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do you like being talked to while having sex and how

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yes i do if a guy is doing my hole i want him telling me how much of a good sexy slut i am
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For most guys, giving pleasure to a woman does not come naturally. If the woman can give some instructions, it helps.
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Yeah I wanna hear how you like the feeling of my big throbing cock. I want grab your ass as I bend you over and gently spread your checks as I rub them playing with your ass, I want to hear how good it feels as I hit that ass. Just fucking talk dirty to me. As I pull your hair, tell me to pull harder. Shit like that

One thing I can't understand is a woman that is willing to get naked and fuck and not be verbal.....
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My husband, when he gets really excited, always wants me to tell him, in detail, of other guys I've had sex with. He says that what makes him cum the strongest.
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Depends on the guy, but mostly yes tell me things.
Caring things before and after, and dirty things during always...smile

If a guy is uncomfortable having sex, or if I have to tell a guy what to do,
then maybe we shouldn't be doing it I think?
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We do dirty talk. Seems to make it feel dirtier and dirty is what we love!
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
I love talking during sex, I love being talked to during sex. I like both dirty talking and tender and loving talking (and if you have read my stories you know I don't really believe in that distinction - you can be dirty and loving at the same time).
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I love talking during sex, I love being talked to during sex. I like both dirty talking and tender and loving talking (and if you have read my stories you know I don't really believe in that distinction - you can be dirty and loving at the same time).


I'll have to check out your stories. I love sexy dialogue.
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Absolutly!
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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One thing I can't understand is a woman that is willing to get naked and fuck and not be verbal.....


I don't know of any women willing to get naked and fuck and BE Verbal.
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Dirty talk is a requirement for me.

The dirtier the better....
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Dirty talk is a requirement for me.

The dirtier the better....


Judging by your stories I've read I would have never have guessed!
Dirty talk turns me on. I love being degraded and called names. Talk to me like the slut I really am
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Oh definitely, I love being told i'm good , or what i'm doing is amazing and vice versa, who doesn't like being told they are amazing? and how do you tell your lover what you like or how or where?
for really good sex all your senses need to be aroused... " oh god yes just there like that "
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I love being talked to… what he’s going to do, how I feel on him…

I love being expected to answer when I’m incapable of any coherent speech
Don’t tempt the lonely and perverse
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I love it. I want to hear how I’m doing, how she wants me tease or please her. Quiet sex is necessary some times but I’d rather hear about it!

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https://www.lushstories.com/stories/seduction/the-rendezvous-1

Sexy Seductive Siren
Good communication leads to better sex, that's what I've been told and that's been my experience.

Two kinds of communication - letting your partner(s) know that what they're doing is what you want or don't want and the other talking "dirty" to your partner(s) or having them talk "dirty" to you. However the latter, is directly a function of the first - you have to let your partner(s) know that is what you want, need, or expect.

A third kind of communication might be encouraging your partner(s) when it comes to engaging in something new, different, unfamiliar, etc. This actually might be a sub-set of the first kind of communication above though.
Meagan
Easily amused
My various kinks kind of ebb and flow with time, but talk during sex is almost foundational - I love it. It's like the gateway drug for the rest of my kink.

Tintinnabulation - first place (Free Spirit)
Comet Q - second place (Quick and Risqué Sex)
Amnesia - third place (Le Noir Erotique)

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I do, like suggesting, and being more open .. it shouldn't be a one-way and not just a release. It should a moment, to be naughty and more like being talked-to .. it would more awesome, if being funny and kinky at the same time. I like being naughty, and better communication during sex would be so mutual and erotic! It kinda feels sexy when doing it ..
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Definitely, let me know what is working or what you need... I have a large toolbox
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Dirty talk really turns me on and I love variety. Cheer leader, " Yeah baby that it! Give me more. God yes! Fill me up. Let me feel your cum". Dom, "You made my pussy dirty. Get down there and clean it with your tongue. That's it lick it up". Cuck, "Your friend Joe has the sexiest eyes. You know her flirts with me when your not around. I bet he's good with his cock. I'd love to have him inside me and make you watch." Old boy friends, hotel fun, flashing strangers, etc.
Trust people to be themselves...
I love being told to, 'Fuck this pussy!' or, 'Oh my God, it's so fat/big.'

Love words of encouragement.

My last published story: Good For Nothing

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When the woman I'm currently with looks me in the eye and says "cum in me" or "I love it when you cum inside me" or "I want you to cum deep inside me" it's usually all over for me within a minute.
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My partner doesn’t talk and finds it distracting. I might like it if he did talk dirty. I tend to be talkative after sex. He calls it the post coital babbles and thinks it’s funny. It’s a little like being drunk.
An old favorite story of mine: The Chaise Lounge
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Quote by CharlotteRusse1
My partner doesn’t talk and finds it distracting. I might like it if he did talk dirty. I tend to be talkative after sex. He calls it the post coital babbles and thinks it’s funny. It’s a little like being drunk.

i think thats where the term " Pillow Talk " comes from ... i love a chat after Making love, if its just been a quickie sex then not so much, but after making love .. like you say babble on for hours. before the real me came out i was married .. my husband was a climb on grunt roll off and snore kinda man .. very disappointing
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, I do. I enjoy hearing what he wants and how he is feeling when I am touching him. I like dirty talk, it makes me feel sexy. Tellling him how I am feeling, knowing it is encouraging him, makes sex that much more fun. I like it when he knows that I have the filthiest things in mind for us when we are naked and I like knowing what naughty thoughts are running through his mind, as well.