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Don't misunderstand, I'm not claiming to be some ultra handsome, world class, horse hung stud that every woman in the world finds so irresistible she just has to drop her panties and give me whatever I want. I'm an average "Joe" who has lucked into a lot of "right time and place" situations when I had "no strings" binding me else where! So, I took what fate offered (WITH A BIG SMILE) and thoroughly enjoyed each occasion!
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No such thing as random for me - every one is fair game and is observed with the same critical eye. With every contact new or old the questions mentally asked are "Would I?, would she?".
Foremost to answer the "Would I?" question must be attractiveness. I have my dislikes as many of us do and then the answer is obviously no. But if I find her attractive, well the fun begins. What's wrong with recreational sex anyway?

Wouldn't you ever just have sex for sex sake? It's there, on a plate with no recriminations and total anonimity, just pure animalistic sex!
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when I was single it was the way it went
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Yes I have done it and loved it.
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I would not do something like that, sex with random people...Sex is not only having someone's between legs for me...I need mind connection as well as body connection and I don't think I would have mind connection with just seeing her in somewhere...I should know her at first...I guess I am not one night stand guy..
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As a fantasy....oooooh yes!! But in reality it just doesn't do it for me. Not that I disapprove of the concept, I probably just over think things. In fantasy life and sex is much simpler! ;)
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I would not do something like that, sex with random people...Sex is not only having someone's between legs for me...I need mind connection as well as body connection and I don't think I would have mind connection with just seeing her in somewhere...I should know her at first...I guess I am not one night stand guy..


Sorry but; WHY am I not believing a word of this?
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Sorry but; WHY am I not believing a word of this?


Different ways, Wardog - some of us just can not have 'one night stands' with random people - it goes against how we see the world.

Others, such as yourself, may have no problem with that; and I do not berate you for it. Just see that not everyone is the same in that respect.
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I would not do something like that, sex with random people...Sex is not only having someone's between legs for me...I need mind connection as well as body connection and I don't think I would have mind connection with just seeing her in somewhere...I should know her at first...I guess I am not one night stand guy..

I totally understand you that you want more than the act. I think it's commendable that, for you, sex has to mean something.
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Sorry but; WHY am I not believing a word of this?


it is your choice...believe or not believe
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Different ways, Wardog - some of us just can not have 'one night stands' with random people - it goes against how we see the world.

Others, such as yourself, may have no problem with that; and I do not berate you for it. Just see that not everyone is the same in that respect.


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Does being a teenager on your own for the first time and being in the military count as 'no strings sex?' If so then I have done that and it was not uncommon since I was in a field that was mostly men, at the time. Being one of four women in a company of about one hundred, I had my pick. Those were the days.


I can't see why it wouldn't "count" many of mine were while I was in the military too (mine were in transit somewhere, the ladies DO love the uni! LOL) Why should the fact that you're female make any difference in this discussion?

Oh and Belle please do not misunderstand. You too must admit that there are more than JUST physical differences between men and women. The post I was commenting on was made by a fellow MALE. coming from you, yes, I believe you; from another male? Not so's you'd notice!
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I can't see why it wouldn't "count" many of mine were while I was in the military too (mine were in transit somewhere, the ladies DO love the uni! LOL) Why should the fact that you're female make any difference in this discussion?

Oh and Belle please do not misunderstand. You too must admit that there are more than JUST physical differences between men and women. The post I was commenting on was made by a fellow MALE. coming from you, yes, I believe you; from another male? Not so's you'd notice!


You miss understood me. I was not emphasizing that I am female, but the fact that as a female I was out numbered and had pick of the guys.

Oh yes the uniform is a draw to my eyes especially the one that is two shades of blue with a gold strip down the leg.
...I thought that maybe a new life, a different life, wouldn’t be so bad. But where the hell did I put the receipt, and could you return something that was over twenty years old? Where do you go to get a new life when your old one has you so puzzled you don’t know how to fix it? Wish I knew.
-Anita Blake (Laurell K. Hamilton)
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You miss understood me. I was not emphasizing that I am female, but the fact that as a female I was out numbered and had pick of the guys.

