This is a very active topic on Lush and frankly has my attention. I’m usually very direct , but im looking to learn about a women’s view/perspective/opinion prior to introducing topic at home. Thanks .
The question wasn’t actually specific. What exactly are you wondering?
Everyone’s different, but if you’re used to playing in a bunch of different ways v super vanilla, it’s probably a reasonable ask for your lady. Women do fantasize about this, if that’s your question—to see if it’s real. Or are you wondering if this can affect your relationship if you do/don’t after you inquire?
Thx for that, it’s good to hear that we all fantasize about pegging, I know I’ve started to, hence the topic. I’m trying to anticipate /abate her concerns or possible objections , maybe over thinking this , certainly could be relationship challenge if idea is distasteful. Honestly , We are a little vanilla but not done exploring.. plenty of oral, toys, stories as stimulus
Wantitall
I’d say keep that up, and make sure she’s down with anything anal if you haven’t already. If she’ll give you a finger or tongue, I’m not sure it’s totally off the mark to talk about pegging.
Sometimes when people try new stuff they’re worried about being seen as different, or not being seen differently if it’s changed them. Keep communication open and celebrate each other in and out of sex so that psyche part doesn’t come in and fuck up the fun.
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Thx for that, it’s good to hear that we all fantasize about pegging, I know I’ve started to, hence the topic. I’m trying to anticipate /abate her concerns or possible objections , maybe over thinking this , certainly could be relationship challenge if idea is distasteful. Honestly , We are a little vanilla but not done exploring.. plenty of oral, toys, stories as stimulus
I'm not a female, but since you listed stories, to your knowledge has she read any stories with pegging or other types of anal play for the male partner in them? That might be a way to introduce the topic. As you listed toys, another way to introduce her to the idea may be with a prostate massager.