and I'm comfortable with it. The only down side is when I have to go back to being male again.

Have you any idea why women don't seem to go for it? Plenty of guys seem to be in to it but not many women.
I understand the way a guy can feel feminine in clothes but surely the same applies to women. Aren't many women into feeling masculine?
Ithink crossdressers make great friends and lovers, they are kind and most of all have great personalities,lets have more people learning to live side by side with them.
I discovered the feel of taffeta as a very young boy and was hooked. I tried most of my life to deny my feelings ... collecting a wardrobe and then purging when the guilt overtook me. Finally, in my forties, I realized what a plus having both feminine and masculine sides really was in my life and ACCEPTED. While my GF/fiance prefers the masculine side she accepts both. She too sees that much of the personality she loves is a result of this beautiful balance, this androgynous blend.
For me it was almost entirely about the feel, the sexy silky feelings on my skin. Sexually, I only dress when I'm with a man. I feel masculine with her (she is a very feminine woman) and feel feminine when I'm being sexual with a man. If we're in a threesome, it kind of switches back and forth. ;-)
Depends on the mood of my wife, friends and I. At 6' 4", dressing up to look feminine is a hell of a challenge for me. I don't always pull it off, sometimes we wimp out and go Toga.
I have a tranny friend who really is a sharp dresser and when she's in tight jeans is to die for, she gave up trying to dress me.
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Have you any idea why women don't seem to go for it? Plenty of guys seem to be in to it but not many women.
I understand the way a guy can feel feminine in clothes but surely the same applies to women. Aren't many women into feeling masculine?


It's a really good point, but honestly, I have no idea, so I can only speculate. Personally, I think it may be for a number of reasons. It does seem that it's mainly men who are sexually more experimental. That may be because women in general (it's really hard not to generalise when speculating) seem to find much more satisfaction from the relationship side of sex, and don't find it necessary to experiment to be satisfied. Or, it may be women are generally (there it is again!) happy with their sexuality. Or it could be that women are so busy with their lives (the relationship, work, home life, kids, etc.) that they just don't have the time or energy to explore their sexuality.

Another point is the whole area of roles within a relationship. Men often have to feel that they are in control in the bedroom, maybe to prove their prowess as a man or simply because their ego / cultural upbringing demands it. But in fact, it's the woman who is really in control. She's the one who has the final say as to whether sex takes place, and usually it is the man who gives the woman pleasure, just as much (if not more) than the other way around. I know there are exceptions to these, but quite often I've found it to be true.

As I said, these are just speculations, and I may be well off target. It would be interesting to hear other points of view.

My first foray into cross dressing began at age 12, wearing a pair of cotton panties I'd snatched from my oldest stepsister. She caught me wearing them, she then went stark raving mad screaming about it through the house. Long episode shortened, i was humiliated by stepsister, how disgusted her outrage portrayed and stepmother, who tried to psychoanalyze me for 4 hrs. Ended up alone and crying on the balcony attached to the living room.

Part 2 of my clothing/persona timeline: As a teen, up to age 18, I would sneak around laundry rooms of this large, 200 unit, apt. complex i lived in and grab nice girlie clothes to wear under my male armor. Any female that I lived around during this time was sure to be devoid of at least one article of wear. In my sexual encounters with males, I'd always be the, I guess, bottom, female,submissive partner. That was how it was with my 1st encounter and I'd decided then/there, that I enjoyed pleasing these guys, loved to know pleasured them. And I think as time went on, in gradual sometimes hesitant stages, I was desirous of presenting a more feminine persona to the world.

THREE !!!!!!!!!!!!! : At 18.5 years of age, I was summarily tossed out into the adult world, akin to momma bird pushing hatchlings out of the nest so they learn to fly or die earthbound forever more. Won't dwell here, suffice to say that I quickly learned that my radical little redefinition of self was NOT only UNACCEPTABLE for the most part but might be met with VIOLENCE against my person for no other reason than difference I shut that operation off and ...............

4; Spent the next decade of existence entirely playing the ALPHA MALE guise which society found to be totally compatible, within THEIR definition ! Enough said here also

Episode 5: 'Ten years have got behind you......' Pink Floyd, Time (1973).
Yes, the next X annual permutations of excited protons proved to not be remarked upon either as my life revolved around work, work, work. But made good little sum

Tis 'now is the eve of our (my) discontent..' Shakespeare, Richard III (1594).
V years on and I have resumed that which I refused myself long ago. Not just 'undercover' lingerie, OH NO, NO, NO !!! Full on dressing with makeup, while this expression had been sporadic and fraught with nervous quiver when I was younger ( to a lesser degree at this advance of time), staying fully smooth, no eyebrows, sometimes still sporting nail polish or bit of eyeliner at work the next day.....

'And on, and on,on' Black Sabbath, Heaven and Hell' (1980).
So I continue...........

M~LNs
Quote by lucky64
Not sure it is crossdressing when you live 24/7 as a girl but I love female clothing, the sexier the better[/quoteI

If a sobriquet one must use, at this juncture Transvestite seems more appropriate

M~LNs
i love to dress up i do it becuse i like it & it is a turn on i like being girly
Love the clothes and the whole experience of being femme.
I love wearing lingerie,love the way it feels next to my skin. When I dress I imagine that I am a woman and get very aroused.When I'm dressed and I'm by myself or with another guy I just want to get down and dirty and either cum all over myself or get down on my knees and hungrily suck his cock
I enjoy crossdressing and have for years. I do enjoy wearing the clothing from intimates to full dress. I also dress for sexual pleasure mine and his
this is awesome make love tyo a crossdresser the moment i touch is cock the fire take me and i have no
like a lot of us I started out sneaking off with my sisters panties and wearing them whenever I could. I then added bras and just loved the feel of them. I became jealous of how she could wear just about anything and wished I could as well. over time I evolved into buying my own panties and bras along with girl short shorts and wore them as often as I could. one day in high school some boys somehow noticed my panties, either by my pantie lines or maybe my waist band. they caught up with me and forced me into the bushes and made me suck them off calling me a sissy and girly. they told me I better be wearing a bra tomorrow at school and I was so scared I did. bottom line they used me a lot throughout that year.

