Intelligent and smart girls are the best, however girls who think they are smart acting smart no. I believe I'd say no to such girl.
She can be super hot but if shes dumb it's a deal breaker. That's the case with most starlets, they are super hot but stupid af therefore they are not very attractive. Just a empty shell
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Intellectahorn: who finds intelligence attractive, and why?
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Omg .. An intelligent mind is crazy hottt.. Especially mixed with unruly curiosity and imagination. Hotttt!!!
Absolutely. I love a woman who is intelligent, witty, curious, with an unconstrained cerebellum. Preferably still with sexual wishes as well!
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I hate the neologism 'sapiosexual' but that's definitely what I am. I find intelligence more sexually appealing than any other characteristic physical or otherwise. The reason I suppose is that I approach relationships like I approach my education and so my partners are inevitably my teachers and vice versa.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
I do. It's what makes me attracted to you. I really, really, really like cerebral and articulate men. (with a great imagination) I don't really care what you look like on here. If you're gorgeous, that's a big plus. I am curious on hair and eye color though. I just want to crawl into your mind and stay there. 
Guys who are good at computer stuff, math, calculus and chess (and the like) are freaking HOT AND YUMMY. It's like get your ass over here and talk to me already.
Guys who are good at computer stuff, math, calculus and chess (and the like) are freaking HOT AND YUMMY. It's like get your ass over here and talk to me already.
Who defines intellect.?..if we go through history..so called intellectuals caused more damage to the fellow living beings then the normal mortals. For some to resist is strength ..for some to kill is strength...for some forgiveness is strength...for some remaining completely with in its rights and not doing harm to any living being is strength and intellect
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Self-explanatory subject, really; anyone else get turned on by nerds, geeks, bookworms, swots and the like?
And what is 'it' exactly that is so mouth-watering, knicker-dropping, lip-smacking about a sharp mind and a buzzing intellect?
Smart people tend to be more interesting. They have ideas, and are open to new ones from you. They like to explore things. Even if they disagree with you, they can at least explain why, and make a good debate of it. Stupid people are _boring_: even if s/he is the best lay you've ever had, what do you talk about _afterward_?
I've heard people who are turned on by intelligence called "sapiosexual."
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Smart people tend to be more interesting. They have ideas, and are open to new ones from you. They like to explore things. Even if they disagree with you, they can at least explain why, and make a good debate of it. Stupid people are _boring_: even if s/he is the best lay you've ever had, what do you talk about _afterward_?
I've heard people who are turned on by intelligence called "sapiosexual."
This.
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Wanting visceral and cerebral stimulation it is not just attractive it is a necessity.
My brain may be in my cock most of the time but it does still work.
My brain may be in my cock most of the time but it does still work.
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suddenly remembers that I have a thing with this professor.. he has 2 master's degree and one Ph.D.. love how open minded he is and how smart he is.. he is not what you call "hot", but he's cute.. would marry the bastard in a heartbeat if he'll have me..
She's mad, but she's magic. There's no lie in her fire. ~ Charles Bukowski
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I think that the perfect woman would be both intelligent and beautiful. The perfect example on Lush would be Whitney Roberts (aka 1nympholes). She has a fantastic body and exudes intelligence.
NOBODY could ever have a relationship with a woman who couldn't hold up her end of a conversation. Or was uniformed about the world around her.
NOBODY could ever have a relationship with a woman who couldn't hold up her end of a conversation. Or was uniformed about the world around her.
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Intelligence is a very broad concept. There are different shades of intelligence and I think all have facets of attraction. There is a thrill in conversing with the college professor with a PH.D who dazzles with facts and figures. Who is confident that there are few in the room who know as much about he does about various bits of trivia, history, the universe and so on and you feel your mind expanding every moment you spend with them.
There is a tingle when speaking to someone who is extremely quick-witted. Who laces their conversation with wit, innuendo, flirtation, humor and back again; weaving an effortless web of conversation that you hope to never escape from...(I always love being the spider to his fly). He just knows every little button to push, how to keep you guessing and how to say just enough that you keep coming back for more.
You can meet wise old souls who attract since they seem to see through our psyches. It is delicious to meet someone who knows us better than we know ourselves. Sexily they offer words of wisdom that help you build a better you. They make you feel incredible and it's amazing how attracted you can be to someone who sees the real you and wants you, flaws and all. You walk away a better you for having known them.
Or you can find someone incredibly street smart. Who takes you by the hand and pushes through the crowds of life with no effort whatsoever. He just knows what to avoid and how to help you see around corners that you didn't even know were there. You feel safe and confident that he's got your back and there isn't anyone who is going to risk messing with him and certainly not you while you're with him.
