How do you define a "slut"? What would be your definition of "being a slut"? "dressed like a slut"? Overall, I'm just curious how you gals define "slut".....and.....begin.
Also, I don't mean to offend anybody. I'm just curious what y'all think given that we are on this site. I'm gonna go ahead and say that, there really is no wrong answer. So, let us keep the fire to a minimum.
It is an outdated, pejorative term, thank god. If some people enjoy it for recreational reasons, then all power to 'em!
It used to be a slur - you know. In the 80's it was a big insult.
But now people use it to denote a fun, outgoing and open attitude about sex and sexuality. It's changed quite a bit.
Seen this somewhere and thought it was funny "A Slut is a woman with the morals of a man"
A very interesting person.
I think slut was once a word used to police women's behavior. It was a huge slap in the face to be called a slut, especially by another woman.
Happily we transformed slut into an empowering word, I don't mind it all. "Open your mouth for me, you little slut," is now flirty instead of hateful ;)
I really love words and that one is a powerful one. Like many rather raw words, it's all in how it's being used and who is using it.
I ran across an Urban Dictionary definition once, and there were many. One said that it was a woman with the same attitude that a man has toward sex. Another was that it's what some guy calls a girl when she's having sex with everyone except him. And then finally, it's how a female refers to another female that's sleeping with the guy she wished she had. I found these all very amusing because they do denote a certain amount of power. To really enjoy sex, I recommend getting in touch with your inner slut, not to say that would mean that you would just fuck anybody and everybody though. It doesn't have to mean that.
I enjoy the usage during certain types of play with my lover, as in I'm going to be "your" little slut right now. Forget the foreplay, it's not necessary. I want to feel good and make you feel good, right now. Fantasy level kind of stuff. We are about to put the Fuck in Sex and I'm taking the lead. I'm in control of the word. Even if it's flung at me, I'm still in control of it.
A slut to me? A welcome addition to Lush.
If slut is a term that is applied, (for some unknown reason), uniquely to females, (god knows that I'm very happy to be one), would it not be fair to therefore widen the generality of the applicative definition to read: a slut is a woman with the morals of a man???
It depends on the context. Who is saying it to whom,and how it's being said. It's not always A female, there are male sluts. In fact I think I may be one.L.O.L.
In the L.G.B.T. community it's usually A term of endearment, but not always. As for myself I think it's someone who is free of inhibitions & enjoys various sexual positions. With more than one other person. ( non monogamous ) Or more than one person at A time. It's all good to me.wXRHpwxQPQ2LEHy8
Dale, my sweetie, you do indeed represent the defining root of the term, you naughty boy! [bh]
Dale, my sweetie, you do indeed represent the defining root of the term, you naughty boy! [bh]