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Maybe seven or eight months. I was on a destroyer out of Norfolk, VA and we'd go out to sea for months at time. Norfolk itself was a tough place for a young sailor to be stationed. In the Tide Water area there were several other military bases. In the eighties young men out number women about 19 to 1.

Needless to say I looked forward to getting underway and visiting new destinations with friendly locals. Every cliche' about sailors on leave was true. My friends and I made up for a lot of lost time quickly.
So... just wondering. Do you all believe masturbation is not "sex"?
Almost four years. From 18 to 21. It was by choice.

After that, it was another two years without it, again, by choice.

After that, another 2.5 years, until recently. By choice...

I'm now back in the world of having sex. :P Go me.
Unless you're counting the virginity stage (for the purposes of this, I'm gonna assume masturbation is not sex,makes life easier), then 10 weeks, while I was in India. Been with this partner for 4 years solid, so never really had to go without it!
7yrs and ongoing............or has it been 8.......
15 months. It was terrible. Partner was afraid to touch me when pregnant and even after birth for the longest time.

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still counting.....
It depends. [With no apologies whatsoever to Bill Clinton]

If by "sex" you mean mutual genital contact between an erect penis and a swollen vagina, culminating in an orgasm or two, then at least fifteen years. [Read my profile, if you need more info.]
If, on the other hand, by "sex" you mean arousal and moistness involving another person, culminating in generally good feelings all around, well, then, a couple of hours.
If, on the third hand, by "sex" you mean catching a peek at some hot bodies, then about 45 seconds ago.
If I go more than a week I suffer from severe withdrawal systems.
As I live and sleep with my gf then I would say a day or two at the most.
With my guys it would only be at that time of the month. But there are times !!!!!!

Probably the longest time with absolutely no sex apart from with myself ----- Three weeks.
In the past, probably a couple of years, certainly not through choice. Why is it so hard to get laid when you aren't getting laid?!
I guess the longest I have obtained is a few months. My Sister in law would tell you more than a week is cruel punishment.
A few months... pregnancy safety... playground was shut down... while understandable... was not good smile
6 months....no picnic whatsoever :P
7 months, my time here in Afghanistan. When home on vacation that chances.
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7 months, my time here in Afghanistan. When home on vacation that chances.

No thoughts of "don't ask, don't tell"?
19 mos, 23 days.
Two months : (
Be a man to treat me like a princess and fuck me like a whore.
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No thoughts of "don't ask, don't tell"?


That is the old military. Get into the new century. The chaplain corp and the HR arenas have accepted gay marriages. The PSAs on benefits make sure to include all as they do say same sex partners.
sex with a man 2 yrs after I lost my husband
Sex with a women 6 months after his loss
With both of them at the same time 35 months
Hmmm. A year while deployed in the army. 10 months by choice since I met my GF on lush. Hopefully we will consummate our relationship soon. I am freakin horny.
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That is the old military. Get into the new century. The chaplain corp and the HR arenas have accepted gay marriages. The PSAs on benefits make sure to include all as they do say same sex partners.

I know, I was being polite, lol.
I'm writing a story about it, so I had to do the research.
I was really asking if you were ever tempted to have sex with another squaddie?
I am a contractor, so the other squaddies are 60 year old men. I am not tempted by them.
I think it was around 14 months...
16 years i.e. first 16 years of my life and I think it was beyond me to have sex in that time period smile
Last two years of High School and that was by choice.... and since then there is no significant gap as I've a gf and we both have friends with benefits :)
I was 18 when I lost my virginity. I haven't had sex for nearly 4 years sad
Am I former Marine, so no sex during boot camp, which was 3 months. But frankly, I never thought about it during boot camp because it was stress all the time and only guys were there. Even on my 10 day leave after boot camp, fucking was still not on my mind. But at infantry school, I went loose and I could literally say I was fuck-crazy. I must have fucked a new chick every week for the next 2 months - but that's how California does you, so it was not my fault.
11 months and the comment was made, if we have sex 12 days in a row that is like having sex once a month right?! Oh talk about passion. LoL.
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11 months and the comment was made, if we have sex 12 days in a row that is like having sex once a month right?! Oh talk about passion. LoL.


11 months??!!! 11 real months as in 335 days (+/- 2 days)? Is this by choice or did you have to? That is some "war-crimes" like torture.