When in the throes of a passionate kiss, I personally close my eyes. But I know there are those who kiss with theirs eyes open which got me to wondering, how many out there in Lushville sit on what side of the fence? Do you kiss (passionately) with your eyes open or closed? And more importantly, CAN a kiss be passionate if your eyes open while performing said kiss?
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When in the throes of a passionate kiss, I personally close my eyes. But I know there are those who kiss with theirs eyes open which got me to wondering, how many out there in Lushville sit on what side of the fence? Do you kiss (passionately) with your eyes open or closed? And more importantly, CAN a kiss be passionate if your eyes open while performing said kiss?
Me and my wifey kiss with our eyes open. More importantly (in your words), a kiss can be passionate if your eyes open while kissing. It's all good.
Devil's Advocate
Eyes closed for me. Although, from time to time, I do like to do the crazy bug eyes for a laugh.
Seriously, I'm lucky I'm still married...
Seriously, I'm lucky I'm still married...
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
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Its always eyes closed when me and my girlfriend kiss 
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closed 
Cryptic Vigilante
I alternate between open and closed.
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I feel offended if his eyes are open during a kiss, it makes me feel self-conscious.
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Eyes closed raises the other senses and mental inputs during this kiss
Devil's Advocate
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you are probably a hot ass Aussie and that is why you are still married. Just your accent alone would keep you buried my legs!
G'day, Love. How ya goin'?
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
I'm no doctor, but I think it's a natural instinct of the body for eyes to close when too close to focus. You can force them open if you want , but I'm more focussed on the feel of her lips against mine, the taste of her mouth, the passion, the exchange of spirits. I look deep into her eyes until I see her soul, then close my eyes when we get close enough they lose focus, so my mind can be freed to focus on all the wonderful senses taking place... at least for a sensual, romantic kiss on the lips.
If I'm kissing anything else my eyes are watching hers most of the time, but thats not what your asking is it?
If I'm kissing anything else my eyes are watching hers most of the time, but thats not what your asking is it?
Both! I do both.
Of course it can be very passionate with eyes open - just like when eyes are closed. It is like sex with lights on vs. sex lights off. I heard someone say they'd be selfconscious^ with their eyes open and another say it heightens the senses but lights on is great sex if someone likes to watch, and the same is true with kissing. If you watch their mouth approach you and their lips hover, moisten, tongue yearning for that intial kiss and then the struggle and burn as you do exchange~ it is REALLy a turn on for me. I like both, I do both. Very simply, it can be a great heightening factor to me.
It in NO WAY lessens^ the mingling of spirits/souls^ or the meaningfullness of the kiss, and I COULD say the opposite! Really, I feel that both eyes closed and eyes open can have just as much depth, potential, sexiness and ability, though eyes open seems more 'erotic' to me. In NO WAY does it "depreciate" value and does not elimate any other enjoyment, concentration, or any other factor. If it did ~ I would simply close my eyes at that point.
Of course it can be very passionate with eyes open - just like when eyes are closed. It is like sex with lights on vs. sex lights off. I heard someone say they'd be selfconscious^ with their eyes open and another say it heightens the senses but lights on is great sex if someone likes to watch, and the same is true with kissing. If you watch their mouth approach you and their lips hover, moisten, tongue yearning for that intial kiss and then the struggle and burn as you do exchange~ it is REALLy a turn on for me. I like both, I do both. Very simply, it can be a great heightening factor to me.
It in NO WAY lessens^ the mingling of spirits/souls^ or the meaningfullness of the kiss, and I COULD say the opposite! Really, I feel that both eyes closed and eyes open can have just as much depth, potential, sexiness and ability, though eyes open seems more 'erotic' to me. In NO WAY does it "depreciate" value and does not elimate any other enjoyment, concentration, or any other factor. If it did ~ I would simply close my eyes at that point.
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Closed for me.
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closed for me, this way the other senses take awareness and the passion heats up
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Closed most of the time.
Open when we are in the act and kisses are part of the wonderful time we are having.
Open when we are in the act and kisses are part of the wonderful time we are having.
Story Verifier
Both!
I get different sensations from each. Mostly I like to see her, how she responds and the expressions on her face. During sex I like to see her eyes because they pull me so far in to what she's feeling I get lost sometimes. I love that.
I get different sensations from each. Mostly I like to see her, how she responds and the expressions on her face. During sex I like to see her eyes because they pull me so far in to what she's feeling I get lost sometimes. I love that.
I am always a gentleman.
The Linebacker
Either way. Closed is fine, but sometimes, why not have a peek? I'm more likely to kiss with eyes open if we're in the middle of sex.
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Eyes closed during sex or intimate moments but generally for a quick peck they are open.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
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Closed, but I peek just to see him open his cerulean eyes...they are just so beautiful.
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I had a girlfriend with amazing brown eyes and she kept them open while kissing and ask me to open mine and let me say it was so erotic looking into her eyes, that made the moment HOT.
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When in the throes of a passionate kiss, I personally close my eyes. But I know there are those who kiss with theirs eyes open which got me to wondering, how many out there in Lushville sit on what side of the fence? Do you kiss (passionately) with your eyes open or closed? And more importantly, CAN a kiss be passionate if your eyes open while performing said kiss?
Geez - open! I'm not about to get caught in the act.