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I know for some of you that sex is just sex regardless of who you're with and

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doctorlove
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You could fuck someone and think of someone else. Is there anyone out there that actually gets in a zone and it's all about the person you're with?
Unknown User
It's always about the person I'm with, even when I was with escorts. Not sure it's about "getting in a zone". More about living in the moment whatever I'm doing.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
for me, it's always about the person i'm with, no matter who i'm with.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
Even if it's just sex, it's always with the person I'm with. If I wanted to fantasize, I'd just masturbate.
lynnwitt
Quantum Tease
I can't even imagine thinking of someone other than the one which whom I am so intimately involved at such a time.
x_Paige_x
Active Ink Slinger
if i person wants to think of someone other than the one they are with....they should be with that someone else dont you think?
PrincessC
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I don’t think during sex. I’m always in the moment. If you still have the mental facilities to picture somebody else you’re doing it wrong.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
Sirene_Jaune
Active Ink Slinger
There have been times when I think of my husband as we fuck. Then there is the sessions where he is boring and it is the same routine so I let my mind drift of and think of characters from popular franchises, singers, actors etc. I keep thinking of them till my husband cums and gets off me.
Sirene_Jaune
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Quote by x_Paige_x
if i person wants to think of someone other than the one they are with....they should be with that someone else dont you think?



I'm pretty sure I can't be with Professor Snape since he is fictional. Nor can I be with Simon Le Bon since he is married and lives in a different country to me.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by vanessa26
I just think about whoever I'm with, I think I'd feel kind of strange thinking of someone else, Plus I like to put focus on the person I'm with and if I think of someone else..then that defeats it.


Yeah, this. I won't say I've never fantasized during sex, but regardless, it's always about the connection with the person I'm with (and I often share the fantasy, so it's all good).
Unknown User
It’s all about whom I’m with always ... sometimes we role play but it’s still all about him
Meggsy
Active Ink Slinger
Sex to me/us is recreational and we do it because we enjoy it. It is always something we enjoy.
As for thinking about another while I am having sex - I have some time ago but not lately as I devote my time, effort and pleasure to my FWB that I am with.
Unknown User
When it comes to random hookups then I'm mainly thinking if I'll invite him to shower afterwards or tell him to leave right after fuck has ended.

W/lover then I am in the moment and thinking about them.
apptobebad
Unfuckwithable
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It’s all about whom I’m with always ... sometimes we role play but it’s still all about him


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Guest
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It is all about the person I am with.
Bryne
Forum Wordsmith
I try to stay in the moment with the person I'm with, and I want to please them. But, my mind has wandered in the past, when I was married mostly. And, I'm sure she did the same at times, we were almost too much alike to be married! We made an amazing kid though.
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ChandlerAja2
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Sex is just about the partner I am with a the moment. I can't imagine thinking about someone else even between strokes.
GMOFLEISURE
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Been a very long time since I was with some one so uninteresting I could think of something else.