Probably not. I feel like if they wanted something else they should ask me first. I'm open minded so there would be 0 excuses for being shady.
Neither of us have acted on it but we have an open relationship. After some discussions we both decided that not having ownership over one another’s sexuality was important to us and we both encourage the other to seek satisfaction if they need it somewhere else.
That being said if she was keeping someone secret I would be hurt. Part of that ‘open’ in our open relationship is communication. We tell each other how we feel and hiding a relationship would be more hurtful than having dozens of partners I knew about.
I have been cheated on and lied to by my fiancée many years ago. She got caught out though and we split up. It took a long while to trust a lady fully after that. A leopard doesn’t change its spots and neither do cheats soI could not forgive. It would always be there in the back of my mind.
