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Underdressed or overdressed?
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Quote by HeraTeleia
I am going with the "overdressed", although I can't imagine ever actually being overdressed, since I wear the same simple 14k earrings with a matching pendant on a box chain necklace, and pretty much stick to a plain but flattering black shift dress and medium high heels when going anywhere, not terribly interesting but it works in 99.5% of occasions.
I live somewhere where smart/casual is preferable to actually overdressed. A few years ago I went with a bunch of girls to celebrate a birthday of one of them at a very grand hotel for afternoon tea. One girl wore a garden-party type dress (and afterwards said she felt embarrassingly over dressed, like she was left over from a wedding) and at the other extreme a few girls wore coloured jeans and leather jackets which was a bit over-casual for the venue. I was somewhere in the middle, which is how I usually try to judge it - smart enough to look dressed up, casual enough not look out of place.
Lady GlitterGiggles
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Under~with back up accessories in my bag~like sunscreen and bracelets
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sigh, living in CA, flipflops and shorts can be over dressed...
i miss NY, and that's how i dress.
i miss NY, and that's how i dress.
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Overdressed
The Bee's Knees
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overdressed. i showed up underdressed to one function and vowed to never do it again. felt WAY too uncomfortable.
Say. Her. Name.
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Overdressed.
I have been guilty - but used the excuse I was going onto another function after this one.
I have been guilty - but used the excuse I was going onto another function after this one.
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I would certainly rather be overdressed than under-dressed at an affair of some kind
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Best to be overdressed.... you can always strip down.... 
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'tis himself!
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I'm going to go with overdressed. Underdressed, I feel like a slob, and disrespectful. Overdressed, I feel like a gentleman.
Fancy Schmancy
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Overdressed. I seriously doubt whether I have ever been underdressed in my entire adult life. I especially love getting dressed up.
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In my world I try to dress one step above what is expected so overdressed tends to win...
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Overdressed
Candyland Kitten
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At any given time I own at most two pairs of jeans and two pairs of dress pants. I live in skirts and dresses even if just at the beach or the carnival. Underdressed is just not my thing. Even in Michigan in 12" of snow. That's why they make high heeled boots and tights. 
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defiantly overdressed
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Overdressed - you can always remove or loosen something to make overdressed not appear to be too overdressed. It's hard to go the other way.
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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Quote by seeker4
I am a perpetual underdresser (that's "under" not "un" you dirty minds, though I do undress a lot, too) but I agree that from a social standpoint, overdressed is probably preferable.
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Overdressed always.
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Overdressed, for sure. You can always say you are coming from or going to some event more formal.
Brandie
Brandie
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Late high school/early college, I'd have said 'overdressed'. Now, almost done with my bachelor's, I'm gonna have to go with 'underdressed'. I feel like I make it work since I wear mostly black clothing, which looks pretty sleek even if it's a $10 outfit from the thrift store (as long as it's tailored!).
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Forever overdressed--looking frumpy isn't my thing.
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This wonderful lady offers the following advice ...
"If you can't do better than your competition then dress better!"
Empress of the Moon
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Quote by Buz
If you show up for a social gathering and discover you are not dressed right for the occasion, do you prefer to be overdressed or underdressed?
Personally, I'd usually rather be overdressed than underdressed. I feel even more conspicuous if I'm underdressed.
I'd rather be undressed at a social gathering.
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Quote by Ruthie
I'd rather be undressed at a social gathering.
That's why you were always invited to every fraternity party on campus.
Rainbow Warrior
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Everyone always invites me to 'come-as-you-are' parties, and since I'm a nudist, well... I'm usually the one underdressed. 
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Quote by LaylaJune
Overdressed. I seriously doubt whether I have ever been underdressed in my entire adult life. I especially love getting dressed up.
I'm with Layla on this one.. I've had g/f's complain especially when they want to dress down... what a tux can be casual...
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Quote by Buz
If you show up for a social gathering and discover you are not dressed right for the occasion, do you prefer to be overdressed or underdressed?
Personally, I'd usually rather be overdressed than underdressed. I feel even more conspicuous if I'm underdressed.
I probably tend towards underdressed. I am a person who dresses for comfort, not look or style (e.g. I only wear ties when absolutely necessary because I find them very uncomfortable). That said, I think the others are likely correct. From a purely social standpoint, over is probably a bit better.