My older elitist friends have become more open minded w/ sex.
I just decided to start off earlier.
We tell each other stories and I'm like, yes I did that when I was so and so...you got some catching up to do.
Absolutely.
Our preferences drift and things that we once had zero interest in become intriguing if not alluring. I’m not saying that everyone takes an interest in BDSM at some point, just that we all become more open minded over time when it comes to giving different things a try.
I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
It's a difficult one, my ex who I lost my virginity to was a few years older than and introduced me into the dom/sub world. So I discovered my kinks very early on.
Had I have been with someone my own age I do think it would have taken me longer to discover my kinks.
Without doubt! I do things now that I would not do in my 20s and with more experience the more I dare to try. Also as I have gotten older and more experienced I no longer care what others think or even what they know about me. It is so liberating.
Yes, but only after the internet revealed all.....
Sure do. I'm gonna be pissed if I'm 90 and suck my first cock and find out I enjoy it
For me yes the older i get the more kinkier I becom.. Like someone said above at some point u forget what u have been told or what people think you just want to try new things and live life..
I don't know if humans intrinsically get kinkier as they age, but I certainly have, and I've observed the phenomenon in many of my friends, as well.
I think we do. Madonna was 34 when she came out with her Erotica phase. I read somewhere at the time people were saying she was to old to be seen as sexy or discuss sex. She proved them wrong.
I've reverted to the sexual practices of my youth. Was fairly adventurous and 'kinky' for that era. Then in my late twenties went straight. Remained rather vanilla for decades, & a few years ago. Chucked all that baggage four years ago and been re exploring.
is it more kinky...or is it we become exposed to more variety of things over time...i do things now i nver did when young, but did not know of them then,,,to me seems time and expereince are combined...i do more variety of things sexually, but maybe not as often as i use to...does variety make me more kinky...or the volume of time spent , make me more kinky....ummmmmmm
Yes. When I was in my late teens it was just sex. And now I am older I am willing to try different things. I also find that my partners will try other things. I was with one guy and his ass was a no go area. I gave him a BJ and stuck a finger in him just before he came. He said it was the best orgasm he had ever had. And if we have sex now, he lets be play with his ass.
There is no doubt that this has been true for me, it seems to be pretty common from the comments.
I agree with Mr Curious that kinky may not be the exact word for me. However, I must say as I’ve gotten older I’ve become more confident, know more what I like and don’t like, and much more open minded sexually.
Lush has definitely helped to open my mind and find new and erotic activities that arouse me.
Please read my naughty new Micro.
~Famished~
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/microfiction/famished-1
however you define kinky, I have absolutely gotten kinkier as I age.
I would most definitely say yes.
Yes, we have tried almost everything, we are looking for new excitements and are more willing to try new things. Having said that, I was looking after the daughter of a close friend not too long ago, the girl was only 16, and would not take no for an answer. After finally giving in to her, she taught me a few things in the two weeks that she was with me. At that age, they are so imaginative and have the energy and physical ability to get into positions that I did not think possible.
I think so, its about being confident to explore sex & get more adventurous
Yes, in the last ten years, certainly. A by-product of the advent of the internet, Literotica, Tumblr, Lush Stories, etc. Hell, before all that I though kink was something annoying that happened with your garden hose....
Yes, the older you we have gotten, the more we do not care about being scared about trying something new.
Truly I believe you do. I know I have. As I have gotten older I have found that I enjoy doing the more risky stuff in some very public places
based on time and experience. Hell yes, isn't it great?
