Okay, Im going to go out on a limb and assume most of us do it, I guess its just human nature or something. My question is, is it just me or fantasying about your close friends (of the gender(s) you¡re attracted to) usually leads to more intense and satisfying masturbatory experiences? Why do you think that is? Does it means we all secretly want to fuck our friends?
Well, I guess in my case the last part is probably true as I usually end up developing crushes for most of my friends, but its not my fault, as I have some very attractive female friends (which can be a cause of great frustration). So most times its probably just a case of me simply releasing all that sexual tension.
I do often. Close friends, coworkers, people I associate with etc. I don't over think why it just comes naturally. I'm curious by nature. Just wondering what people look like nude or how and what they like to do for sex - it's all fun for me.
I try not to because I make sure to draw a very strict line between my platonic and sexual relationships.
Very rarely do I think of someone I'm in daily contact with. It's not that I don't have good-looking friends, it's just that I'm very rarely attracted (sexually) towards these guys and gals. Perhaps I'm around them so much and I know them too well to think they're sexy. I find that my thoughts wander more to people I'm not particularly close to, say my seniors and *coughs* teachers. You don't share the same kind of closeness with them as you do with your friends, so to me, these acquaintances are fair game! (That's a flimsy excuse but...)
Nope. haha Nope.
I really don't think that way about my friends or they would not be "friends." I have some nice looking and interesting friends, but that attraction just is not there. I don't feel sexually attracted or attracted in any way.
~Unless thinking about a certain scenario at the best girl friend's house counts and certain voyuerism... OR that I DID end up being with my best guy friend when I had NOT thought about it and ended up his girlfriend... not that he did not touch me ever/or try... certain party, and Truth or Dare *0* ~
I usually avoid fantasizing about close friends and acquaintances. Makes things too awkward.
I do, yeah. I have a very close friend who I think about often when I play. I'm not sure what it is, but just him touching me is enough to turn me on. Notthing sexual, just when he hugs me, things like that. Nothing will happen, because he's got a girlfriend, and I wouldn't want to mess that up, but if he were single or in an open relationship, I'm pretty sure sex would happen.
I did that ONCE when I was in high school and regretted it because every time I saw him - and he'd start talking - he'd say little one-line phrases and stuff that popped up in my fantasy (not TO ME of course) and it was so distracting.
And further - when I finally showed him I had a slight bit of interest, in hopes he'd want to fuck, he turned me down and there went that friendship.
Just bad bad bad.
Not close friends but sometimes the neighbour's daughters spring to mind while stroking away.
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