And isn't the sexually intelligent person attractive? The one who does a body good. Who knows what all the parts are for and knows how to use them. Often. And lots. They are skilled and knowledgeable and will open up a whole new word of sexuality that you didn't know existed. There is no shyness or fear. They put out an unending sexual feast and want you to eat your fill. Yummy.
And if you're lucky...really, really, lucky...you'll find a person great at all of these. That's true intelligence and it's rare and incomparable. If you ever find that then why would you ever let it go?
There is a tingle when speaking to someone who is extremely quick-witted. Who laces their conversation with wit, innuendo, flirtation, humor and back again; weaving an effortless web of conversation that you hope to never escape from...(I always love being the spider to his fly). He just knows every little button to push, how to keep you guessing and how to say just enough that you keep coming back for more.
You can meet wise old souls who attract since they seem to see through our psyches. It is delicious to meet someone who knows us better than we know ourselves. Sexily they offer words of wisdom that help you build a better you. They make you feel incredible and it's amazing how attracted you can be to someone who sees the real you and wants you, flaws and all. You walk away a better you for having known them.
Or you can find someone incredibly street smart. Who takes you by the hand and pushes through the crowds of life with no effort whatsoever. He just knows what to avoid and how to help you see around corners that you didn't even know were there. You feel safe and confident that he's got your back and there isn't anyone who is going to risk messing with him and certainly not you while you're with him.
And isn't the sexually intelligent person attractive? The one who does a body good. Who knows what all the parts are for and knows how to use them. Often. And lots. They are skilled and knowledgeable and will open up a whole new word of sexuality that you didn't know existed. There is no shyness or fear. They put out an unending sexual feast and want you to eat your fill. Yummy.
And if you're lucky...really, really, lucky...you'll find a person great at all of these. That's true intelligence and it's rare and incomparable. If you ever find that then why would you ever let it go?
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Intelligence is a very broad concept. There are different shades of intelligence and I think all have facets of attraction. There is a thrill in conversing with the college professor with a PH.D who dazzles with facts and figures. Who is confident that there are few in the room who know as much about he does about various bits of trivia, history, the universe and so on and you feel your mind expanding every moment you spend with them.
There is a tingle when speaking to someone who is extremely quick-witted. Who laces their conversation with wit, innuendo, flirtation, humor and back again; weaving an effortless web of conversation that you hope to never escape from...(I always love being the spider to his fly). He just knows every little button to push, how to keep you guessing and how to say just enough that you keep coming back for more.
You can meet wise old souls who attract since they seem to see through our psyches. It is delicious to meet someone who knows us better than we know ourselves. Sexily they offer words of wisdom that help you build a better you. They make you feel incredible and it's amazing how attracted you can be to someone who sees the real you and wants you, flaws and all. You walk away a better you for having known them.
Or you can find someone incredibly street smart. Who takes you by the hand and pushes through the crowds of life with no effort whatsoever. He just knows what to avoid and how to help you see around corners that you didn't even know were there. You feel safe and confident that he's got your back and there isn't anyone who is going to risk messing with him and certainly not you while you're with him.
And isn't the sexually intelligent person attractive? The one who does a body good. Who knows what all the parts are for and knows how to use them. Often. And lots. They are skilled and knowledgeable and will open up a whole new word of sexuality that you didn't know existed. There is no shyness or fear. They put out an unending sexual feast and want you to eat your fill. Yummy.
And if you're lucky...really, really, lucky...you'll find a person great at all of these. That's true intelligence and it's rare and incomparable. If you ever find that then why would you ever let it go?
As a sapiosexual myself, this answer was really well thought out. These are all great reasons to like/love intelligent women/men.
I used to give lectures on this but I like this answer better!
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A big part of my attraction to a guy is intelligence. And I'm not talking about how high they score on tests and whatnot. I'm talking about ideas and philosophies...I take an interest in the immaterial part of the opposite sex. To desire who they genuinely are. Not about the outer surface because we're not young forever and our bodies change along with it.
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The biggest sex organ we have is between our ears. It's important that it's stimulated.
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I love getting turned on by someone's intelligence
That's what I loved most about my girlfriend. She spoke four languages, was a professor at a university, and had the most amazing wit. She was telling me things about me, after knowing me for no time at all, that I hadn't figured out in my entire lifetime. I could have intellectual and philosophical debates with her and all that would do is make me hard
Why? Well, I guess it's down to my competitive spirit. I like being challenged, in all areas of life. Physically and intellectually. Her debating with me resulted in exactly the same response as if she had lay back and spread her legs.
I know I know, urghhhh. But, it's true
That's what I loved most about my girlfriend. She spoke four languages, was a professor at a university, and had the most amazing wit. She was telling me things about me, after knowing me for no time at all, that I hadn't figured out in my entire lifetime. I could have intellectual and philosophical debates with her and all that would do is make me hard
Why? Well, I guess it's down to my competitive spirit. I like being challenged, in all areas of life. Physically and intellectually. Her debating with me resulted in exactly the same response as if she had lay back and spread her legs.
