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I have done this~ I have done this to an inf degree.
People said I was far too picky on the personality characteristics within, and qualities outside.
I was teased sometimes. I was told I needed to lower my expectations, that I would NEVER find that person, and I refuted that I NEEDED to RAISE the bar NOT "lower" it! I knew what was in my heart. From all my experiences and learning, I KNEW what I did NOT want and I knew what I wanted. (I also tried to become that person to a large extent - except for certain physical attributes).
I have a boyfriend and we are quite serious.
I am glad I did not limit myself and was also open enough.
I would not trade and therefore I will not say.
He is a different nationality than I am.
He is also younger.
I am VERY happy.
I had no mind to ever settle at all, and I do not feel like I did.
He has a connection with me that surpassed my wildest dreams and is precious to BOTH of us.
He has many of the personality and inner qualities I sought that are ones that are the most important.
I do not look for perfection, nor do I look for a Mister "Right Now." I look for a quality and what is perfect for me, what works, what is good, and what is memorable & special. Therefore, I will treasure this, and cherish this far beyond my sought after concoctions and notions because I feel very blessed. ('And why I will not say or describe in more details anything) . . . sorry.
(But after my bf comes back - I may put more details after I make a list, lol)
People said I was far too picky on the personality characteristics within, and qualities outside.
I was teased sometimes. I was told I needed to lower my expectations, that I would NEVER find that person, and I refuted that I NEEDED to RAISE the bar NOT "lower" it! I knew what was in my heart. From all my experiences and learning, I KNEW what I did NOT want and I knew what I wanted. (I also tried to become that person to a large extent - except for certain physical attributes).
I have a boyfriend and we are quite serious.
I am glad I did not limit myself and was also open enough.
I would not trade and therefore I will not say.
He is a different nationality than I am.
He is also younger.
I am VERY happy.
I had no mind to ever settle at all, and I do not feel like I did.
He has a connection with me that surpassed my wildest dreams and is precious to BOTH of us.
He has many of the personality and inner qualities I sought that are ones that are the most important.
I do not look for perfection, nor do I look for a Mister "Right Now." I look for a quality and what is perfect for me, what works, what is good, and what is memorable & special. Therefore, I will treasure this, and cherish this far beyond my sought after concoctions and notions because I feel very blessed. ('And why I will not say or describe in more details anything) . . . sorry.
(But after my bf comes back - I may put more details after I make a list, lol)
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For me, it would be Magical_Felix with boobs.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
For me, it would be Magical_Felix with boobs.
Declaw first!
Figured I should answer my own question
Personality: kind, romantic, smart, funny, a mans man, adventurous, a good guy that thinks of others, crazy about me, active yet also willing to enjoy a lazy day.
Looks: honestly not important as personality but I need to be attracted to him. Nice smile, tall, nice eyes and tattoos wouldn't hurt;)
Sexually: basically want someone who would be romantic and soft but also know how to destroy me like an animal. Some who would tease, make me feel sexy. Someone who would lovingly wash my hair then pull it when we are in the bedroom. Someone who wants to please as much as I do. Someone who couldn't keep his hand or lips off of me.
There is probably more lol. But this is what comes to mind.
Personality: kind, romantic, smart, funny, a mans man, adventurous, a good guy that thinks of others, crazy about me, active yet also willing to enjoy a lazy day.
Looks: honestly not important as personality but I need to be attracted to him. Nice smile, tall, nice eyes and tattoos wouldn't hurt;)
Sexually: basically want someone who would be romantic and soft but also know how to destroy me like an animal. Some who would tease, make me feel sexy. Someone who would lovingly wash my hair then pull it when we are in the bedroom. Someone who wants to please as much as I do. Someone who couldn't keep his hand or lips off of me.
There is probably more lol. But this is what comes to mind.
Someone who is imaginative and bit playful, in both life and the sack. Open to roleplaying, mild B&D (but not S&M), and other forms of erotic play.
Someone who shares at least a few interests that we can talk about.
Someone who enjoys both travelling to see things and to just lay back and relax.
Looks: I'm easy but I have my "things". I like my women a bit on the dark side (Asian, Hispanic, etc.). Black hair, brown eyes, naturally dark complexion (not a tan). A body that looks good but that can range from slim to voluptuous. Just has to look "right" for her. Pubic hair (not into shaved/waxed) but that's not one I'm strict on.
Someone who shares at least a few interests that we can talk about.
Someone who enjoys both travelling to see things and to just lay back and relax.
Looks: I'm easy but I have my "things". I like my women a bit on the dark side (Asian, Hispanic, etc.). Black hair, brown eyes, naturally dark complexion (not a tan). A body that looks good but that can range from slim to voluptuous. Just has to look "right" for her. Pubic hair (not into shaved/waxed) but that's not one I'm strict on.
I know what I like - but my likes have nothing to do with what will make me happy from another.
To draw one up would be limiting myself to possibilities I haven't encountered yet.
The things I would put down is honesty and a strong connection - like a warm bath, the one you don't ever want to leave.
To draw one up would be limiting myself to possibilities I haven't encountered yet.
The things I would put down is honesty and a strong connection - like a warm bath, the one you don't ever want to leave.
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I made a list of my perfect partner once , it's so funny to see that question on here. Ten physical things include a nice little butt, long legs.
He has to be strong enough not to take my shit nor should he be afraid of me. You may laugh at that but a girl who can and will take care of herself is not something a lot of men are comfortable with.
A sense of humor is hot
Being taller than me (I'm tall) is hotter
A desire to be my playmate and to let me be his, hottest
He has to be strong enough not to take my shit nor should he be afraid of me. You may laugh at that but a girl who can and will take care of herself is not something a lot of men are comfortable with.
A sense of humor is hot
Being taller than me (I'm tall) is hotter
A desire to be my playmate and to let me be his, hottest
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Quote by sweet_as_sugar-----------
Figured I should answer my own question
Personality: kind, romantic, smart, funny, a mans man, adventurous, a good guy that thinks of others, crazy about me, active yet also willing to enjoy a lazy day.
Looks: honestly not important as personality but I need to be attracted to him. Nice smile, tall, nice eyes and tattoos wouldn't hurt;)
Sexually: basically want someone who would be romantic and soft but also know how to destroy me like an animal. Some who would tease, make me feel sexy. Someone who would lovingly wash my hair then pull it when we are in the bedroom. Someone who wants to please as much as I do. Someone who couldn't keep his hand or lips off of me.
There is probably more lol. But this is what comes to mind.
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Omg. Yes. Your list is perfect
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I don't need to draw a list, When i meet them, I'll know.
I couldn't possibly agree more!!
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I made a list of ten physical things, with five 'bonus' attributes. My current spouse has the most things from that list (3). My first spouse had none. LOL