I believe it is an important part of a relationship but only as it matures. If you can connect in some kind of meaningful way with a person you must realize that the person whose company you enjoy is the result of all of their prior experiences. This includes their sexual history and there should not be a judgemental attitude toward their sexual history. Whatever it is made them the person you want to spend time with today. Besides, it's hot hearing about sexual escapades!
It's hot. I like hearing about it. I'm just like, you little fucking slut, I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you now.
I know my wife was real naughty in her teens and in college
She has told me a few things and says that's all. I think she is embarrassed to tell me but it turns me on to hear. I have told her this numerous times but she just changes subjects. As naughty as she was with me when we first got together,
No way she only gave 2 handjobs in college. Ha ha how do I have her open up?
It was a tremendous turn on when I overheard Brandie's ex Dom talking about how wild she was at her first gang bang at 17. He was her high school teacher and 8 years older than her. I was also extremely angry at the same time. She had told me she was a virgin when we began to get serious about dating. A very strange feeling to be extremely angry and extremely turned on at the same time.
We had been home on leave for her annual alumni dance. I did not confront her until the next day. She admitted it to me and started telling me about her wild side. We left a couple days later and I dressed her for the ride home. A short tight skirt, a thin yellow halter top with a shirt over it until we actually left. Then she put on some CFM heels and threw the shirt into the back seat.
She began telling me every thing. I found out she had 4 other lovers besides her teacher. She got fucked the first time at a playground in the middle of the afternoon. We were both very turned on. About a month or two later she accepted my collar. Shortly after that I began sharing her. She has been my submissive sex slave ever since.
If I would not have been so turned on when I over heard her teacher talking about how wild she was, I would have left her and got a divorce.
As she has said before, "it works for us".
Nawty
women all say that they want to hear about your old flames but when they do it makes them insecure. More likely than not they'll throw back in your face when the 2 of you are in a disagreement
For me, there's a sublime edginess about it. It makes me feel horny and sick at the same time. Once, when I was seventeen I think, a girl I was seeing over a long distance told me she had been with another guy. I ran into the bathroom unsure whether I was going to vomit, and ending up wanking myself in less than a minute. It's a weird feeling and one I'd like to explore, but generally I don't like it.
My first Lush Story Aoife A Recommended Read I am not interested in her past, nor she, mine. I know some of her exes, but I don't need to know that side. Live in the present!
I want to know. I want to hear the details. I want her to close her eyes, forget I'm there and remember. Then spill it with no inhibitions. Everyone has a past. A lot of those events are some of the most exciting times in your life. Dont forget them. Celebrate them
If he can take it, I can!
Umm not really. Shell tell me about who she fucked but do not go into details
I wouldn't want to know that kind of shit. What's past is past, dead and gone.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
As one of those guys who is very interested in learning as much as I can about my partner's wants and needs, hearing some of the details of her sexual past can be very instructive. However, if she doesn't want to share that information, I can always use the braille method to learn just what turns her on. Practice makes perfect, right?
If the subject comes up I enjoy hearing of her exploits and adventures. It makes me happy knowing that she enjoyed herself and it is a bit of a turn on for me imagining her with others.
My Partner & I both had history which we shared with each other fully & openly, then came fantasies & desires the rest now History.
I'm pretty sure that back before my wife and I got married, sex hadn't been invented yet. We were in the vanguard. Accordingly, there could be no history to share.
What happened in my partners past - whether sexual or otherwise - happened before we met and there's nothing I can do about it. There's no point worrying about it, all I can do is try to be the best current partner I can be. I expect the same from her. Today is the day we need be concerned with. The past is the past. Best to leave it there.
I like hearing about my partner's past. If I can get over myself, it's a turn on.
Also, I like being informed. So when my now wife, then girlfriend, and I walked into a club and she bumped into an ex, she just whispered to me, "Remember that story about the girl who let me drive four hours to meet with her and then when I got there, she had a girlfriend? That's her."
Then, I know what their angry, animated discussion is about. And while I'm sitting, enjoying my martini, I get to explain it to the current girlfriend of my wife's ex.
My philosophy is the past is the past, I would not ask, but if she wants to tell, then I will patiently listen.
I know all about her past sex life.
We told each other years ago about it.
We have even role play over some of them.
My girlfriend doesn't like to describe her past experiences which is frustrating. It would really turn me on to hear them described in detail
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Your husband is one lucky guy.
