This may sound like a dumb question but I don't know the answer. So first off if I could choose who I would have sex with it would be a tight 18 year old chick(I am 20). Nothing turns me on more than a chick a little younger than me who has a nice body. If I could I would eat pussy all day.
But.... at times I find myself craving a nice cock. I love blowing the right guy, and letting him fuck me. Its like every once in awhile I get the strongest urge to hook up with a guy. But not just any guy, I only hook up with older men. I don't know why but I would never hook up with a guy under 45. I just love blowing a 45 year old man. And I love when he fucks me. But I would never fuck a guy myself. I even have a hard time letting them give me a BJ. I only want to please them.
I would never even think about hooking up with the same guy more than once. I just want please them and then never see them again. I love the randomness I guess. Most of the men I hook up with I find on the internet. And like an hour after I hook up with a guy I feel so much guilt for some reason, like I wish I never did it. But then when I get horny again I have no problem hooking up with another guy.
So I prefer to have sex with women 99% of the time, I have dated a few chicks and had sex with a bunch, but I like to hook up with older men once in awhile. Am I bi?
I'm 45 and have never been with a girl. However, I have fantasized about it for quite awhile. I want to know how she would taste, I want to know how I taste after she has oral with me, I want to spend time kissing and ......well you get the picture.
Is it normal to have all of these new wants at this point in my life? My husband of more than 20 yrs wants me to explore, with or without him there. The first time would have to be withOUT him.
First, to the lady above me,in my opinion, the only so called "normal" people are all total head cases. In other words, I don't think that there REALLY IS such a thing as 'normal" so you can beat yourself up asking why now? But, I doubt you'll find any answer. Besides, even if you DO find an answer to that question, will it CHANGE what you WANT? No. Not to be "indelicate' here, BUT the answer to how YOU taste seems to me to be one easily answered (if you haven't already, and I'm guessing that If your husband is into oral sex too, you already KNOW! LOL) I don't KNOW but I've been told that every guys cum has an individual taste to it (and the ladies who told me definitely DO KNOW from experience.) As to women, yes; there IS a slight difference in their "aroma" and "flavor' but only a SLIGHT and subtle difference. BTW, while said husband might be tolerant of "explorations without him" initially; at some point he PROBABLY will EXPECT to be included. Otherwise he will in all likelihood feel cheated on (and rightly so. What you SHARE is just that. Shared. What you don't share IS cheating. That's why I wouldn't have a problem with a MFM IF my lady had no problems with FMF and/or FFM, but to exclude me entirely would seem selfish to me.)
As to the OP, not a dumb question; BUT as dpw states, the way you describe yourself does conform to the definition of bisexual. Being bisexual doesn't mean that EVERYONE turns you on, just that certain individuals of both sexes can have that effect on you. I mean, whether you get into guys who LOOK like guys or ladyboys doesn't change anything. If your attracted to both sexes, then yes; you ARE bi. (But, as the old joke goes, you've just doubled your chances of getting a date on Friday night! LOL)
Yes, it is the duality that makes a person bisexual. You can feel and love both sexes. But it doesn't mean that you want to live or settle down with both. Very few bisexuals are totally equal but I have met some who are. You just like both. Simple. I hope you explore it deeper with no guilt.
No, but I do not mind that my wife is bi.
First grade and you question MY intellect? OK! Insecurities? I might have them once in a while, but not here. However much you might think of yourself, what you convey isn't impressive. So yeah, you come off as a smart ass and a jerk (Hence the Don Rickles reference.) 'nuf said.
Well 300 odd years ago you would just have been a sexually active man with no need for labels. If you're comfortable with what you do and you're not hurting anyone then no worries...
who cares what it makes you just do what you like whatever makes you feel good. i'd love to suck cock and as soon as find one i will. have fun with it.
I'd say you are straight with women and a submissive bi bottom with men. I know a few men like this and they lead lives of hooking up with men on the lowdown in secret and have all he same guilt and anguish ridden feelings you have. It is a hard road to go down hon....
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