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Should serial trolling be allowed in forums?

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Should 'serial trolling' be allowed in the forums?

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Yes, I love to see someone throw jabs (3 votes) 8%
No, it derails what could be a great topic (28 votes) 70%
I don't care, I enjoy it sometimes (20 votes) 50%
I will leave it it starts to get out of hand (1 vote) 3%
I join in with the aggressor, it's fun (0 votes) 0%
I watch but don't join in (1 vote) 3%
I'll eventually leave the site (0 votes) 0%
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Quote by Dani
Oh no. This thread didn't turn out like it was originally intended and it backfired and turned into a shit show?

Color me surprised.



Turd* show.
Coco
Cocolicious
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It's the same from the other side of the fence. It's not only me anymore is it? Everyone else must be imagining it too. Yeah I've got a couple of people blocked NOW. I wasn't able to block everything until a few weeks ago. It still doesn't fix the problem. It's just hiding it.

Look at how annoyed some of you are getting about this thread alone. Yes it's flogging a dead horse because it never changes. It's not only one person either. I don't start forum tussles but I will fight back. I don't take kindly to others talking to me like I am dirt beneath their feet. Somehow that makes me a bad guy too. Nobody likes a smart mouthed smartass. Internet bullying IS a real thing that is punishable by law. I've never asked for anyone to be banned. I've only ever wanted to post on a thread to have some fun without being mocked or humiliated. I DO think twice before posting on some forums/threads here because I've had other members target me repeatedly on those specific forums.

I've been reported for harassment/bullying Based on much less and some of it was, in my opinion only , an absolute farce. A lot of you know I love this site. I admire and respect the moderators more than they know for doing a thankless job. I keep hearing the same thing... "Grow up. Ignore it, don't feed the troll" the advice says yes there Are trolls. Live with it. The majority of those getting offended are moderators. Because you don't know what it's like. I'm not trying to offend any mods by saying that. It's a fact. I could find another playground to play in but i don't want to. Why do I have to move on because other members think it's funny to treat me like a piece of dirt?



Not really this thread alone but you are entitled to your opinion.
NymphWriter
Unicorn Wrangler
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It's the same from the other side of the fence. It's not only me anymore is it? Everyone else must be imagining it too. Yeah I've got a couple of people blocked NOW. I wasn't able to block everything until a few weeks ago. It still doesn't fix the problem. It's just hiding it.


While I agree somewhat that blocking a member who gets under your skin and on your last nerve doesn't solve the problem... it sure as fuck cuts back on the drama and bullshit thus making the Mods' job a bit easier (not that they have an easy job to begin with.)

Blocking a shit-stirrer is a better option than leaving the site or bitching at the Mods who do what they can... even if we think they don't do enough. It was clearly said earlier by a Mod (I believe Dani though it might have been Coco, Rach, or Liz) that a lot goes on behind the scenes that we don't see.

I find those who bitch the loudest about the block are typically the ones who do the most shit-stirring.
trinket
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Yes, a turd is a tubular shaped piece of shit.



...

And trinket please, you repeatedly say you take screenshots of everything I say. You even included a screen shot in your most recent novella you treacherous dog. And horror movies are unsettling too... I still watch them though. It's fun. You're my lush horror movie.


and there it is again. I posted "bitch spray" under someone once and got a warning for harassment. I should have tyed "a treacherous dog
turd in a horror movie " Seems I would've been safe.
trinket
Convict
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While I agree somewhat that blocking a member who gets under your skin and on your last never doesn't solve the problem... it sure as fuck cuts back on the drama and bullshit thus making the Mods' job a bit easier (not that they have an easy job to begin with.)

Blocking a shit-stirrer is a better option than leaving the site or bitching at the Mods who do what they can... even if we think they don't do enough. It was clearly said earlier by a Mod (I believe Dani though it might have been Coco, Rach, or Liz) that a lot goes on behind the scenes that we don't see.

I find those who bitch the loudest about the block are typically the ones who do the most shit-stirring.



Apologies to Nymph for misunderstanding what she wrote. What she meant and what I thought are 2 different things. My comment was unwarranted.
VanGogh
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
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That's the complete opposite to what you say to me in private.



Classic!

Guest
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I find those who bitch the loudest about the block are typically the ones who do the most shit-stirring.

I'm always bitching about something.
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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I've been reported for harassment/bullying Based on much less and some of it was, in my opinion only , an absolute farce. A lot of you know I love this site. I admire and respect the moderators more than they know for doing a thankless job. I keep hearing the same thing... "Grow up. Ignore it, don't feed the troll" the advice says yes there Are trolls. Live with it. The majority of those getting offended are moderators. Because you don't know what it's like. I'm not trying to offend any mods by saying that. It's a fact. I could find another playground to play in but i don't want to. Why do I have to move on because other members think it's funny to treat me like a piece of dirt?