I guess that just made me want to be girly and I resigned myself to that role and started liking it in college and going forward I became more feminine in my appearance and role and enjoy being in the girls role with my bf and that's my story of how my cross-dressing started and how I have become the girlyboi that I am. the up side is now I can wear whatever I desire and feel as feminine as I want to.

I do have to temper it at work so as not to get folks uncomfortable with who I am and I respect that
I started off using my wife's panties to jack off. Then when I tried them on I was hooked. I love how they feel. Soft silky stretched tight. I looked in the mirror and realized how hot my dick looked straining to get free. I just tried stockings a few weeks ago and love them too. Now I fanta about going full dress. I can't fit in any of my wife's slutty clothes. I would love to get dressed up and go to a drag bar.
I love the feel of th cloths and how sexy i feel when dressed. I love the bras, thongs, nylons and any type of dress or skirt.
I enjoy it. I just love the feeling if the clothes in my body. It also makes me feel feminine and sexy at the same time.
Sometimes it is for the sexy feeling. Often I just feel more comfortable in women's clothes.
Never had the desire for women's clothes. Now, fine men's clothes. That's another matter. Especially Italian leather shoes.
Not something I've tried.
How does a nudist cross dress - I wore a strap on a couple of times, does that qualify?
Seriously - I have done it a few times as a party theme but never to mislead or confuse. I like my men to be men and my women to be sexy.
As a teen party game we used to undress and drop our clothes into shopping bags. Guys first, girls second. The bags would be mixed. Nobody knew whose was whose. We would then pick a bag and cross dress in the opposite sex. The guy/girl who had paired then had to regain their clothing by undressing the opposite sex, one by one. Girls first, guys second.
That was extremely interesting and lead to some very interesting experiences.
I started out in my teens, sneaking an occasional item and trying it on. Back then it was more for the thrill of it. As I got into my 20's, I started getting envious of the soft fabrics that my girlfriends always wore, yet I could rarely find the soft fabrics with men's clothing. Now I just wear women's clothes when I feel like it. My favorites that I wear around are thigh high pantyhose and bikini panties. I can wear them under my clothes without others knowing, and still feel a little sexy. I like women's clothes as they make me feel more in touch with my sensitive side which I have had since I was a teen. There are times though that I will wear something sexy just for the thrill of it, but mostly I just feel comfortable felling the nice fabrics.

I remember when I was younger, I never understood a woman's fascination with shoes. Once I bought a pair of black 5"heels for a Halloween costume, and wore them, I started to understand. Now I have several pairs of heels, and have started to get that little high from getting a new pair of shoes. Now if I could only find that woman that would accept me for who I am.
Quote by JessieCD
I started out in my teens, sneaking an occasional item and trying it on. Back then it was more for the thrill of it. As I got into my 20's, I started getting envious of the soft fabrics that my girlfriends always wore, yet I could rarely find the soft fabrics with men's clothing. Now I just wear women's clothes when I feel like it. My favorites that I wear around are thigh high pantyhose and bikini panties. I can wear them under my clothes without others knowing, and still feel a little sexy. I like women's clothes as they make me feel more in touch with my sensitive side which I have had since I was a teen. There are times though that I will wear something sexy just for the thrill of it, but mostly I just feel comfortable felling the nice fabrics.

I remember when I was younger, I never understood a woman's fascination with shoes. Once I bought a pair of black 5"heels for a Halloween costume, and wore them, I started to understand. Now I have several pairs of heels, and have started to get that little high from getting a new pair of shoes. Now if I could only find that woman that would accept me for who I am.

I think it must be one of the most difficult things to find, a woman that you are attracted to and who accepts your "alter ego".
It is hard enough to find a soulmate anyway. When you narrow the field, it becomes so much harder. If you don't live in a big city it is almost impossible.
I hope you find someone that does make you happy.
it's not for me, but i do love crossdressers
I like cross dressers too. However I have been having A hard time finding one willing to be with me, as more than a friend. I guess I'M just getting too old.bRxHJNGG0OLwHTgC
I do it for both reasons. I love to fully dress and become the woman of my inner feelings that just wants to please her man. I am very oral and a complete bottom in a comfortable situation. I desire to be treated like a lady and you can count on a satisfying sexual experience. Maybe we can chat sometime.
I have dressed for both reasons. I have dressed off and on for about 30 years. I love wearing bras, panties, skirts, dresses, blouses, heels, etc. I have never been out fully dressed. Lately I have been wearing because I feel comfortable in the clothes.
For me, dressing is purely for sexual purposes. I love getting all dolled up, slipping some sexy panties up my smooth legs, tucking myself back, and putting on a nice short skirt. For me, the turn-on is the nature of what I'm doing. That I am transforming myself into a girl with a little secret. That I am forgoing my masculinity (except for what's in my panties hehe), and changing my mannerisms, adopting a high-pitched, passably feminine voice. Nothing turns me on more when I'm dressed than fantasizing about seducing a straight man. Making him give in to his deepest desires. ;)
I have dressed since childhood. I love it.
"only those who participate can appreciate'
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I have dressed since childhood. I love it.
"only those who participate can appreciate'

I'm officially confused!