I know I know, urghhhh. But, it's true
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Intelligence is a big turn on for me because it gives me so much with which to work. It means there is so much more we can discuss, so many more activities we might enjoy, and the ultimate breadth of what we might find sexy. Physical beauty can be incredible but unless there is a brain to surpass it, I'll likely get bored rather quickly. Plus, I prefer to articulate the erotic and it spoils the fun if she can't keep up with the vocabulary.
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Chuckanator
I'm caught between high intelligence and big tits. 
Fortunately I married both.
Fortunately I married both.
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Because when all of the great sex is over foreplay for the next time begins immediately. That requires spending time in conversation.
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
An admission: there was a period in my life where I was hurting and angry and didn't want to get close to any woman. So I tended to choose...I won't say dumb women, because that's certainly not true, but less challenging intellectually (some admittedly, were smart, but I refused to engage on that level) (yes, in retrospect I was kind of a dick). It let me create a safe distance, so I would not become involved. It was easy. It was hollow.
I knew I was beginning to heal when I found myself falling for someone smart and witty and endlessly curious. That she was hot and pretty was a bonus.
I want a woman with a mind (and body) I can explore for decades and never come to an end. Limitless intellectually, emotionally, and sexually (because they are all interrelated).
I knew I was beginning to heal when I found myself falling for someone smart and witty and endlessly curious. That she was hot and pretty was a bonus.
I want a woman with a mind (and body) I can explore for decades and never come to an end. Limitless intellectually, emotionally, and sexually (because they are all interrelated).
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Intelligence is a very broad concept. There are different shades of intelligence and I think all have facets of attraction. There is a thrill in conversing with the college professor with a PH.D who dazzles with facts and figures. Who is confident that there are few in the room who know as much about he does about various bits of trivia, history, the universe and so on and you feel your mind expanding every moment you spend with them.
There is a tingle when speaking to someone who is extremely quick-witted. Who laces their conversation with wit, innuendo, flirtation, humor and back again; weaving an effortless web of conversation that you hope to never escape from...(I always love being the spider to his fly). He just knows every little button to push, how to keep you guessing and how to say just enough that you keep coming back for more.
You can meet wise old souls who attract since they seem to see through our psyches. It is delicious to meet someone who knows us better than we know ourselves. Sexily they offer words of wisdom that help you build a better you. They make you feel incredible and it's amazing how attracted you can be to someone who sees the real you and wants you, flaws and all. You walk away a better you for having known them.
Or you can find someone incredibly street smart. Who takes you by the hand and pushes through the crowds of life with no effort whatsoever. He just knows what to avoid and how to help you see around corners that you didn't even know were there. You feel safe and confident that he's got your back and there isn't anyone who is going to risk messing with him and certainly not you while you're with him.
And isn't the sexually intelligent person attractive? The one who does a body good. Who knows what all the parts are for and knows how to use them. Often. And lots. They are skilled and knowledgeable and will open up a whole new word of sexuality that you didn't know existed. There is no shyness or fear. They put out an unending sexual feast and want you to eat your fill. Yummy.
And if you're lucky...really, really, lucky...you'll find a person great at all of these. That's true intelligence and it's rare and incomparable. If you ever find that then why would you ever let it go?
so well said. for me, good sex demands intelligence - innovation, experimentation ... confidence. it's all wrapped up in "intelligence," however you define it.
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An admission: there was a period in my life where I was hurting and angry and didn't want to get close to any woman. So I tended to choose...I won't say dumb women, because that's certainly not true, but less challenging intellectually (some admittedly, were smart, but I refused to engage on that level) (yes, in retrospect I was kind of a dick). It let me create a safe distance, so I would not become involved. It was easy. It was hollow.
I knew I was beginning to heal when I found myself falling for someone smart and witty and endlessly curious. That she was hot and pretty was a bonus.
I want a woman with a mind (and body) I can explore for decades and never come to an end. Limitless intellectually, emotionally, and sexually (because they are all interrelated).
If I could, I would bronze this . . .
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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If I could, I would bronze this . . .
You could put it on a tee shirt, but you'd have to use a pretty small font.
All you really need to do is remember it, and know it is true.
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If I could, I would bronze this . . .
You could put it on a tee shirt, but you'd have to use a pretty small font.
All you really need to do is remember it, and know it is true.
Mana wahine
I like people that are smart, it means that I can hold a conversation with them about possible shared interests or hobbies or about current local/global issues. Beauty isn't everything, although it is an added bonus if someone is good looking and intelligent.
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I had a gentleman send me a private message letting me know that intelligence is sexy. I had to agree.