Well, it's 2022 now and they have this great product called PReP which pretty much effectively kills the HIV virus when it's encountered. I am not on it as yet but my trans partner is and is Polyam. I only have had sex with her bareback and she is a frequent tester for any STIs. I intend to use PREP at some stage as in the moment, bareback may happen with another lover I may meet. PReP does not protect against syphilis or gonorrhoea tho so you do have to make sure the other party has no SDIs. I don't have sex first meeting anyway, I have to get to know someone first before going the next step then there are records you can show of tests done etc.
It's 2022 and bareback is an option ( always was, just like wearing a condom is an option). There is a great product called PReP which kills HIV in the body. I have entered into a great relationship with a poly amorous trans woman and she is on PReP, I'm looking to go get onto the product too as poly am is appealing to me even though I'm quite new at it. In Australia to get on PREP you have to have blood tests every 6 weeks before your script can be filled. It's a great incentive to test for STIs.
It’s a yes no answer for me on condoms. I’ve been crossdressing for years and an escort. I have several regulars that are married and I feel comfortable allowing them to bareback me and I enjoy feeling them fill me. These are middle aged guys that get little sex at home and want that once a week or so fling. I’m passable and very fem and they tell me I feel just as good as a women to them. Sometimes they just want to get blown and other times fuck me. Either way they have pent up loads and I enjoy swallowing them and allowing them to cream pie me, that warm feeling is awesome
When it’s a guy I don’t know from the escort site it’s always condom. Even if they offer a lot more the answer is no. I did a bachelor party and ended up bent over the end of couch getting fucked by each of them and I put a bunch of condoms on the table and most of them were just happy to fuck me. Only a couple times did I have to yell at them.
As far as the clean issue, clean yourself or partner out with an enama and eat a clean diet and it’s not an issue. Never had an issue or complaint.
I'm fine with condoms but bareback has its advantages, too. For me to bareback, it would have to be a committed relationship and probably either monogamous or if poly, then with rules around who we can play with and testing. If the relationship was with a woman and children were not a goal, then some other form of birth control would be needed, of course.
A poem for your enjoyment. Little something that came to me a couple days ago
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-mistake-4