I was a bouncer in college. Lady came in and spent quite a while telling me how she had just found out her husband of eons had been having an affair. She eventually asked (short of begging) me take her home. Definitely wasn't someone I would have "picked up" but her story just kind of hit me, so, fuck it. All on all, she was great in bed and really knew how to suck a cock...
No I haven't and I never will ...
Yes, quite often. I've taken multiple virginity from multiple guys.
My fave kinds are seeing the incredibly shy guys who can barely talk to me... and the looks on their 'alpha' buddies faces when i drag this guy pff to the bedroom.
I don't like to term it pity fuck because being kind and just giving a woman who has just been dumped a good toss in the sack to make her feel desireable again is fun for me and her or at least it has been in the past.
I think that sex is different for men or at least this man. It doesn't have to involve love or even liking someone. If the chemistry is good and if both people seem to want it then I'm not that particular about who I have sex with if they're clean and disease free.
Old women, not so beautiful women, overweight women.... It's all about sharing a beautiful experience and I enjoy it.
I'm not much of a head turner myself but I've had some encounters with women that some people might think was a "bad match" and if it was good for us then we didn't care. One in particular was somewhat famous and an absolute knockout and much younger than me but we had CHEMISTRY and she LOVED some of my particular talents and that I was patient enough to make sure she got to have a few orgasms and that was hard for her to relax enough to do.
I even had sex a few times with a woman who I really didn't like at all and she seemed to hate me but we had an undeniable chemistry and the sex was almost violent but it was very satisfying and we both enjoyed it although we always parted quickly after the sex was over.
Liking a woman or loving her isn't as important to me as chemistry and sharing and celebrating my manhood and her womanhood. It can be just for fun or just a release of sexual tensions or it can be for friendship and just having fun together.
Sex is a wonderful thing and I love to share it with women.
I didn't mean to ramble but I've always loved to talk about why I have sex and it's not about trophies or beautiful women for me. It's that chemistry and it comes in many forms.
I guess now I'm slightly embarrassed and some of you might think I'm a shameless slut but I had to say it anyway.... LOL
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
I did when younger, and now Im slightly ashamed, because all I wanted was sex, and they were looking for more. Now I am the grateful one, if it happens
No, it just never felt like the right thing to do.
In the interest of honesty and balance...
Some years ago I dated, fell in love and eventually lived with a girl who rocked my world. Although we were very similar in terms of job, (both journalists), interests, (books, music etc.) and sense of humour, she was REALLY shy and lacking in confidence and if I am that, (the jury remains out...) I cover it up well...
Here's the thing. The sex was AWFUL, and I mean TERRIBLE... And, honestly, that hadn't ever been a previous problem for me. I think MAYBE her shyness led me to be too careful, too hesitant in fact, certainly not as confident or comfortable as I had been before, with other women, or indeed since. And I ADORED this girl. We were together for four years and I gotta be honest, it never really got any better in that department. In every other way than sexually we were ideal for each other. The oddest thing was that we BOTH knew this was a problem, but try as we did we couldn't get over it...
Did she 'pity-fuck' me? It pains me to admit that I guess she did. She eventually fell madly in love with a REALLY NICE (and YOUNGER!) jock-type guy who had none of my hang-ups concerning her. By then, she HAD become a lot more confident and self-assured, indeed, a lot more attractive, and I can say that I had a lot to do with that. But the sex thing never worked with us.
She's happily married now, a proud mother and still with her guy. Hand on heart, I am happy for her.
The funniest thing is that, knowing all I do in hindsight, I could NEVER have played it any other way with her. I just couldn't. By the time of her marriage, we had become more distant, my choice in the main, since I was still hopelessly in love with her. But our ships had passed in the night and sometimes you have to let it go. I sent her a congratulatory note at the time, and I meant it, containing the phrase, "It is not my fault I love you as I do, nor yours that you cannot..."
I have never seen her since. I dream of her sometimes, and in the dreams she is always married!
(See? I'm not a TOTAL shit!)
xx SF
The closest I've done was a pity handjob . We were dating about a week and I have a habit of being mischievous in boring movies , well when he was maybe three and a half or four inches and a slender as a pencil I felt like I had to be nice and follow through.
pity made out yes but not all the way
The one time I gave a pity fuck was to a girl I just broken up with. It was really nice. It provided a real sense of closure.
Yep. Because I was not in a good enough place in myself to tell the guy concerned to sod the hell off. Irony being he was in a much stronger position in life than me at the time. No regrets, but never again.
Yes I have had a pity fuck with of all people my loser husband