I know I'm a guy with a girls subject but if you don't mind heresy 2 cents. I agree with all of the above. Do plenty of research on whomever you find. Chat with them allot and ask specific questions about their area if you can find that out. Be doubly sure they are women.
There seems to be plenty of Brits here who would be willing to help or even become your new woman partner. Now maybe they are not in Derbyshire proper but maybe close. Be patient looking.
Don't rule out that BF might not mind you being bisexual. It's a very hot turn on for me. You'll have to approach the subject with a bit of caution but don't rule that out.
Hope this helps
Cheers
Gary. aka. JB
I shall don't worry, I'll do plenty of research before I rush into something like this. I don't want my boyfriend to be a part of it I want to do it on my own. I know that sounds selfish but it's something I need to do on my own.
There are too many ways to be tricked. Buy your own drinks and meet at a crowded diner, or something.