Is it a , even here?

I hope it isn't....
So many people walk around with one, and have some symptoms, but they are not clear enough to see a doctor.
I am just curious about peoples experiences, how did you know that you had one, did you dare to tell your previous partners etc?
How did it effect you?
Do you have some vague symptoms but don't know if you should see a doctor?
I wonder if people want to talk about it....