I've been seeing an escort for approximately 6 months now. Over the last 3-4 months the frequency has increased, around 2-3 times per week. We have really good chemistry. A few months ago we decided to start having unprotected sex. In addition I've been ejaculating inside her pussy as we both enjoy that. She recently told me that she's not on birth control. But she's in her late 40's so very unlikely she could get pregnant. I know she still ovulates though as we've had period sex a few times.
I know it's wrong and risky but I can't help myself. It's so hot, as is she. Can anyone else relate with something being so wrong, yet feels so good?
Homeboy, she's a hooker. She just wants your monies. She doesn't care if you wear or don't wear protection.
Is this real? Have you been reading erotica or watching roleplay porn? VR porn?
And if it is real then I don't know.
I cannot relate in any way. You are way too old to be so foolish.
Be honest. All women, escort or not bareback someone. Even with a condom you are taking a risk. If you are OK with the added that is on you. And any of you who say escorts don't bareback at least one guy (her lover or at least one client) hasn't known very many of them.
Assuming this is true and you are the only one she has unprotected sex with, I would say you should still get tested once a month or so because she does have other sexual partners (even if infrequent and with a condom - and what are the chances all oral sex is using a condom? And if she also sleeps with partners with a vagina, or using shared toys, are safety precautions always used? Probably not.)
So many STIs don’t have any symptoms, but can still cause damage and be spread to others who _will_ have symptoms. I’d want to know if I’m negative or positive so I can get treatment sooner rather than later, or a big sigh of relief.
Also, depending on access, age, and where you live, I’d recommend people to look into the HPV vaccine as well regardless of gender or sexual experience if they haven’t already. It’s the only vaccine that helps prevent HPV caused cancer which isn’t just some forms of cervical cancer, but also some forms of mouth and anal cancer.
Regardless of the scenario, if you or the person you’re having sex with see other people _protected or not_ , you should get tested. Most areas have clinics where you can even get tested for free and anonymously.
Better safe than sorry. It’s not about trust, it’s about taking care of your health.
Probably better to ask some of these questions to a medical professional and not a sex story site though.
Personally I value my health and I have been lied to countless times by people I trusted. A lot of people posting think your actions are reckless. The escort is your only partner and you sound like you have made your decision. She makes you happy. Enjoy. Be careful.
Get tested regularly, that's all I can say. Especially if you still have an active sex life with other people.
