We age?
Gosh, in that case, I sure hope so…I'd hate to be this boring for the rest of my life!
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Do we get more kinky as we age?
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Oh yes, have definitely gotten naughtier and kinkier as I got older.
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Is it actually getting more kinky? Or is it we know more of what we want and are willing to expand our boundaries?
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I certainly have. Well, I'm not sure I've gotten kinkier, but I've definitely gotten better at expressing my desires to my partners. I tend to date other people who are very kinky too, so it usually works out between okay and fantastic. This is something I wish I'd known when I was in my teens and early twenties.
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I think as you get older you are more willing to experiment. To try new things find out what you have been missing.
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I think as you get older you are more willing to experiment. To try new things find out what you have been missing.
Very much so and for whatever reason, perhaps wisdom, maturity brings open mindedness. At least for me. And whoever thinks desire is diminished with age is wrong!
Most assuredly we do get more "kinky" as we mature.........mature into our bodies and minds more like. We know what arouses us and are not afraid to pursue it. Boundaries fade away. But will admit I cannot, shall we say, "bounce around the bed or floor as I could when younger"..a small price to pay.
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I think so, yes.
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Quote by Victoria67
Most assuredly we do get more "kinky" as we mature.........mature into our bodies and minds more like. We know what arouses us and are not afraid to pursue it. Boundaries fade away.
Well said! I've certainly become more kinky. I hope it's because, as Victoria says, I've matured "into our bodies and minds..." But then again, it could also be because I'm a horny old goat.
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Oh, most definitely
May onl6 be speaking for myself , I’ve found as I’ve ‘matured’ I’ll allow myself to further push those self-imposed boundaries and limits. What May have once been a fleeting fantasy I surprised in the back of my mind, I’ve now re-visited and have enjoyed every one
I think reasoning is that as we age physically, out minds also mature. Become more open. Learning to and letting ourselves enjoy things maybe once considered . ( or, perhaps, still do)
Anyway.....sorry for rambling. I sometimes get very verbose if a few drinks or some good weed. ☺️?
May onl6 be speaking for myself , I’ve found as I’ve ‘matured’ I’ll allow myself to further push those self-imposed boundaries and limits. What May have once been a fleeting fantasy I surprised in the back of my mind, I’ve now re-visited and have enjoyed every one
I think reasoning is that as we age physically, out minds also mature. Become more open. Learning to and letting ourselves enjoy things maybe once considered . ( or, perhaps, still do)
Anyway.....sorry for rambling. I sometimes get very verbose if a few drinks or some good weed. ☺️?
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I definitely think so. I also think that we get much more comfortable in our own skin as we age and are both more experienced and more willing to try new things. I know that I now welcome doing things now that at an earlier point in my life I would probably have balked at doing. Now, I have few limits as compared to when i was in my early 20s. For me, the older I get, the more experienced I become. I think too that at my current age of 42, i'm much more inquisitive and looking for that extra "spark'' to ignite new fires within me. 
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Quote by secretlybi
we get much more comfortable in our own skin as we age and are both more experienced and more willing to try new things.
I agree completely. We’re exposed to more ideas, experiences, opportunities over time, so it makes sense that we’d broaden our sexual tastes as we age.
As far as my girlfriend is concerned, absolutely. She is a beautiful woman but raised in a Baptist household and had two husbands who just went through the basics. Now she is opening up. She has gone from "No, I can't do that" to exploring a variety of sexual practices. This has resulted with her transitioning from her orgasm being the end of the session to her personal record of 22 the other night. She had no idea she could be multi-orgasmic. Her usual quota is in the 6-10 range. Normally we don't count, but when she gets rolling early, I'll keep track. Sometimes I have to ask if that was two or one long one. There is nothing she won't do. Sometimes she will have to consider a position or practice for the week or two it takes to get past her strict upbringing but she always gets over the hump. She enjoys watching porn so I can tell what she may be putting on next week's menu by what she chooses to watch ("just to see what that is"). If history is our guide, we may be closing in on a threesome.
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I hope so! lol
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Ohh definately 100% yes, I have definitely gotten naughtier and kinkier as I got older.
Said the 63yr old, white haired, silver tongued gigolo! lol ;-)
Said the 63yr old, white haired, silver tongued gigolo! lol ;-)
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Although I'm still very adventurous, I think I was more kinky when I was younger.
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Although I'm still very adventurous, I think I was more kinky when I was younger.
You could become kinky again 😉
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Kinky and sneaky
colin123
I think so, yes.
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We do indeed. Certainly I’ve got kinkier with age.
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Experience relieve some inhibitions and as such open doors sexually you would have never considered before.
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I don't think we get more kinkier, but I do think we let ourselves go and become less inhibited. I am in my 50s and I am really beginning to explore my kinks but I think they were there from a much younger age. I feel much less inclined to conform to society's expectations and much more to discover who I truly am
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At least my thoughts have gotten kinkier. But lack of opportunity has restricted my chances to be more experimental and try out the thoughts..
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Quote by Leighton
I definitely think that as we get older we begin to care less about what people think of us. I don't mean we become selfish but I've realised, as I've got older, what I want to enjoy and experience and I don't want to live a life of regret.
Through years of sexual experences, I think we sieve through all the things we don't enjoy and concentrate our time on the things we do. I've also come to realise that sharing your 'kinky' fantasies with someone who is willing to be part of them brings you closer together and builds up a huge amount of trust and openness and helps sustain a relationship.
yes, I found for the most part, just go and enjoy that slice of life.
I've always liked the variety of cocks, so I had more.
guys liked me so that was good too.
one bit of kink i openly adopted at about 50, was taking it in the ass. I found a fwb that would do me there whenever I liked, and I was able to perfect the art of dp using a toy in my puss. have absolutely tremendous orgs that way 😊
but yes, more cocks.
I'm a nudist/naturist/exhibitionist - so freely showed myself.
I'm glad that I was always single to basically move laterally to satisfy my pleasures.