I know for a fact that I learned how to go down on a woman by having watched porn. In fact the credit for that really awesome bit of knowledge was from Seka! She didn't merely gently kiss her partner's mound but rather gave her a really inspired eating out!!! I've received lots and lots of praise from my partners over the years for my oral skills!
So how about you? Has porn made you a better lover?
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What have you learned from porn?
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Watching has only given me the push to try new things and the same for my partner. We'll Copy a position or use a little more force. Sometimes we'll just put some porn on to get into a sexual mood. Can't say it's taught me anything
Watching porn has taught me that I don’t get much from it so consequently I rarely if ever watch it. Most of it is too unreal, cheap, tasteless and gratuitous. Personally I prefer erotic images that leave something to my imagination.
This pic is beautifully erotic to me.
You can't see the action in this one but it's still highly erotic.
My imagination allows me to be transported into both scenes. I've experienced both a number of times so it's not pushing any boundaries so I can't claim that it’s teaching me anything but I find both highly stimulating. Porn quite simply can’t do that for me.
This pic is beautifully erotic to me.
You can't see the action in this one but it's still highly erotic.
My imagination allows me to be transported into both scenes. I've experienced both a number of times so it's not pushing any boundaries so I can't claim that it’s teaching me anything but I find both highly stimulating. Porn quite simply can’t do that for me.
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I am normal.
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Quote by honeydipped
delivery men are well hung
And the pool guy, the plumber and the pizza guy.
Normal Adjacent
That if someone thinks of something, there is already going to be porn of it, lol. There are no new ideas. Try it, think of something and type it in a search engine and voila, porn!
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That some things are better watched than tried. Oh, and that an average size cock is 10" long. Now if there were just an average guy around here...
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I've learned that I prefer to have sex, than watch other people have sex.
A lot of what is in porn is so unrealistic and not at all appealing to me.
A lot of what is in porn is so unrealistic and not at all appealing to me.
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Constant Gardener
I just learned that tits are preferred over asses in 9 of the least populated states in America.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Advanced Wordsmith
when i was young i though my vagina look weird. Thanks to porn i know all vaginas are different and there is nothing wrong with mine.
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That I'm not hung enough to be a delivery man 
When I was young I learned from it that not all men can shoot cum that far.
When I was young I learned from it that not all men can shoot cum that far.
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I learned that I wasn't just "curious" about wanting to play with another man's cock...
I get rock hard while watching, jacking and cumming!
Pushing me to go to the next step! ?
I get rock hard while watching, jacking and cumming!
Pushing me to go to the next step! ?
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That this
is the epitome of male sexiness
is the epitome of male sexiness
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Quote by Saintz
That I'm not hung enough to be a delivery man
When I was young I learned from it that not all men can shoot cum that far.
the latter part tho made my day.
I could show you INCREDIBLE things...
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Quote by petrova
the latter part tho made my day.
Not ashamed to admit that I don't have a 10 incher.
Else I would have a career delivering ripped boxes for UPS
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Quote by Saintz
Not ashamed to admit that I don't have a 10 incher.
Else I would have a career delivering ripped boxes for UPS
Too funny, who says you can't? Just in case don't let them track you!
I could show you INCREDIBLE things...
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Porn has taught me far more sexual positions than I ever would have just figured out on my own. Well, I'm sure I could have come across them eventually but I'd certainly have had experience with far fewer than I have now.
I've also learned that when 'weird' things happen during sex that I need to just roll with it. I once saw a video where a guy was using a dildo on a girl and shortly after her first orgasm, she let out a loud fart. They both laughed, took a beat, and then got back to it. Some time later I had a similar experience on my own and immediately thought back to that scene. I could tell that she was mortified with herself but I immediately started laughing. It made her giggle as well and quickly after we were back at it, essentially salvaging what could have been a mood-killing moment.
I've also learned that when 'weird' things happen during sex that I need to just roll with it. I once saw a video where a guy was using a dildo on a girl and shortly after her first orgasm, she let out a loud fart. They both laughed, took a beat, and then got back to it. Some time later I had a similar experience on my own and immediately thought back to that scene. I could tell that she was mortified with herself but I immediately started laughing. It made her giggle as well and quickly after we were back at it, essentially salvaging what could have been a mood-killing moment.
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Quote by petrova
Too funny, who says you can't? Just in case don't let them track you!
They can track me?? There goes my job for TNT...
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Ladies faking out orgasms. The few porn flicks I've seen, eyes roll and moans start mere seconds after the gods (the male stars) make contact. There were only two instances where the women seem to climax for real but they didn't get to enjoy those because whoever's filming instructs them or the partner to look at the camera or something.
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That there are people out there way sicker than I am. 
Senior Analyst
That for a man, tasteful lesbian porn makes the best instructional material for how to make love to a woman.
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Really bad story lines w even worse acting.
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Porn is always fascinating if not always erotic, I always have respect for the way those women take a pounding.
Probably my only take away lesson is that you can still be adventurous and be a priss when it comes to tentacle porn, sexuality is what works for you as an individual.
Probably my only take away lesson is that you can still be adventurous and be a priss when it comes to tentacle porn, sexuality is what works for you as an individual.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
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That 99% of porn is ho hum boring and nobody in porn can act worth a flip.
That all men have 10" cocks and all women have 38DD boobs that look like melons.
That all women want to be fucked by 10" cocks.
That the only porn that turns me on is uh... well.... None of it... LOL
I DO however like some girl on girl stuff if it's done well which is rarely....
And last but not least that a lot of the people on Lush have great ideas of what's hot and the stories and pics are some of the sexiest stuff I've ever seen.
Gimme Lush over porn any day and I hope it never becomes a pay site. I'd much rather put up with advertising than to pay for access which I will never do.
That all men have 10" cocks and all women have 38DD boobs that look like melons.
That all women want to be fucked by 10" cocks.
That the only porn that turns me on is uh... well.... None of it... LOL
I DO however like some girl on girl stuff if it's done well which is rarely....
And last but not least that a lot of the people on Lush have great ideas of what's hot and the stories and pics are some of the sexiest stuff I've ever seen.
Gimme Lush over porn any day and I hope it never becomes a pay site. I'd much rather put up with advertising than to pay for access which I will never do.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
Una chica rubia caliente
Most M/F video pornography is far too misogynistic for my taste (as is, in my opinion, rap music, which I loathe). The women in these "films" are often rather nasty looking and slatternly and the men are usually ugly (shaved heads, tasteless tattoos) and abusive. Some of the F/F offerings could be appealing, but it is always the same predictable stuff. I prefer a good story anytime.
Love Bug
Porn is a great way to realize that sex is different for everyone. We each have kinks and turn ons, the trick is to find a partner who is compatible. It is like the fact that everyone likes cookies, but an oreo lover might not be compatible with a chips ahoy fanatic.
Seriously porn when done right can get your creative juices flowing. The only bad sex, is boring sex. Watch it and you might get some great ideas.
Seriously porn when done right can get your creative juices flowing. The only bad sex, is boring sex. Watch it and you might get some great ideas.
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As a mature adult I'd say that most porn (video) is loathsome and always the same stuff. I prefer reading porn here for variety.
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