How many of you out there would have sex with a totally random person?
Not a stranger but still a random person.
Example.
Say you see the same person every morning at the coffee shop.
You don't know each others names but are friendly and chatty.
Your both single and attracted to each other in a way.
Then it randomly comes up to just have sex. No relationship or anything just a quick stress reliever.
Would you do it?.
I know I would ;)
I love to read stories about this
but in order to have sex I have to be in love
or at the very least
severe mind blowing lust
and never have I met a stranger who can do that
see the brain turns me on
but I so get the thrill of stranger sex
and that is why it is MY fantasy if not my reality
I have never done that. I would think it would be very dangerous (health) now unless you were very careful with protection. But I just could not imagine doing it even if it was not. I view sex as more than a handshake or completely casual event...... but that is just me.
Like thesexyhun said, it is definitely a VERY hot fantasy for me! I guess I'm just not built to fuck for the sake of fucking and that's fine with me. There are SO many other fabulously naughty fantasies I've gotten to fulfil that I don't feel like I've missed out on anything.
There has to be a personal connection - stronger than just acquaintances.
Thought about, yes.
Followed through, no - not even in my teen years.
I would ask them out and if they accepted, get to know them first as a person. If things clicked, then move on to other things.
Sure I've done this. I work at the beach and most such hook ups happened with college girls down here on spring break.
Been there and done it many times. If you're not in a relationship with someone, why not? It might end up being just another enjoyable sexual escapade or it could turn into something more. you for damned sure won't find out unless it give it a try.
I haven't & my shyness will probably help make sure I never will.
Provided I was single, the "friendly and chatty" was indicative of some sort of connection, and I was attracted to her, absolutely. I'd prefer it led to, or had the potential to lead to something more meaningful, but I wouldn't knock back a stray fuck. You never get those back again.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. Yes. If there was chemistry. No strings attached. Just sex.
I don't know. It is a very sexy idea but I can't say that I have ever been in a situation where it could really happen. My sexual encounters have all been planned to some degree. That's not to say all have been relationships, but we communicated and then met with sex being the clear intention so hardly a random encounter. I think I am just lusty enough that I would if the person, time, and circumstances were all right. Not to say I wouldn't second guess myself in hindsight when it was over, but I could definitely see myself doing it.
Does being a teenager on your own for the first time and being in the military count as 'no strings sex?' If so then I have done that and it was not uncommon since I was in a field that was mostly men, at the time. Being one of four women in a company of about one hundred, I had my pick. Those were the days.
...I thought that maybe a new life, a different life, wouldn’t be so bad. But where the hell did I put the receipt, and could you return something that was over twenty years old? Where do you go to get a new life when your old one has you so puzzled you don’t know how to fix it? Wish I knew.
-Anita Blake (Laurell K. Hamilton)
No such thing as random for me - every one is fair game and is observed with the same critical eye. With every contact new or old the questions mentally asked are "Would I?, would she?".
Foremost to answer the "Would I?" question must be attractiveness. I have my dislikes as many of us do and then the answer is obviously no. But if I find her attractive, well the fun begins. What's wrong with recreational sex anyway?
This comment might cause offence in some quarters but none is intended - it would be interesting to hear the views of say a young girl who for cultural reasons surprisingly finds herself at her own wedding with a strange man chosen by her parents.
Doubt it could be more random than that, (and pretty awful too I suspect), or that she logs on to Lush.
