Hi,
How do I approach my wife about fulfilling a fantasy of mine which is to watch her have sex with a stranger who has a big and thick cock? I would like to see her pussy stretched to the max! Thank you.
You need to find a stranger with a big thick cock and ask him to fill your wife with it.
If he agrees, then she needs to agree.
If that happens, you're golden.
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I'd recommend treading very slowly. Start by talking about your fantasies. Maybe show each other the porn or erotic stories you like. Then incorporate a little role playing if you're into that thing. Then maybe -- maybe -- bring up the question of whether or not she would ever be willing to act on your fantasies.
Best of luck!
One would need to be intimately aware of the personal dynamics of your relationship to offer any real, on-target advice.
What I would suggest is what 'JustSomeJoe' mentioned a few posts up: If you and your wife watch porn together (and if you don't, I'd suggest you find a way to start, if possible), get some appropriate mfm porn - whatever your dream would be (voyeur, cuckold or full participation), and ask a casual question like, 'Do you think you'd ever want to do something like that?' I would phrase it in a way that allows you to back off immediately if you get a negative reaction.
Without knowing you, and based only on standard psychology, I would certainly not throw it out there in a blunt fashion, but carefully, like Cancer the Crab: two steps to the side, and one step forward.
Best of luck. I hope you don't upset the apple cart reaching for the Golden Delicious.
I 2nd that 'go slowly' . . . you never know what someone else's insecurities and issues are.
When my husband and I first married I had very intense body-image issues. It took a lot of courage to be naked with him to begin with. So when he randomly told me (while we were still newlyweds living in our first apartment) that he fantasized about people watching us have sex and he wondered if I thought of the same thing, I freaked out.
I was anorexic, but he didn't know it. I kept it a secret. The idea of anyone else seeing us together was just horrifying to me and I fought hard not to let that invade my thoughts and ruin our sex life.
My immediate response to him wasn't right, either - I couldn't hide my shock when he first mentioned it. I didn't, at that time (15 years ago), get what 'fantasy' meant because i didn't entertain sexual fantasies of that nature. It was suddenly over-the-line and much too real in a bad way for me.
So my response made him shut down, and him telling me that nearly made me shut down. That immediately put our sexual relationship on the fritz for a period of time and even to this day he's hesitant to tell me things that he thinks might possibly upset me.
You really need to be careful when sharing fantasies that involve the other person in any fashion and even more careful when you want to make it a reality. Get on the same page, first, and understand them from the bottom-up.
Thanks to everyone for their input.
I'd suggest that you probably (hopefully) know your wife and how to communicate with her better than strangers on a sex site.
Perhaps a slow approach is best, especially if she is reticent to go "all the way" with fucking another man. Introduce her gently, perhaps with the two of you having a 3 some where the other guy just "prepares" her orally and then you fuck her and the other guy cleans her up. That way she can convince herself she hasn't really had sex with another man,...yet.