The reporting was done by another member, not a mod, I guess. I'm curious to know what the mods concluded from those reportings and whether you were sanctioned because of them. You say you admire and respect the mods, yet you clearly don't admire or respect their decisions when they are related to your complaints.

Personally I think that if someone is a repeat offender despite the sanctions put on them, then the next sanction should probably be tougher. As a sanction implies that the mods concluded that complaints were valid, the "grow a thicker skin" argument is not in place in those cases (at least not coming from the mods). In other cases though...


It might be interesting to know of all those accused of whining, offending, harassing, bullying, trolling, blackmailing or just being hypocrites about it, whether they have been sanctioned before for their behaviour in the forums, and how often. And since Kiera insinuated that this thread was about me I'll start:
I have been in numerous heated debates where at some point a mod deemed it necessary to tell us to "cut it out", to delete some posts or even to close the thread. I've also been kicked out of a member-created chat room once by the owner (not a mod). That's it. I have never been sanctioned, or even had an official warning, for my behaviour in the forums.

How about you? How about the others in this thread?


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NymphWriter
Unicorn Wrangler
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That's the complete opposite to what you say to me in private.


Really Trinket... is that how you're choosing to remember it? Have you not seen it for yourself?

I don't bitch about the block, but I have seen several in the forums do exactly that. Ironically, it's typically the same members who do the most shit-stirring and I'm intentionally NOT NAMING ANY NAMES HERE! However, you just fed those who think ill of me more ammunition so thanks. Maybe you need to go back and reread what I have said you to in private since you made this public, get your facts straight and stop listening to those who are exactly as I said... SHIT-STIRRERS!

Oh, and for the record... I have NEVER ONCE reported you for shit & I also don't share what you've said to me in a public forum ever. Whatever. Think what you will.
Dani
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
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Who turned into a shit show?



This thread did...

People tried to present logical arguments, names like 'narcissist' and 'fool' were thrown into the mix, as were psychoanalyses sponsored by Wikipedia.

And these initial jabs weren't even offered by our favorite troll we love to hate. Go figure.

░P░U░S░S░Y░ ░I░N░ ░B░I░O░


Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Who turned into a shit show?





It was all the...

Tee

You

Are

Dee

Eses
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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LOL, is this the Voldemort Effect, Lush style?


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Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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That's the complete opposite to what you say to me in private.



Your hatred for me led you into trusting the villain known as nymphwriter. For that I do apologize. I'm sorry trinket. That is a fate I wish on no one, no matter how much they suck. Not even you.
Simmerdownchick
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Really Trinket... is that how you're choosing to remember it? Have you not seen it for yourself?

I don't bitch about the block, but I have seen several in the forums do exactly that. Ironically, it's typically the same members who do the most shit-stirring and I'm intentionally NOT NAMING ANY NAMES HERE! However, you just fed those who think ill of me more ammunition so thanks. Maybe you need to go back and reread what I have said you to in private since you made this public, get your facts straight and stop listening to those who are exactly as I said... SHIT-STIRRERS!

Oh, and for the record... I have NEVER ONCE reported you for shit & I also don't share what you've said to me in a public forum ever. Whatever. Think what you will.


This thread isn't Trinkets fault. It's mine. Like I said to Ravenstar, I'm sorry. i have learned more than you think about interpersonal relationships on this site, some good, some not so good, but as long a lesson is learned I can sleep tonight. I feel very bad that this has turned into a shit show. It is my fault, I was tired of what I perceived to be partiality when I don't even know what goes on behind the scenes. Please don't blame someone else for my mistake. I'll eat the crow. Liz, Coco, Dani and especially Sprite, I'm sorry to have put you in this position. Everyone has a bad day, and it's clearly obvious I'm not perfect. My biggest flaw and best quality is that I stand up for what I believe, but sometimes I don't know when to shut the hell up.

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
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Gawd, this thread is still going??? I thought it was about cereal trolling.




Simmerdownchick
Creator
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Gawd, this thread is still going??? I thought it was about cereal trolling.






LOL! And that's my favorite cereal....I almost spelled that wrong....I will go stand in the corner now

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

NymphWriter
Unicorn Wrangler
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This thread isn't Trinkets fault. It's mine. Like I said to Ravenstar, I'm sorry. i have learned more than you think about interpersonal relationships on this site, some good, some not so good, but as long a lesson is learned I can sleep tonight. I feel very bad that this has turned into a shit show. It is my fault, I was tired of what I perceived to be partiality when I don't even know what goes on behind the scenes. Please don't blame someone else for my mistake. I'll eat the crow. Liz, Coco, Dani and especially Sprite, I'm sorry to have put you in this position. Everyone has a bad day, and it's clearly obvious I'm not perfect. My biggest flaw and best quality is that I stand up for what I believe, but sometimes I don't know when to shut the hell up.


I'm not upset with you Simmer. Trinket misread my response. She took everything I said as being aimed at her when it wasn't. I was agreeing with her in the beginning then pointing out an observation I've seen in several forum threads form several members. I didn't name any names because I was trying to NOT shit-stir (though it would be an easy list to write.)

