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Ever met a sex partner online?

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Love Bug
Yes and it was the best decision ever. I may be brave enough to do it again, and again. Giggles. Honesty is important, if you are honest, there will be no deal breaker surprises.
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Yes I have...several times. Thankfully, they were 'as advertised' and amazing experiences.
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, all except one was met online. I was pretty lucky and didn't met any weirdos. You have to be careful and trust your instincts!
Active Ink Slinger
Yes. All turned out great. The sex always seems more intense based on the circumstances.
Active Ink Slinger
Never tried it.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, many a times and found most of them better than my thoughts or apprehensions... but I think all depends on your preferences and where you go online smile
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Gundriver
Tried once or twice...Lets just say this. They didnt work out, so I will never waste my time again.
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yes I have , , first was scary as didn't know what to expect, but it turned out ok, , well better than ok, , ive had a couple of bad experiances, , but I suppose it has to be expected , some people just lie, , but if if you chat long enough first you get a good idea if there genuine, , try it , you might like it,
Active Ink Slinger
Yes...its how I met my bf and I hope to use it as a tool in meeting more people!
Active Ink Slinger
Sixteen I actually met and had sex with. A few others flaked at the last minute. Some I met were duds. Most were good & some amazing encounters. Split about 50/50 between men and women, with three of them couples. Eight I met on Swinger Zone Central, the others on Craigs List. Other web sites have not worked out. Back in the 1970s & 80s I met a few through the swinger magazine or classified ads.

Prefer to meet in a public place, drinks, dinner, coffee. But have met some directly after extended cyber chat, texting, phone. I've learned that if the person is a paid member of swinger web site they are usually safe & somewhat serious.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, three times.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes I have.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes didn't really work out. Craig's list same motel made it to his room and back out. First time and I had to much liquid courage
Active Ink Slinger
yes, think its pretty common these days
Active Ink Slinger
yes, think its pretty common these days
Advanced Wordsmith
I did meet a sex partner online and then later met in person. We met on iVillage, a site for women that is no longer in existence. It worked out well for 2 1/2 years, if you call a long-distance relationship working out well. We lived in far distant parts of the U.S. and were able to get together for three long weekends despite marriages and children and lay-offs and other such difficulties. Those were blissful times for both of us and some of the happiest days of my life. I wish I could go back to those days. She divorced her husband during those years. I'm still married and hope to be divorced soon. She dumped me because of my marriage and other criticisms of me beyond my control. We are still good friends. I don't regret anything and I don't think she does either.

My advice would be: Be honest with each other. Keep both eyes open at all times and both feet on the ground.
Lurker
Yes, thank you lush.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, after my divorce, I joined an on line group for those who had been through a divorce, kind of a support group helping each other. Met a lovely woman from London on line, chatted with her for a few weeks until it was clear to both of us that we had a real connection, so I went to London to visit her over a weekend, stayed with her, and was sharing her bed from the first night. We saw each other on and off for almost a year, visiting each other, and even having a week's holiday in Blackpool sharing an apartment.
Advanced Wordsmith
There have also been several guys that I've hooked up with from dating (or "dating") sites. A few have been guys that I was friendly with for weeks or months and then agreed to meet to hang out. And a few have been one night stands with guys that I had very little, if any, contact with both before and afterwards. If anything, I would prefer to have sex with someone I've befriended online since you can spend time getting to know them and what sort of things they enjoy sexually. Its better than meeting a hot guy at a bar to find out later that he's boring in bed biggrin
Advanced Wordsmith
yes, i met him 2 years ago this month. we get together one or two times a month.
Yes. Surprised me to actually have gone through with it. But a wonderful experience with a special friend.
Active Ink Slinger
Met a really nice couple Saturday evening. We had been corresponding on a swinger site & are members of the same club. After a couple months of schedule conflicts we met for a couple hours of pleasant conversation & got naked together. As is usually my experience the husband turned out to be a lot more than just 'comfortable with male contact'.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, I have a few times. My current boyfriend and I met online and were just planning on hooking up but the relationship developed quickly and unexpectedly.
Active Ink Slinger
Kinda sort have. Met my ex fiancé online. Flew out to see her. Stayed at her place a week and a half. Was fun while it lasted
Active Ink Slinger
yes I have met a few online playmates in real life and never disappointed. advice for all, I like to set rules, and meet for a drink first, with nothing else happening.