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Do we get more kinky as we age?

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We age?

Gosh, in that case, I sure hope so…I'd hate to be this boring for the rest of my life!

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Oh yes, have definitely gotten naughtier and kinkier as I got older.
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Is it actually getting more kinky? Or is it we know more of what we want and are willing to expand our boundaries?
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Definitely, I'm attracted to cocks now and really miss giving oral sex. Love eating pussy and would love to eat one while she's getting fucked.
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I certainly have. Well, I'm not sure I've gotten kinkier, but I've definitely gotten better at expressing my desires to my partners. I tend to date other people who are very kinky too, so it usually works out between okay and fantastic. This is something I wish I'd known when I was in my teens and early twenties.
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Ha! In a word, yes. smile What a nice perk to growing older.
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I don't know, but after reading this thread I think I'm older than I thought.
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I think as you get older you are more willing to experiment. To try new things find out what you have been missing.
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I think as you get older you are more willing to experiment. To try new things find out what you have been missing.


Very much so and for whatever reason, perhaps wisdom, maturity brings open mindedness. At least for me. And whoever thinks desire is diminished with age is wrong!
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Most assuredly we do get more "kinky" as we mature.........mature into our bodies and minds more like. We know what arouses us and are not afraid to pursue it. Boundaries fade away. But will admit I cannot, shall we say, "bounce around the bed or floor as I could when younger"..a small price to pay.
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I think so, yes.
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Quote by Victoria67
Most assuredly we do get more "kinky" as we mature.........mature into our bodies and minds more like. We know what arouses us and are not afraid to pursue it. Boundaries fade away.


Well said! I've certainly become more kinky. I hope it's because, as Victoria says, I've matured "into our bodies and minds..." But then again, it could also be because I'm a horny old goat.
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Oh, most definitely
May onl6 be speaking for myself , I’ve found as I’ve ‘matured’ I’ll allow myself to further push those self-imposed boundaries and limits. What May have once been a fleeting fantasy I surprised in the back of my mind, I’ve now re-visited and have enjoyed every one
I think reasoning is that as we age physically, out minds also mature. Become more open. Learning to and letting ourselves enjoy things maybe once considered . ( or, perhaps, still do)

Anyway.....sorry for rambling. I sometimes get very verbose if a few drinks or some good weed. ☺️?
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I definitely think so. I also think that we get much more comfortable in our own skin as we age and are both more experienced and more willing to try new things. I know that I now welcome doing things now that at an earlier point in my life I would probably have balked at doing. Now, I have few limits as compared to when i was in my early 20s. For me, the older I get, the more experienced I become. I think too that at my current age of 42, i'm much more inquisitive and looking for that extra "spark'' to ignite new fires within me. smile
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we get much more comfortable in our own skin as we age and are both more experienced and more willing to try new things.


I agree completely. We’re exposed to more ideas, experiences, opportunities over time, so it makes sense that we’d broaden our sexual tastes as we age.
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As far as my girlfriend is concerned, absolutely. She is a beautiful woman but raised in a Baptist household and had two husbands who just went through the basics. Now she is opening up. She has gone from "No, I can't do that" to exploring a variety of sexual practices. This has resulted with her transitioning from her orgasm being the end of the session to her personal record of 22 the other night. She had no idea she could be multi-orgasmic. Her usual quota is in the 6-10 range. Normally we don't count, but when she gets rolling early, I'll keep track. Sometimes I have to ask if that was two or one long one. There is nothing she won't do. Sometimes she will have to consider a position or practice for the week or two it takes to get past her strict upbringing but she always gets over the hump. She enjoys watching porn so I can tell what she may be putting on next week's menu by what she chooses to watch ("just to see what that is"). If history is our guide, we may be closing in on a threesome.
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Ohh definately 100% yes, I have definitely gotten naughtier and kinkier as I got older.
Said the 63yr old, white haired, silver tongued gigolo! lol ;-)
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I know I have. Probably more into men than I was before

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Although I'm still very adventurous, I think I was more kinky when I was younger.

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Quote by Jocelyn00

Although I'm still very adventurous, I think I was more kinky when I was younger.

You could become kinky again 😉