Just wondering if there is a preference for a strap on dildo for couples. Me and my wife are looking to get a strap on harness but not sure what to get. We want it to be compatible with multiple toys, as well as versatile for both me and her to wear. She is a BBW so the harness would have to fit her if we ever got to the pegging stage. Otherwise I would be the one wearing it with a hollow dildo. I have looked at multiple sites on the Internet and with so many options its hard to choose which one to go with. We would like something that is going to stay tight to my body and not move around and something that doesn't take forever to put on and take off. Any suggestions would help. Thanks