I will stand by my statements earlier including that while the block isn't a perfect fix, it cuts back on the drama and bullshit. I never said Trinket bitched about the block though I do think she made an error about how the block worked until recently. However, that is an easy thing to misunderstand if you don't know how it works exactly. Best solution is to ask a Mod politely about the block and how it works. I would guess they would rather answer a question or two then deal with the reports of harassment or bullying... however this is just an educated guess on my part.

Quote by ChuckEPoo
Gawd, this thread is still going??? I thought it was about cereal trolling.






OMG! This is hysterical & thank you for the giggle!
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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So now people are no longer responsible for what they posted? So MF* is off the hook then?

* MotherFucker (I wouldn't dare to call anyone by name of course, but please keep an eye on your mothers)


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Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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So now people are no longer responsible for what they posted? So MF* is off the hook then?

* MotherFucker (I wouldn't dare to call anyone by name of course, but please keep an eye on your mothers)


You're an idiot, shut up.
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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You're an idiot, shut up.


Why does one have to make it so personal again?


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Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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I will go stand in the corner now


Go to your kitchen... and see if your head fits in the microwave.
trinket
Convict
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Your hatred for me led you into trusting the villain known as nymphwriter. For that I do apologize. I'm sorry trinket. That is a fate I wish on no one, no matter how much they suck. Not even you.


Oh but I do trust nymphwriter, and have for a long time. I misunderstood what she posted, got butt-hurt, and I've apologised. That doesn't make it ok but I owned my mistake. ? I do that sometimes.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Oh but I do trust nymphwriter, and have for a long time. I misunderstood what she posted, got butt-hurt, and I've apologised. That doesn't make it ok but I owned my mistake. ? I do that sometimes.




Trinket no... Do not be charmed by that snake... Trinket please listen. Run, run while you still can. She's a deep dark smelly pit of bitterness. Save yourself.
trinket
Convict
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Trinket no... Do not be charmed by that snake... Trinket please listen. Run, run while you still can. She's a deep dark smelly pit of bitterness. Save yourself.



Please quit your name calling. That was my mistake not hers. See this is what the thread is about. People who can't have an adult conversation on a thread without derailing it with name calling. There's no need for it. I have no idea why you find it entertaining. You're calling people turds, deep dark smelly pits of bitterness, treacherous etc.

How exactly does that contribute to this thread? oh silly me. You're giving examples of how someone derails a thread and again, nobody is asking you to stop. If I ask nicely will you stop insulting people posting on this thread? If not, why not?
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Please quit your name calling. That was my mistake not hers. See this is what the thread is about. People who can't have an adult conversation on a thread without derailing it with name calling. There's no need for it. I have no idea why you find it entertaining. You're calling people turds, deep dark smelly pits of bitterness, treacherous etc.

How exactly does that contribute to this thread? oh silly me. You're giving examples of how someone derails a thread and again, nobody is asking you to stop. If I ask nicely will you stop insulting people posting on this thread? If not, why not?


Trinket, what the hell... I'm on your side this time. I'm trying to protect you from the treachery of others. Why? Because I'm a good person, and I care about you. I don't want someone evil and vile (word games ya'll, respect me) to mess with you. Yeah I know you hate and love me at the same time and that's fucked up........ But I'm willing to look past that. If it means I can save you from nymphwriter's subterfuge I can easily put aside our differences. Trinket please, hear my words. Take my hand and see the light.
trinket
Convict
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Trinket, what the hell... I'm on your side this time. I'm trying to protect you from the treachery of others. Why? Because I'm a good person, and I care about you. I don't want someone evil and vile (word games ya'll, respect me) to mess with you. Yeah I know you hate and love me at the same time and that's fucked up........ But I'm willing to look past that. If it means I can save you from nymphwriter's subterfuge I can easily put aside our differences. Trinket please, hear my words. Take my hand and see the light.


Would that be the sunshine that you think shines out of your ass?
patokl
Active Ink Slinger
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Would that be the sunshine that you think shines out of your ass?

That could be the LED on his ohmibod...
A little kindness can be so valuable, yet costs almost nothing

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Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Would that be the sunshine that you think shines out of your ass?



Trinket, as long as you don't look me in the eye, I would let you give me a very sad runny eyeliner blowjob to make it all up to me. I would even give you a pat on the head after I cum and tell you to keep your chin up.
trinket
Convict
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Trinket, as long as you don't look me in the eye, I would let you give me a very sad runny eyeliner blowjob to make it all up to me. I would even give you a pat on the head after I cum and tell you to keep your chin up.




I don't wear eyeliner so sadly, I cannot be your fantasy come true. Nobody could bribe me to do that let alone "let" me do that to you. I'm assuming all that up there would be before I looked you in the eye and bit your weeny peeny off? Dream on, cat.