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Do we get more kinky as we age?
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I have always been sexual, but in my late thirties my body and its desires went into overdrive. Since then my sex life has been a lot more adventurous
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Most certainly. With age we tend to lose our inhibitions and perhaps the fear of other people's opinions too.
“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”
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I'm 22 and anxious about how much kinkier I can get!
My goodness, you can get much, much kinkier!
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Yes, I think as we age more, the more we become open to new and exotic experiences. Of course, with todays internet and porn, younger people are more educated than we was.
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For sure and without doubt either kinkier or go wholly vanilla trouble is when as a couple we go pppoaiye ways as I know to my cost ?
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Ah, well , I started pretty kinky at a fairly young age, got kinkier. Had a slight pause during a brief marriage, then got kinkier again. Mentally I keep getting kinkier. Reckon I'd be illegal on 6 0f the Continents. Might be ok in Anartica. Unfortunately my body failed me, NOT SEXUALLY RELATED!
So my sex is all mental now and it can be very very kinky, because I have a very dirty, perverted mind with lots of time to think. I think i've created a serious of new perversions, mentally. But even I would never have thought of that furry sex where people wear fuzzy costumes to have sex. LOL Now that's just weird.
So my sex is all mental now and it can be very very kinky, because I have a very dirty, perverted mind with lots of time to think. I think i've created a serious of new perversions, mentally. But even I would never have thought of that furry sex where people wear fuzzy costumes to have sex. LOL Now that's just weird.
kisses, amy
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Not just 'Yeah', but 'Hell Yeah' ! !
As we mature we acquire a greater knowledge of what turns on and what turns off a partner.
As such we also acquire so much more 'Kink'.
Not to mention all the toys and other associated accessories that make life so much more pleasurable.
As we mature we acquire a greater knowledge of what turns on and what turns off a partner.
As such we also acquire so much more 'Kink'.
Not to mention all the toys and other associated accessories that make life so much more pleasurable.
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I hope not... I'll need caged
Caged Candy - now that sounds fun!!!!
colin123
Without a doubt.
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I'm certain of it.
Active Ink Slinger
Can't speak in general terms about it, but in my case most definitely. It's too bad (for me) that I don't have a willing partner. There are so many things I'd like to try.
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By kinky, I assume you mean more confident and experienced? With age comes maturity. On this sit I have met some wonderful relaxed friends, we know what we like, we are relaxed about exploring our desires. We are the Jedi.
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I my case YES. I have the house to myself now, as my children have all moved out.
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I think our desires and limits tend to broaden as we age.
Active Ink Slinger
As I get older, I am trying to decide whether to be a curmudgeon or a dirty old man. I am leaning towards the dirty ole man.
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I think it goes both ways.
As you age, you are more open-minded.
As you age, you (hopefully) become wiser and less reckless.
As you age, you are more open-minded.
As you age, you (hopefully) become wiser and less reckless.
Gentleman Stranger
So much so that it takes considerably longer to work all the kinks out when I get up in the morning!
Seriously though, yes, I think so. More experience, more exposure to what's out there, and less inhibitions or shyness about asking for strange things or seeking new pleasures. You eventually figure out that everyone is thinking the same kinky stuff - and would like to try it - but too many are afraid to voice it. I know I'm much more open-minded about physical things than I was at 20. Or even 30... I'll stop there.
Seriously though, yes, I think so. More experience, more exposure to what's out there, and less inhibitions or shyness about asking for strange things or seeking new pleasures. You eventually figure out that everyone is thinking the same kinky stuff - and would like to try it - but too many are afraid to voice it. I know I'm much more open-minded about physical things than I was at 20. Or even 30... I'll stop there.
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I prefer to think of myself as becoming more open minded
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I certainly hope so
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I think we do. We learn things as we get a little older and wiser. So why not try something you've only thought about? Give it a sot and you may find a new pleasure or experience a new level of happiness. Being a little (or a lot) kinky is a good thing. And at my age, it makes me a dirty old man who's fun to be with! 
Resident Otaku
I think so. I think we start to understand what we like more and start becoming comfortable in our own bodies as we get older. At 16-18 I definitely had the most boring sex which didn't do anything for me.
colin123
We are so kinky even as 60 year olds.
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Speaking from a sample size of one...yes!