Oh yes the uniform is a draw to my eyes especially the one that is two shades of blue with a gold strip down the leg.


Fair enough, for obvious reasons I prefer the one with the red stripe down the trouser legs.
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I wish. For me sex is such an emotional experience also that sex with a stranger or just random has never made me excited..... I guess in theory only. Oh well.
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Wouldn't you ever just have sex for sex sake? It's there, on a plate with no recriminations and total anonimity, just pure animalistic sex!


Never turn down an offer
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I don't have a problem with it
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I've only ever been with one person...30+ years!
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I wish. For me sex is such an emotional experience also that sex with a stranger or just random has never made me excited..... I guess in theory only. Oh well.


When I saw this, I found it so refreshing as I so agree with it.
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I've NEVER had sex with a stranger ... I've always
Had an emotional connection or been in love
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I've NEVER had sex with a stranger ... I've always
Had an emotional connection or been in love


Nor I....I am not out to scratch an itch but to connect for real which is more than connecting the genitalia!
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Random sex with random guys is not for me. I think sex goes hand in hand with love. If it isn't it's just an act, but if there is love it is so much more and it is so much better. Would much rather look into the eyes of someone I love and trust as opposed to someone I just thought was hot.
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Random sex with random guys is not for me. I think sex goes hand in hand with love. If it isn't it's just an act, but if there is love it is so much more and it is so much better. Would much rather look into the eyes of someone I love and trust as opposed to someone I just thought was hot.


So if the guy wasn't random, would you then have random sex with them?...

Jokes aside, absolutely agree. The best sex, for me, is really passionate sex with someone you love; and someone who knows EXACTLY what you want from them (and you, in turn, them). You just can't get that with first time, random sex. Yeah, the sex might not be shit; but everyone has their things that a stranger couldn't possibly know- so it's not going to be the BEST sex.

So, for me, it's sex in a relationship. Never had one outside of it (if you discount a drunken office blow job (of which I was the reciever, just to make clear (but I was far too drunk to cum, just to be gross))), and don't plan on doing it. Not because I can't, or because the options haven't been there, but sometimes I'd just rather have a wank.

I'm also not impressed when people start 'showing off' with the number of partners they've had. Sure, some people see that as a thing, and others might enjoy it- but not this angry(ish) dude
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Never good at one night stands. Had a few but they were less than fulfilling. I guess I prefer quality over quantity!
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The sex may not be completely mindblowing as that comes through understanding and knowledge of your partner, but sex with someone that you have an attraction with is enjoyable. Yes, I've done it and would do it again.
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I've only done it once, when I was 17 and pretty wild (no snide remarks!), with 2 brothers I met in a park. They were sweet and cute, and I was on drugs back then, so I kinda just screwed them both, right there in the park. It was fun, actually! :-)



Edit: Just thought of one more time... I was in college, and I hooked up with a girl I met at a party. I didn't even know her name before we got our clothes off.


Edit 2: OK, fuck it! I just thought of a couple more. Suffice it to say, it you're really hot, and we hit it off, I'll probably have sex with you!
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Hehehehe.... I also had sex with a stranger at a park when I was kid. Closer to 19 though and with a girl I meet at party. The park was around the block. Also, did it the other day, well a BJ and and titty fuck with someone I just met through a friend.
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I have never had random or sex with somebody that I was not interested in
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Yes please .. whatever .. as long as she is female and can cook ..
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In the beginning many many people - one night stands and casual encounters with partners known and unknown were a fact of my life. I could not help myself.
That was a while ago - I got caught by my mother with her boyfriend and that changed everything - and began my boarding school adventure and basically a change in my life style, but not my libido.
Now that is all behind me - I have sex randomly with only 5 others - all within my FWB group.