I'm looking for ppl near me. I don't really care what for. If you want to fuck, hang out, go to movies, talk, dine out, have an orgy, FUCKING WHATEVER! I don't care. I'm just wanting to hang out with ppl. Hahah. Only rule is you can't be an asshole.
Please let me know. I'm a 21 year old guy btw.
LOL I gotta agree. I'm 30 and a single mom, was getting tired of being lonely (IN Kansas) and you know what I did? I put the computer away for a few hours a day (and most of the weekend) and got out there.
I'm only online right now waiting for my hair to dry before going out with some great new friends.
Outside.
It's awesome.
Trust me.
"Good writing is supposed to evoke sensation in the reader - not the fact that it is raining, but the feeling of being rained upon." -E.L. Doctorow
Okay - guy's point of view here
PersonalAssistant and Little_Kitty DID give good advice - get out there, do something in a group setting - whether that's taking a class at college, joining a social group or what ever, you're not going to find companionship the way you're acting now.
I was a shy guy in my youth too - know what I did - GOT OUT THERE
Don't be a stick in the mud whining because they're not coming to you, you have to go find them
Ever since my divorce I've been shy myself about putting myself back out there. But once I did I couldn't believe how many of my lady friends had feelings for me bottled up inside. Right now I'm in a relationship with one of them. It's how you approach them my friend. Don't be mad because people are being honest with you. Take it for what its worth and run with it.
You need to get some hobbies - that's really the only way to meet people naturally.
Or why not try a Contiki Tour through Europe, South America or Oz (Australia that is, not related to the Wizard). You'll be with a group that don't know anyone else anyway - and it'll form a bond as you travel/party etc. I think you just need to shake things up and explore life and who you are. It'll be good for you. Some world travel on the cheap, backpackers, some adventure. You'll make new friends and have some fun.
Ok. So, get out there! I know there might be some clubs I could join at college. I think the school also has a gay/les group. Mmmm....Ok. Is there anything else I need to know.
And please only serious replies. Please.
Just be yourself is the only other thing I can think of
I can relate to that - I was the class geek back in HS, always got tongue-tied around the pretty girls
I forced myself through that though, and ended up with one of the best looking gals it's been my pleasure to date - too bad it ended like it did
One word of advice - LISTEN to the gals, don't just hear the words but also what she's saying - and let her talk....alot - talk WITH her not TO her
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